How far is too far?

The only one who can decide "how far is too far" for you is *you*, and I don't think that making out after a few days is too far at all. But like the other posters suggested, definitely let him know about your personal boundaries - the sooner he is made aware, the better off the both of you will be in the long run.

First off, I think it is better to be open about your convictions on no-sex-until-marriage up front. Stringing him along if he has different goals than yours would be a bummer for him. You can certainly find a boyfriend who would be willing to wait if this one isn't.

I'd say your speed of the developing relationship is normal for college.

The choice to abstain is yours. Personally both my wife and I dated for five years and our firsts were our wedding night. Totally worth if from my perspective. Anyone can wait if they really want.

As for how far is too far, the best answer I've heard was to think about your future spouse. What things would bother you thinking about what he had done with some other girl before you get married.

You're cute. You have the days all cited and stuff. It's adorable. Unfortunately that is very slow. You're in college, and unfortunately guys have motives in college. I would just simply sit down with him and discuss this matter. If he respects you and does in fact like you, he will respect your wishes about abstinence. If he does decide to stay, I'd advise doing some jaw exercises, because you're gonna be busy.

I personally think that the best age to have sex is 16-20, if you don't plan on having sexual relationships tell marriage don't get surprised if your friend dumps you. Men need sexual satisfaction and if he won't get it from you he will get it from someone else...

i guess it would be normal. I've been with my guy for about a week, though we've been dating for about a month and we've done pretty much everything BUT sex, including making out, 69, dry humping, tit f***ing...the only reason we didn't go all the way is because we didn't have a condom when we had the chance. this is just me, though. everyone goes at their own pace, so don't worry about it.
about saving yourself until marriage, that's a personal choice, but don't let the pressures of college make that choice for you. personally, I see sex as one of the last natural things that humans do, and I personally cherish that. it's like a reminder that we can still be one with the earth and primitive, and it's also a way to show that you care a bout a person and want them to be happy.
either way, good luck and I hope everything turns out alright for you. and no matter what you do, never let yourself live on regret.

before you let it go any further, let him know that you have a line you won't be crossing. don't wait until you get to the line till you tell him that it won't go any further.
and to answer your question, no, you are not moving too fast. but if you don't plan on letting the relationship develop naturally, aka, having sex when you feel ready to, then you need to let him know, so he doesn't feel like an ass for wanting it, when you are never going to.

Well first off, making out even before you're official is normal and isn't really pushing anything.

This depends on what you consider "staying abstinent". Does that mean no intercourse for you, while allowing other forms of sex (i.e- touching, oral)? Or does that mean you'll never see someone/or be seen naked till you're married?

I think no matter, if you do or do not want to have sex before marriage waiting a couple months to become "sexual" I think is a good idea, though I've personally never made it that long.

Most importantly, does he know you do not plan on having sex? If he is unaware, this can be a HUGE issue. I personally would never date a guy with those sentiments, I believe in responsibility and taking time but I don't want anyone who isn't open about their sexual needs as well as mine. Also, I need to know if I'm sexually compatible with someone waaaayy before I spend years on our relationship and get married. A bad sex life can and will destroy a marriage. Fuck if I held out and found out my man wouldn't give me oral I'd probably be the most miserable wife to live with. I would also need to live with someone before I marry to ensure we can live together healthily. Though my boyfriend once told me he would be willing to wait till marriage for me and I thought this was sweet.