Once I give my husband a blow job how what's the best way to get him "hard" again so we can continue? I hate to not finish him off but I feel a bit neglected if I do.
Update: yeah I am just now getting comfortable pleasuring him that way.. I had a bad experience ALONG time ago...I wasn't sure if I am expecting too much... I have raging pregnancy hormones going on (32 weeks) and I want to do anything I can to make him happy..
A month ago
Update: I have yet to be able to get him to do oral on me :( I just don't know how to convince him to give it a try.
A month ago
Update: do the prolonging creams really work?
A month ago
My wife and I ran into this "problem" before we had the girls. The answer is simple: Go the whole 9 yards. Let your husband "pop" in your mouth on a regular basis. I know it's nasty... so, why would you do this?
Simple. Because the man will worship you. You will start getting blueberry or chocolate-chip pancakes for breakfast, you will start getting soothing back rubs complete with exotic message-oils, and most importantly... you, yourself, will start getting incredible head.
If you follow my advice, your husband will not be able to keep his tongue out of your bikini area. How do I know this? My beloved D has become a blow-job artist, in all our years of heart-felt marriage. As a result of this, when I get "anxious" for her, I tend to salivate, because I keep trying to out-do myself from my last performance.
Whatever you do, I would say that true love, at the deepest levels, is always a best-of-friends relationship. It's more than friends, but it's always two-friends-as-equals in my mind.
Thanks you.. its nice to get a married man's perspective on this. I am working on the first thing alot..he works 3rd shift so we only have two night a week to ourselves.. Hopefully I can try it out tonight or tomorrow nite.. - A month ago
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Just wanted to let you now it worked..I surprised him while he was watching a ball game.. he turned off the game and took care of me...Your advice helped a lot and I told DH where I got it from and he was thankful. - A month ago
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You're welcome! Glad your husband responded.... if there's one thing that D has taught me all through these years, "treat her like a Lady, and she'll never let you forget that your a man"...LOL - A month ago
It is going to depend on the guy, but you could just switch to some other type of foreplay after he as ejaculated for however long it takes. Him giving you oral is a great option, or fingering you, or you could do a strip tease/lap dance after to kill some time. He will probably need some physical stimulation to get going again.
Have you thought about not finishing the job? Go about a little bit in but don't make him come then before he can say hey I wanna finish jump on and have sum fun. Other than that I can only think of viagra but he should only take like half a pill because he doesn't have issues like E.D.
Odd, I was under the impression that we guys last longer. Usually blow jobs are not enough to make us come if you've been doing them for about a few weeks or a month. We get used to it and learn to last longer. Ask him to take some pills, not "size enhancement" as there's no such thing, but performance ones. That might help. Or maybe you should perform a shorter fellatio.
why not have him perform oral on you then too once you are done with him. once you orgasm he should be ready for round 2. or else you can not finish him off and just use it as a starter to get him hard and in the mood. he could also use a vibe on you while he waits or you could use the vibe yourself while he watches. it could be a turn on for him to watch.
Every guy is different in this regard. How long does it take him to recover after he has had an orgasm? If it's a long time, don't make him come from oral so you two can have sex afterward. Or, if he does come then get him to do oral on you to get you off.
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