How can I turn him on?

PLay with yourself in front of him. Don't let him touch you at all. Make him pull off all his clothes and don't let him touch you or himself. Make sure you all naked and trust me, just watching you play with yourself with get him very hard. At the last minute, before you make yourself cum, tell him to jack it off as quick as he can so you can finish together. Then lick each other's fingers.
Yeah, that'll be hot ;-)

do some sexy dance for his birthday and then let him have your tities. that should be enough for the kiddo :-D

Like his ear or nipples you f***ing idiot,think.

Don't worry too much! There's lots of, um, performance anxiety that goes along with your first time together and his first time ever. He'll probably be really worried about impressing you and being "good enough," which can be awkward at best and at worst, can interfere with physical arousal.

You've known each other for a year, so by now I'm sure you have some idea what kind of atmosphere (music? lighting? clothes? lingerie? toys? etc.) each other is into. Go along with what you know, make out with each other or whatever you usually do, and try to be playful, low-pressure and comfortable with yourself and each other. Easier said than done, but you know what I mean. Anything you can do to make him feel wanted and not too insecure will help.

Of course, the most effective way to turn him on is to simply be what you are: the girl he's got a crush on, taking off your clothes and showing him you want to have sex with him. That works pretty well on all of us regardless of age or experience level :D

You shouldn't to do anything physically to him to get him turned on, a man can get turned on just by looking at you. So remember to talk dirty and you shouldn't fail. Also, if he is a virgin how does he know that he doesn't like blowjobs? Perhaps he is just put off by the idea of it but would actually love it.

Okay, if the man is a virgin, and you want to "spice things up"... I'd be careful. You might have liftoff before you even commence the countdown... if you get what I'm saying.

Passionate kissing and some groping should be more than enough for him. You need to pace yourselves, or you may end up frustrated that it ends faster than the foreplay lasted.

find a way to keep dim lighting in the room (I never understood sex in the dark- such a silly concept). Music can be distracting for some (which may actually be a good idea for him). No need for gadgets or cheesy lingerie. Just try to make it as natural as possible. You've got plenty of time to bust out with the goodies. Ease yourself into it.

Oh, and don't forget to protect yourselves! A condom is good for obvious reasons, but it may also make him last longer. Just FYI

Yeah just wear something really sexy that you know he gonna like! talk to him dirty, give him a really good (fast) handjop and mayby blowjop (Trust me he gonna love it) .

You won't have to do anything to make him hard. He's 19. Just thinking about seeing you naked should be enough.

I take it you know what kinds of music he likes if you've been with him for a year...

- Wear some amazing lingerie under a couple of layers
- Make out; slip his top off, perhaps his jeans also. He can take some of your clothes off but you still have to be wearing enough to be decent
- Tell him to take a seat (in a chair opposite the bed is good) and not move a muscle
- Get that music going and start dancing opposite him
- Give him a little striptease, slow and sexy, lots of eye contact
- Get down to your underwear and give him little peeks at what's beneath (top half only!)
- Kneel in his lap (no he's still not allowed to move) and give him a lapdance
- Let him see properly what's under your bra
- Dance a little more then lose it
- Talk quietly into his ear about something sexy, run your fingers across his chest and around his boxer waistband - and no he's still not allowed to move
- Tease as if you're going to take your knickers off
- Get up and walk to the bed; give him a full view of your bum
- Bend over onto the bed and wiggle a little
- Flip over and sit down, flip your hair over your shoulder, spread your legs and finger yourself
- Get yourself in the mood, pleasure yourself, have fun, get him to count down from 20 until he can have you, slowly
- Tell him he's not counting slowly enough
- Keep going
- Reach zero

What happens next is up to you ;)

Wow I'm not a guy but I think I can help well since he doesn't like blow jobs he has had one and is a vagina virgin as I would say so maybe you should dress in sexy lingerie and dance or even use body oils and rub him down

make him feel safe around you..make sure its not unconfortable when he's getting undressed..just go with it (be safe haha) be sure you trust him enough not 2 leave you after you have sex..

let him know how big his package is & that you enjoy it very much. =) works all the time

He doesn't like blow jobs? I don't think I've ever heard a guy say that. Perhaps he hasn't had a female that has done it the right way?
You can turn him on by texting him photos of your in sexy lingerie.
You can even try by making out with him, touching him, or even giving him hickeys.

You don't need to put much effort on turning a guy on!
Specially, if the guy is your lover for a YEAR!
he would be turned on by just having you touching him! Also, if he feel disgusted about the oral sex, you should be the one telling him you won't go down there anyway! lsn, with men you always need to make them feel, they're the ones who wants you. "They love to chase"
Always, resistance is good! Don't be too trashy! For me I'd rather if you save yourself until later. It always earn you respect ;)

I know this is going to sound really weird, but maybe you should try a lap dance or a strip tease. Most people don't have the confidence to do it, but if you can gather the confidence, just seeing that and how confident you are should help to turn him on. Find some good music, like Moby - If Things Were Perfect (has a pretty good beat) or Massive Attack - Angel.


You can also have a very heavy make out session where you tease him a little all over, drag things on so he can feel the anticipation, perhaps nibble his ear or suck on his neck. There are plenty of good things, you just need to test out the waters. OR you can just ask him what he would like. Communication is key in a good relationship. ;-)