I want My Girlfriend To Have Labia plasty After She Has The Baby. How Can I Convince Her?

You SHITHEAD! Dude! She is giving you an heir you idiot! She is going through so much by being pregnant! AND THE PAIN SHE GOING TO HAVE WHILE IN LABOUR!
If she doesn't want to do it (which I think she shouldn't) and you threaten her with anything (like leaving her) she should run the other way as fast as she can!

Aww. Ohk, I am going to go ahead and stick up for this guy (yes, even though he's an ass) because I think it's fair to be concerned about your sex life after a kid.
First of all- things will go back to normal. TONS of women have babies and their vaginas don't get completely blown out beyond recognition. Bodies bounce back, they were designed to. She may be a a little different, but probably not as different as you think.
Second- if her body is so dramatically different, that it ruins sex for you, try tightening lubes, which do actually work. Or have sex in other ways like oral and anal if vaginal sex doesn't work for you anymore.

Surgery is pretty dramatic and unnecessary. Don't bring that up to her.

I just came to insult, but everyone else is doing a great job! A labia plasty won't make her tighter anyway which makes me think you don't even know what labia are.

that poor child is gonna have a jerk for a father :(

stop kidding yourself, you are NOT doing it for the both of you!

Wow what a jerk. I would be p*ssed at you too if you were my boyfriend and no not because of hormones. Suggesting a c-section for no reason other than keeping her tight is just stupid and selfish. And don't even claim it's not selfish because the only benefit out of getting a c-section for no reason is her being tighter for you. FOR YOU. By suggesting this you are insulting her and probably making her slightly regret getting pregnant if you are going to act this way. Clearly you don't love her enough to get over this because if you love someone you wouldn't insult them like that and suggest unnecessary surgery. Maybe many guys think this but the smart ones at least keep it to themselves...

It's not hormones! You're being a jerk. And incredibly selfish. Having a baby is natural, and she didn't get pregnant on her own. God sometimes I wish guys were the ones that got pregnant so you can see what it's like. She's already *extremely* sensitive about how her body will look after she has the baby. There is nothing a woman appreciates more than a man who says that none of that stuff matters and that she will be beautiful to him no matter what. But no, you ask her to cut her stomach open, which will leave a huge scar, or get surgery on her vagina? What a selfish ass. She could do better.

You are being very inconsiderate. She is about to go through one of the worst pains of her life and all you can think about is yourself? What the f*** is wrong with you!? Not to mention there are several things that can go wrong during child-birth, especially if she has a C-Section. So, what you're saying is you are willing to risk her life and the life of your child just to save your sex life?

I had a baby nearly 6 months ago. Child-birth is nothing to beat around the bush about. Its painful, but well worth it! I had to have an episiotomy. (that's where the doctor cuts from a girl's vagina to her anus to make the delivery easier) I was so worried about my sex life. I thought I'd be loose and sex would be awful. On the contrary, postpartum sex is a lot better than sex before I got pregnant! I'm not loose. In fact, I think when the doctor stitched me back up, he made me a bit tighter. I asked my boyfriend if sex has been less enjoyable since our daughter has been born and he said if feels the same if not better.

So, you are worrying about nothing. I feel bad for your girlfriend. She probably feels like sh*t. And NO, it has nothing to do with her hormones! You're just an ass. Nice going.

Wow you are such a selfish jerk. Do you honestly think the reason she got made was because of "hormones you're guessing"...uhh no its because it's so ridiculous that the most important thing to you that you're worried about is whether or not she will be tight after.. you should just be thankful that you have her in your life and that she is having your child! She has enough stress with being pregnant, you being worried about whether or not she will still be tight should be the last thing that she should have to deal with...

How about if she asked you to have an extension/expansion implant inserted into your penis to help HER pleasure? Hey, it will help you both be happy and have a good sex life.

You are pretty selfish to be requesting major surgery of both your significant other and your unborn child (who can't speak for itself) all for the sake of keeping her "tight." And AFTER you suggest major surgery and she refuses, you continue to push the issue by requesting she undergo surgery in an area that just squeezed a baby out of it. Do you realize that despite how great medical care is these days, women still DIE during labor and even afterward? Of course she got upset with you - any sane woman would if it seemed that the safety of her and her baby was secondary to your satisfaction with your sex life. Maybe instead of her undergoing surgery to make herself "tighter" you should undergo surgery to make yourself larger.

Kegel exercises should be enough to return her back to her original state if she does them regularly enough. In fact, it would be a wise idea if she started now as it can make the birthing process easier.

Try putting a ring on her finger... maybe if she can see that you are able to commit to her fully she'd be willing to go through the pain of that procedure (which by the way, I'm sure has a recovery time that involves abstaining from sex... since that seems to be your priority).

she is carrying your child and all you're thinking about is how her vag will look and feel afterwards? what about baby names? and I'm pretty sure she isn't excited about getting a saggy vag either. but she's compromising her body for you and YOUR child. just be happy about that. sex will still be great.

You're girlfriend's seven months pregnant. The last thing she needs right now is her boyfriends telling her that her vagina won't be good enough for him after she has a baby. Definitely don't mention it while she's still pregnant. You should wait until after she gives birth to see if its really that much looser down there. If you think its really that bad then maybe casually mention it to her, but you shouldn't press the issue on her. Its her body and she shouldn't be pressured to do something to herself that she doesn't want to.

ass

You're a definite asshole. You don't deserve her or your kid. You're selfish. You probably cheat on her anyway, so continue to do so. She is having your baby which is a big deal to her. Way to sound like a complete douche bag.

Let me get this straight.Your girlfriend of 3 years,is pregnant,carrying your child,a human being inside her body for 9 months,and she's going to have to push a HUMAN out of a small tiny hole,and you're worried about labia plasty and vaginal rejuvenation,while she's more than likely worried about the pain,the human coming out of her,her body,how attractive she is to you,if you'll ever want to have sex with her again and if she'll be a good mommy.Dude,if my girl was pregnant,i would be kissing her ass and feet,no joke.It would be an honor for my girl to carry my child,i would be taking care of her and spoiling her and being there for her.The vagina goes back to "normal"
it stretches and goes back to it's original size,although of course,after a human being has passed through there it will idk,never be the same.You should be happy she's doing kegels now,cause they help prepare the vagina and body for birth and make it easier,also,making recovery easier,and she said she would do them after wards,that's enough.No wonder there's a bunch of chicks on here asking Qs about Labia plasty and liposuction of Mons pubis and this and that.
She's 7 months pregnant you say?You have 2 months to grow up, and stop being a selfish a**

I can't think of anything to say other than dude, you're a d***.