Do men lose their sex drives?

Not at your ages. Unless he is WAY older than you. Several things can be at play here.

He just might be worn out. Guys DO have a thing called endurance. We need to recharge our batteries so-to-speak. Some guys just sleep, others go out and eat a couple dozen oysters... or drink a few raw eggs...

Thing is dearie, women have a near limitless capability to engage in sex if they desire. I once ate a girl for 45 minutes while she had one long rolling orgasm that just went on and on. It got to the point that my tongue was so sore I could barely talk afterward. You need to realize that women can do that where a man cannot.

It is not a matter of complying to meet your needs hon. It's probably just that he is exhausted and cannot go again till he's rested some.

I gotta say women like you are very ironic. I dated one a while back. After having sex for FIFTEEN hours I simply just couldn't get it up anymore LOL (We would have sex for 40-65. The 65 minutes was at the point where there just wasn't any sperm left so I was probably shooting blanks at that point. until I came then I would lick her clit and rub her breasts for a good 10 minutes then we have sex again and just rinse and repeat until the 4th cumming. THEN she left for 3 hours and brought back viagra -_- that ironic nightmare is the reason I'm not with her anymore lol. My poor penis. Then the very next morning she was ready to go again (despite what appeared to be 13 orgasms the day prior...), but I had nothing left to give so I just went the giving head route.

Guy's DO have a limit despite popular belief. The limit is generally about 7 "shots" a week, but it does go down with age. Anything more then that will result in a severe case of temporary erectile dysfunction. (took me a week to get my d*** hard again lol)

He's so lucky to be married to a woman who expects him to say "how high" when she shouts "jump."

You're so compassionate and understanding to consider petty vindictiveness to make your point.

Men can not just yield to the sexual desire of their partners since they need to get hard.

However, in the game of seduction, it is better when a woman does not make a too direct approach. Following are necessary for you to get him turned on:

1. Get him into a good and happy mood
2. spend time talking and having a good time
3. Dress sexy but be a little coy

This should get him to initiate sex.

Other option is to get him excited orally so that he wants sex.

I don't, but most males have to reload on their sperm and give their penis a break. Its great you want it every day but maybe you can mix it up to just feeling and rubbing. Sex isn't everything. Think outside the box. Plus if he can only make you climax by putting his d*** down there, then he needs to go back to school and learn

With age.. men's sex hormone (testostorone) gradually decrease.. So yes.

The problem is, if an guys not getting turned on he can't have sex (needs to be hard).
Where as, a girl can have sex without being turned out (but admittedly its no fun for her).
So its a double standard of nature unfortunately.

Having said that, you can always turn a guy on if your cunning enough ;). He won't feel horney if your go direct at it, but if you make like its fine that he's not but you are real subitle in the way you cuddle up you can proabaly get what you need (unless he's wanking behind your back, figuritively speaking lol. or he's got a problem he won't admit to).

Yes, all men can have diminished sex drives with age, lack of use and or poor diet.

Check out the many sites dedicated to sex diets. Feed him the right stuff and you'll be back on your dailys.

Yes in short, can it be revved up again... yes.

Stress plays a big part and having someone who can cheer you on so it doesn't feel like yet another responsibility you have in life makes the difference.

Now I am not saying that is the norm but I have had relationships where in my head I lose heart while in the act cause I start thinking "Man I'm working my ass off, every muscle is tired and she is loving it but is in her own damn world. Can I get some feedback, can I get some cheerleading. Fuck this man if she can't help me do this then she can do it herself."

Then sex drive left and took a while to come back. Not saying your doing this at all but yea it can turn off at times.

I would say every man is different. If you guys have been fighting it would make sense that he is not "feeling it". But if he is just "not in the mood", maybe something else is competing for his attention. Football? Stress at work?

Rather than go tit for tat, try talking it out. Telling him no because he told you no means you go without twice. If he says he is not horny, suggest that you are, and you are willing to help him get there. Suggest porn, or oral, or whatever you know he likes best. Appeal to the thing that he prefers that you usually resist. This will let him know that you really want him.

There is one other thought to consider and explore. Is his answer based on his own self centered needs? Is he selfish in other areas? If so this needs to be addressed and it might take professional help to get to a place that your marriage is safe.

The sad things is, the more he ignores/rejects you, the more likely you will end up finding IT somewhere else.

Good Luck,
James

Sex drives have ups and downs, one day/week, month/year active like a hamster, seven times a day, much less at another time. Depends on state of mind, fatigue, period of the year...
Do women lose their sex drives? No, neither.
Women don't need an erection to have sex , that makes quite a difference (men are often ashamed if they don't get one on command)

its not his fault but its hard on a guy to do it everyday. especially since women have the hole that can be used or not while men have a stick and if it ain't hard it don't work so its not him but really the energy isn't there. Women are based of emotions and can have MANY orgasms throughout the day while guys can bust a nut up to like 3 times a day? and after that its just tiring if you do it for 7 days straight.

I've only lost my sex drive once in the past 15 years which happened last year when I parked my truck at a hotel in Detroit. Just when I had shutdown and almost stepped out of my vehicle, one of the nastiest strollers approached me for "business". She was old, wrinkly, had almost no teeth, smelled like sh*t and had a deeper voice than most men I know! My penis crawled up my belly and didn't come out until hours later!

