If you have been dating this guy for 1 years and just now having sex, then he's in it for the long haul and not for a booty call. NOBODY spends that much time with a woman just for a one-night stand. Guys will lie about anything to get into your pants but the effort taken is the deciding factor if he is just in it for the sex. The greater the effort and time spent with you, the less chance for an erotic encounter.
You really cannot tell easily during sex but you can do so before and after sex. How to tell before sex? That was mostly given already. But another way is to talk with him directly about sex with you. If he gets complicated or to giddy, then take warning.
After sex is when the truth comes out. If the is still with you the next day and eager to stay with you, it looks good. More talking is needed here. See above suggestion on what to look for in his reaction.
Even though this is a different argument, one should never look at sex as a bad thing. Sure you are looking for more than just a one night stand but do not be upset that you had sex. After all, a woman does not have sex with just anybody.
Are the lights usually off, does it take a min for him to get off, is he rough? How you know a lot of eye contact, kissing, foreplay, but most importantly you must be 18
Um, how long have you been together? If you've been together for a short period of time and he's having sex for you, then you really can't tell. Girls should never give it up to guys early in the relationship. Then how do you know if he likes you or just wants sex?
You mean how do you know if he's using you as more than a one night stand? Well, the way to do it, the way I did it in the past with one guy was I asked him straight out, after we had had sex a few times, "Tell me honestly, do you like me, or are you using me? I won't be upset unless you lie to me. " we'd been drinking a bit when I asked that, but I got an honest answer of "look, you're a cool girl but I'm just having fun. "
Again, after reading how you re-worded your question, there is really no way to tell. It is best to just ask. Making love, in my opinion, is gentle and slow, but me and my boyfriend do it all at different times, have sex, f***, and make love. When we have sex and f***, we still love each other just as much as we do when we make love. - 6 months ago
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