How can a woman be good in bed?

Good in bed to me is interaction. Getting into it a lot. Random timing, and very demanding. Like tell him your his slut and just go for the gusto. But most of all be very approaching to him guys love the challenge in bed not out of it tho lol

Being confident, enthusiastic, and having a good abliity to suck and fuck her man vigorously.

I think there are 2 facts...
First. good communication with your boyfriend or husband (if he know what a men should now about sex ), if he`s not the men that like improve in bed.. just read about how to improve in bed, sexual positions, orgasm tips (men and women), new ideas.

Second one is to watch some porn.. not the nasty and ugly pron... just the good porn, because girls can learn how to do more thinks in bed, they can see how thinks can go better in certain ways...

I like it when my girlfriend is submissive. I generally tend to lead and she really likes it. So what I'm saying is that its not really the womans job to be a good leader. Just a good follower. But everyone is different. You can tell a lot about a person by their fantasies. So talk to him about his and yours. Some women fantasize about being the seductive yet submissive woman and the man taking charge. Surprisingly to the extreme of some women turned on by the fantasy of being rapped. And then there are the woman who fantasize about being the dominant one. Just talk about you fantasies with whom ever you are with and play them out

Simple. Call it the fabulous four:

1. Be aggressive. Don't be shy, take charge.
2. Go oral, I have never met a man that said '. Yeah, she gave me a BJ and I hated it"
3. Make some nice noise. Moan, whine, whisper our name in passion, whatever. It's all good.

4. (here's the kicker! ). Orgasm. There's NOTHING sexier to a guy like me, than knowing that you just made your woman pop. It's like a cat showing you it's kill. "this is what I can do for you". Teach your guy how to help you pop.

If you act excited about trying new positions that is awesome. Make sex fun and comfortable. Generally a guy knows what he wants (we think about it a lot haha) try not to shut him down. If you don't like one idea, suggest something else.

Also push into it and move, make noise (doesn't have to be screaming but just quiet sounds of pleasure are great), and trying being the one to start things off.

Don't lay there motionless. Make noise. Remember his name, use it a few times. Honestly, do what you can with his. Err. 'toolkit' to please yourself. Unless you are abusing his penis and leaving bruises (Yes that has happened, no don't do it) he probably digs it. Be suggestive. You know, like they say in the service industry "Suggestive sale".

For one thing, enthusiasm! When a guy sees that she likes what is going on, he loves it.
Also, her talentedness for being able to s_ck and f_ck like there is no tomorrow is also fantastic too!

I think he main thing is to find out what your partner is into and likes. Everyone is different and may like or dislike different things. One guy may love you being in charge when another may like you being submissive. I know that is not a very definitive answer. So I will give you one thing that a partner did that drove me crazy. When she was on top she would slow her pace way down and raise up to almost the top of my shaft, where all that was still in he was the head of my penis. When she got to this point she would kegel a couple of times, and slowly lower herself back down. Then do it all over again. It produced some of the most intense orgasms I ever had. Hope that helps. Wow I have not thought of her in a long time.

The things that make a woman good in bed is she has to be sexy and the rest is all about pleasure and how good the guy thinks it is good

I have been told it's that I am passionate, and sort of playful in bed. Open to new things, keeping my boyfriends pleasure as well as my own in mind and doing it because I want to, not just because he wants it.

I am a woman and have been told that my energy, willingness to try anything and my expertise at oral sex made me good in bed.