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The condom came off...what do I do?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 6 months ago
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Well my boyfriend and I were having sex. No matter what we always are safe and we were safe this time to. I made sure he had a condom on. I put it on myself. Anyways well he finished he pulled out and when he went to go take it off IT WASN'T THERE. Freaking out thinking it was in me. Nope nowhere at all in me. Him and I were frantic then I found it on the bathroom floor. I think it got caught on my pants or something when I grabbed my clothes and ran to the bathroom. Well any way he was sure that he cummed in the condom but I am not
sure. NOW I AM FREAKING OUT. MY LIFE AND MY BOYFRIENDS LIFE ISN'T READY FOR A BABY. WE'VE TALKED ABOUT IT BUT NOT NOW! Well I don't know what to do I took "PLAN B".

I am horrified because that has never happened to me or him before!

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juice (Age:Under 18)      When: 6 months ago
I agree with thatguywiththeface go with the doctor and ask his advice but next time I would suggest birth control or something like that I heard it was completely harmless but very effective
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ThatGuyWithTheFace (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
This isn't really the time for this, but I must add: this is why condoms are not 100% effective!
My advice for you is to CALL A DOCTOR, AND ASK THEIR OPINION! Even if the majority of it was in the condom, remember, it only takes 1 out of the millions that are in there to get your baby maker going. If you're still within the first few days, there are some medicines out there that will ummm. Stop the process before it gets too far, but CONSULT A DOCTOR FIRST!

Once this has all come to pass, then is the time to sit down and think, if you aren't ready for the consequences, then why are you doing it in the first place? I mean, if you play with a snake, you're gonna get bit! It's just a matter of time.

But everything else aside, I will be praying for you, and I hope everything turns out positive. Best of luck.
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Question Asker Thank you so much for your advice I really appreciate it. I am not a 100 % sure but pretty sure that I am not. You know but I am going to wait it out and see. Well I think I just got more freaked out about the fact that never happened before to me then anything but thank you so much for the advice! I appreciate it fully! - 6 months ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Well. I mean. There is only really one thing to do.
Wait. You'll find out.
It sucks.
But then. No sperm could have gotten anywhere. Small bastards.
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Question Asker LOL thanks for your advice yes I know all I can do is what but it is so nerve recking lol but thanks so much! - 6 months ago
 

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sparklesista (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Honey you need to go and see your doctor. Ask him for the morning after pill it can be taken up to 72 hours after "accidents". But please don't just sit there and wait and see what happens,it only takes once to get pregnant.
I think you should also consider going on the pill as well as condoms on their own aren't 100% safe. That way if it happens again you won't have to panic. Hope everything goes ok for you. :)
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Question Asker Yeah I know that is the first thing I did when I got home not even 2 hours after the "accident" the plan B or morning after pill I took it! That is the first thing I did! I'm sure I am not pregnant but just the whole incident that scared the hell out of me! Thanks I know for sure now I am going to get on birth control! Just as a back up as well as the condoms. Even though after this entire experiences I will be less physical for a while. It is good to have it as a back up! Thank so much - 6 months ago

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mag123 (Age:Under 18)      When: 6 months ago
I definitely think you should go to plan b and ask for the morning after pill because having a bay is a big step and sometimes couples aren't ready or committed to it so yeah plan b pill works great. The same thing happened to me so I took the pill and everything was fine. =]
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Question Asker Thank you yes as soon as I got home I took plan B or the morning after pill. It was not even 2 hours after I walked home that I took it! It works good you say? Can I ask you a personal question? How old were you when took the pill. If you don't mind me asking cause it may sound bad but I am only 17 and I took it! I mean some people judge age about certain things. - 6 months ago
Answerer Yeah it worked good! And I'm sure it worked 4 you too. I took like a month ago and I'm 15 =] - 6 months ago
Question Asker Well I'm glad cause that give me hope that it worked for me and I am sure it did. Ok again I don't mean to be all up in your Business but I was reading and it says if your under 18 you need a prescription did you go to a regular dr or what I would have to have it be an anonymous thing if I went.. but I was lucky enough my sister has a few packs of them she gets with her Birth control shots. - 6 months ago
Answerer I actually asked the guy at planned parenthood after I went for the first time and got the shot and he gave me 2 so I don't think you need to have a prescription. - 6 months ago
Question Asker Cool well thank you for all the help talking to people no matter who it may be is very comforting but I am good now it worked I am only one person now and not two lol but I won't have to worry about any accidents any longer I broke it off with him I need a bit of time for myself. Lol thanks so much - 6 months ago
Answerer Ur welcome hun...I'm glad I can be a help to u! goodluck=] - 6 months ago
 
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