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Do I give him what he wants or do I make him wait?

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9252babe (Age:18 to 24)     When: A month ago
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ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 or 8 months. I'm still a virgin and so is he. but the thing is he wants to have sex as soon as possible. he says that he will wait until I am comfortable but I really don't think that is what he wants to do. I mean I have no problem with having sex with him but I kinda think that its just because he is telling his friends he can bang me before they can bang their girlfriends, he has never lied to me before and he says that is not what is going on but this is the first time I am doubting what he has to say about it. I am pretty sure I love him but still I don't know if I should have sex with him as soon as he wants. he says he won't leave me if I am not ready but how do I trust him? am I just being paranoid because it is my first time? or is something about him really giving me that feeling? ahhh I don't know what to do please help me! guys, how long are you willing to wait for a girl if you have been in a 8 month relationship? girls, would you give into him and just forget about it thinking you are just paranoid?


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HauntyFeen
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HauntyFeen      When: A month ago
Well you seem ready, there's no 'making him wait' involved, he's been doing that 8 months. I don't see why you shouldn't share something beautiful?
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WaitingAtTheDoor      When: A month ago
First, I can't tell if you have reason to not believe him, because you didn't give a reason to why you feel that way, other than you just have a feeling.

What makes you think he is bragging to his friends about having sex with you before they have sex with their significant others?

Aside from that, you should only have sex when you are ready, not when someone else is ready.

Even though sex takes two people, both people have to be ready to take that step in order for it to be fulfilling and fun.

As far as my standard for waiting, it has changed over time. When I was 18, I typically dated girls my age, and they were more insecure of taking that step, and tended to want to wait.

As I have gotten older, the age range I date has expanded, and as such, I've found that I don't have to wait as much, nor do I expect to.

And specifically in my age range, which is 25-29, if a girl at this point has a problem with sex, it's less likely that it has to do with her being a virgin, so much as it has to do with her interest in you, so it's typically a tell-tale sign it's not going to be a good relationship.
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
I'm 27 and still a virgin. I'm waiting for that girl that gives meaning to our relationship not just a fling or some wild story as to why I need to be with her and only her.

I've been in several long term relationships and all of them have ended the same way, I'm not committed enough. To them commitment meant sex because we were in a relationship. Can you believe that? Just because you are dating exclusively doesn't mean you have to be with a person for just the sex. There are other more meaningful avenues to explore but I guess in my experience that's just a bunch of nonsense.

Just remember what they say, the first time is always remembered, good or bad.
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xsimplyxpaigex I truly admire this! A relationship should be based on love and not sex. Most young adults nowadays, will not stay with someone if sex isn't involved. - A month ago
Queen-Of-Spiders I love what you said here. You sound like a great guy. - A month ago

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