I'm 16 and I have a 4.5 inch penis

when girls say that they don't care about size they lie...honestly...a bigger and thicker penis its unforgettable...trust me...but I mean you're 16 you will ppbly grow..maybe,not sure but hey look at it on the bright side at least you have a penis & your penis is not cut off.

get a penis pumpre...and I like mines more bigger & thicker.

I wouldn't worry, most girls don't care about size. A story one of my friends told of a guys was her best and he was around the same size.

The best sex I ever had was with a man who was about 4 1/4 rock hard, he kinda thin in circumference also..but WOW this kid had unbelievable stamina, the willingness to try different positions and the desire to please..it was freaking amazing sex.

If a woman laughs at you because of your penis size, than honey she isn't worth your time as it is. I real woman will know her body well enough to know how to work your d*ck and size will not be an issue.

The man I had who was about your size- we did so many positions- shower sex, doggy style (best orgasm from him that way), on our sides, me on top ( 2nd fav to make me cum- as I control how to rock it in and out) & reverse on top..variations of missionary with him on his knees and a pillow under my back.. even anal sex every time was absolutely mind blowing.

Read up on how to find the Gspot..make plenty of foreplay- get her worked up, kissing, licking, touching, oral sex- get her to where she is begging to have you inside her- at that point trust me..your size will be plenty to get the job done- you can even play with her clit as you are inside her..thats always a plus for us women... just be patient and find what works best for you both.

Boy don't stress about it you are still growing I bet you by 18 you will be more confident by your size then, plus let me tell you something according to cosmopolitan the average "thing" for guys its less than a dollar bill note! So if you ask me you are growing so wait and see soon you be an average dollar bill note

It's not the size of the equipment. It's how you use it. Plus there are other tools you have other than your penis that can satisfy a women.

Sad news for a lot of guys out there but true is the fact that your d*** is not at all that needed for traditional intercourse as far as pleasuring a woman goes. What you can do with your hands or mouth is another more important technical matter. Also helpful is your ability to make just enough room to let me get my own hand down there to do the job while you do your thing. It is possible to stimulate the clitoris indirectly while thrusting in and out the old fashioned way which is generally the biggest cause of pleasure for the woman during "straight" sex. This indirect stimulation is rarely enough to bring most women to orgasm though. Like hisangel said, this is a medical and statistical fact. On the other extreme, the sensitive erogenous nerves concentrated in the woman's clitoris and weaving down the labia only go about an inch and a half into the vagina. Further into the vagina has actually very little nerves (none of which are physiologically considered erogenous nerves). This means that it is also a medical fact that really big d***s are literally too much to pleasure a woman. Any women who do derive pleasure from big d***s are merely getting this pleasure psychologically in most cases. All in all, my favorite slogan is appropriate here just as it is anywhere: It is not what you have but how you use it that counts.

most girls don't care about the size, But I do, lol.

Hisangel is way right, and I don't even worry about penis size. I jst assume he's small, and if he ends up not being small then fine. But, maybe just wait a little while before you have sex. I understand that there is a lot to learn and you really want to do it, and everyone else is doing it and everything, but all my friends were having sex in high school just to have sex, and now they all regret it because every time they start going out with a new person they sit around wishing they were still a virgin so that they could give it up to the new person they were with. If you're not going to wait until you're married, at least wait until you are older and or out of high school and you're with someone that means something to you, and make sure you mean something to her also.. It sucks to wait sometimes, but you'll see what I mean. Sorry if this makes no sense. But, patience pays. I promise.

I absolutely agree with his angel. Guys who have large penises automatically think that their d*** is all they need to please a woman and that's the farthest thing from the truth there can be. You have the opportunity to learn how to be a lover, and that's something that most women will appreciate a lot more than you being hung like a porn star.

The size of the penus doesn't make a lot of difference, the main thing that turns me on is the naturalness of the guy, his confidence in himself, his respect and sensitivity to me, his kindness towards others, his smile, the way he hugs me, and his ability to surrender completely to the sexual energies and feelings that flow between a boy and a girl. The size of the penis can make some difference, but the difference isn't very important compared with all those other things.

Think about all your good points, the things about you that would attract a girl. The size will take care of itself when you are relating well with a girl. The more you love someone, the less important the size becomes. That's what I think anyway.