I'm normally horny as hell every day, that was the first time I didn't think about woman once all day! Screwed me up

Yep, we lose our sex drives. That's when a good marriage keeps couples together.

Don't turn it into a competition, as it seems you're thinking about. Cooperation is better, much better.

He could be 'tired out' from all the action.

Ted

Yes we do, and so will you too. It changes, and everybody's libido is different. He won't go without sex for long, it's just a little slow right now.

not really lose it but he can be tired. people also have different times of the day that are better for sex than others. now is the time to invest in a vibe, if you are using it in the bed beside him, I will tell you that he will join in with you 100% of the time.

Yes. Men and women can both become disinterested in sex. I fear you have taken the double-standard that we hold you to, and held it to us out of spite. That's fair... but we're only human.

Both sexes lose their sex drives for various reasons.

That being said, the real problem here is how your husband handled the situation. Men tend not to understand putting their partner's needs before their own as well as women do. Likely he doesn't understand you have sex with him even when you're not really in the mood. You need to talk with him about it in a calm manner (don't come off as attacking him or he'll just get defensive and clam up). Explain what you do for him and what you feel he should do for you. But I would establish that while it's good to engage in sex even if you're not in the mood, it's okay for either one of you to decline sex when you REALLY don't want it. Just don't be rude about it to hurt the others feelings.

We do get burnt out from time to time. Is it possible that on day 6 or 7 he may have already starrted the having sex because you were in the mood? For me, I can go once a day every day. If you start throwing in multiple rounds though everyday the penis will get worn out and may even stop from getting erect and need a day or 2 to recover.

For guys, sex is like chocolate, you can either have not enough or too much but you can't have just enough. That's why I call chocolate devil's food. I've had an instance or 2 where I just kept going round after round in one night until my body quit on me even though I wanted to keep going.

Every man wants to have pride in their penis, and if we can't get it up regardless if it's just been from over use, we would still just rather say I'm not in the mood. It's just physics, a guy can still enter a girl wether or not she's horny, but a penis will have a difficult time getting in if it can't get erect. If you really want to continue once a guy has reached that point, you can only expect a tongue or fingers. You should talk with him and let him know that's an option if you want to keep going when you want it.

I'm not a Duracell rabbit:)... of course sometimes I lose my sex drive, but usually it comes back pretty quick or for about some days as longest.

But when having a long break, I can go mad, sad or frustrated, it feels then like I'm about to explode of...testosterone.

That's how I work.

I wouldn't know yet lol. Biologically, EVENTUALLY, older men do I've read. But I'm not going to get into that as I don't think that's the case here. I'll make it simple: if you love chocolate cake, and you sit at a table one day on an empty stomach and eat as much as you can of your favorite cake until you're full, do you want to eat some more of that cake in about 15 minutes? Now, that doesn't mean it isn't your favorite cake or that you will never have thar cake again, it's just that you've already your fix for time being.

And a lot of things contribute to why he may not have been in the mood. Sometimes stress and preoccupation can get to men, and seeing as how we're no longer little boys who would even have sex after just getting beat up by some bully, "big kid" problems sometimes weigh heavily and sex at those times aren't always necessarily a priority.

Ouch, you are scaring me. Technically if one wants it the other has to agree, and be happy while doing it. He did do it all week though... cmon all good thing come to an end, or you could hold him down and take it but then he might be tender down there from all week give him some slack, take the time to recuperate and maybe think up new things to do?

I'm having the same problem with my man. We only have sex when he wants it.. but when I want it, it's always "later" then it never happens. I think around age 24 the sex drive slows down a bit.. It's annoying because at this age, it when womens sex drive is the highest! It's not fair!

What I've heard is, girls get increased sex drive with more sex, but with guys, it's not as consistent. It's so unfair...

Regardless, if he's distracted or something, his sex drive's obviously going to drop.

my man loses his sex drive, when I am not into it, he gets mad leaves the bed and watches TV. Even if I try to get him back, it doesn't work, he says he doesn't want anymore. Go figure!

Everyone's sex drive goes up and down- depending on your energy, stress-level, etc. When things are going well for me, I want sex all the time, but when things get stressing at work or I have a lot going on in my life, I just don't have the energy or drive for anything else. You could help boost his mood and sex drive-- help him relax, talk with him about his day, make a romantic dinner for the two of you, etc. His sex drive will come back quickly

Women can have sex without being turned on, but guys have a bit of a performance issue to deal with if they are not feeling it. It is not like they can perform with a flip of a switch. However, he could give you an orgasm without having intercourse, if that is what you want. And as far as when anyone wants to have sex, well, yes, even guys have their down times.

ya my boyfriend never seems to have one for some reason its very odd to me!

OMG I know what you mean! I don't expect it every day or anything. But like we'll go a day or two without it and I am SO turned on, I try and he tells me he is tired. Which I know he is. We work A LOT. But I work just as much as him. It drives me crazy. Even when I am really, really tired I make myself wake up enough to have sex because I know he is turned on. He should do the same for me! And it's not like force like the one guy said, or that I don't enjoy it. It that I just have to work a little harder to get in the mood. Can't he meet half way too?