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How do I have sex with my wife when she's always tired?

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theonlyone (Age:25 to 29)     When: 5 months ago
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Well I work a 2nd shift job and she works a 1st. Shes always tired and doesn't want any at all almost for 2 months now. And when I'm tired I feel the same way but she puts it in a spin, she'll say things like go get some from your whores or who have you been f***ing and she knows I haven't been. I'm wondering do you think she could be getting it somewhere else? I'm not I'll be honest with you.

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Anonymous User (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
Go out of your way to be romantic and make her feel loved, wanted, desired and sexy. Let her know how beautiful you think she is. Act like you did when you were first dating. If a woman feels attractive to you she will be much more likely to respond to your advances. And PLEASE never turn her down, we don't take rejection in that way very well at all. It is hard for a woman to approach the man for sex sometimes and when you turn her down it is devastating and she may be really hurt if you have done that.
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scorpio23 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
She is working now imagine when she has kids. She will have less time for you poor baby boy LOL.
tell her if she still loves you and romance her and make dinner and give her a massage and make out. I hope that lends to sex.

The longest I gone without sex was 1 month and I was in mexico with family and my man was at home. I can't go without sex. My man knows that when I'M NAKED is time and when I have clothes on I'm on PMS lol.

All this to say. I make time for my loving and you should too and see a therapist maybe she has issues or some crap.

When my man is bad mood I give him a bj and if you can't even get that from her. Than is her with the problem not you and you should get her to see a therapist or tell her to talk to you what is wrong.

And that you want to fix it.
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mayana (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Either you, or her, or both may need to take it a little slower with your work. If you really can not modify your schedules, try to make those days that you both have off, relaxing. Put some other things on hold and once in a while enjoy yourself. Go see a movie, go to the dinner, have a massage as a couple, walk to a park, or take a short trip.
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idkwhatodo (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
If it's really bugging you that much-you should switch your hours. Or take a week off and have her take a week off too and have a vacation and get to know what's going on with your girl-something is bothering her-it's probably that she thinks you don't spend enough time with her. So take some time and try to figure out what's going on in her head-make her feel important-give her lots of attention
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Smittymd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
My question for you is if you are not getting any how in the world can you turn her down when she wants to have sex. Doesn't make any sense to me. I believe that she got mad at you because you turned her down when she was ready to go. You really need to treat your wife to a nice dinner. Just because you put the ring on her finger doesn't mean that the courtship should be placed on the shelf. Set up a time when both of you have the evening off and take her on a date. And if you two don't have a day off together, than be the man in the relationship and be will to bend and have a nice date on a day that you work.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Sounds like you two need a nice holiday, take a luxury cruise, make a romantic date. Or surprise her the next time she comes home with champagne or whatever turns her on, like a porn movie ;), all depends on taste. Tell her you love her everyday, but keep it authentic and romantic. She needs some emotional support and some well planned and authentic romance. How old is she? You both want it, just make it happen. Communicate all the time.
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Superstrength79 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
It's always a bad idea to reject a woman when she's in the mood. She may just be expressing her feelings about it poorly. I don't think she is cheating on you, but what about trying during a different time of day? Do you both have 12 hour shifts or something? Or does the company have 8h/8h/8h shifts?
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