Sue

you should probably wait but only because your pretty young and its jsut better to wait, but a few years ago my boyfriend had a pretty small one, I don't know the size, lets say didn't measure it, lol but it was smallest I've seen and he was good. try different positions tahts all we did crazy ones, you'll be fine, and if she laughs say her you know was huge and its not your fault lol

OK let me tell you something now while you are young so that you can have it embedded in your head the rest of your life. A PENIS ALONE DOES NOT PLEASE A WOMAN! I know it is shocking to hear for a guy but, and this is a proven fact, very few women orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. What that means is that when you insert your penis in her and thrust a few times, that is not enough for most women to reach an orgasm.

Most women need their clitoris rubbed in some way to reach an orgasm. That is because the clitoris is the equivalent of the male penis. Can you imagine having sex without your penis being touched?

This is graphic but you need to know this to be a good lover in life, I promise. If you open the outer lips of a women's vagina (the part that has hair) and start at the top, run your finger down till you feel a tiny bump. This is her clitoris. If you keep running your fingers down you will start to feel holes (were she pees and her vagina). So there aren't a bunch of bumps to confuse you. If you gently rub it during sex (or during oral sex) it will help a woman reach orgasm. Some women like it rubbed harder and some like it softer. The best way to figure that out is ask her. Ask her if she likes what you are doing or if you need to ease up or push harder.

I'll tell you something that every older woman knows. A man with a small to average size penis, is a better lover than a man with a large penis. That is a statistical fact! I did not make that up. Because a man with a large penis thinks his penis alone satisfies a woman. And it really doesn't.

I guarantee that this is something that if not learned now, you will have to learn later, cause every woman figures out soon enough that just penetration isn't doing it for her. So wow those girls and teach them something they didn't even know about their bodies!

Also, before you even start to think about going instead her, kiss her and touch her all over. You need visual stimulation to get turned on but she needs touch to get turned on. So that means that when you are at a 9 of excitment cause of her boobs in that top, she might be at a 3 cause she hasn't been touched. Touch her before sex and you will please her very much.

I know this sounds so hard cause you are so excited and just want to have sex but you will quickly find that having orgasms without her is no fun. It starts to frustrate you that you aren't doing a good job. So try, try, try to give her the time to get excited too. Cause to be truly satisfied after sex you are going to need your penis to feel content and your mind to feel that way. And when it's only the one, guys become very frustrated.

But mostly relax and enjoy it! Its sex for goodness sake! You will always do better when you relax. :)

well yours will probably grow some more. but 4.5 can satisfy a girl. I mean ur not gunna impress anyone or win an award wit it but you could make a girl happy wit it.

i wouldn't worry about it, boys grow until they are 18-20. But before having sex, you need to wait to be with a mature girl and build trust with her first. If she knows you well and adores you and is crazy about you, she will not care about your size most likely. I am dating someone who is 3 inches and 5 inches with erection, I thought it was small at first but I am so used to it now and don't give a s***. I could care less because it still feels good and he is an awesome guy.

have you tried a pump ?

No girls said nothing in three days, well there shallow. I think as long as your nice and fun and the girl truly liked you all would be fine. just let her know ahead of time. and look at porn for smaller guys so you know how to make her feel amazing. and if she laughs then say f*** you and move on. there is some one who will appreciate your size darling =]

You can pleasure a girl with any size of penis and you are only 16 so yes you are still growing up its going to get bigger

Horses my friend are endowed with 20 inch penis's, but could you say that anyone would want to sleep with them?

YOU'RE STILL GROWING YOU'RE ONLY 16!

You should only be having sex with somebody who you trust and who trusts you. Somebody who you know well and get along with. Someone who you care for and who cares for you.

Someone like that will not laugh at your genitals.

wow that sucks I'm sorry dud, I thought I was small at 7 inches...wow...again sorry

I thank it really don't matter but its really how you perform wit what you have! And you'll know after you have sex with that person and they want more or keep in contact that's how I know at least! plus you're 16 man you got plenty of time focus on your books! But when that time comes go all in... And like I tell my friends when I'm behind something "GET A PUMP IN FOR ME" LOL! GOOD LUCC HOMIE!

hey, dude, that is nothing to worry about. its all about skill, how you use what you have, if worse comes to worse, learn how to use your mouth, girls love that, and no one does it anymore, outside of porn movies. Anyway, its ok, I had the same problem when I was your age, and I filled out just fine, won't go into specifics, but I'm proud of it. masturbation is not bad, and you really should wait until you are older to have sex. That goes for all the girls reading this too.

I'm not used to answering guys but I'll do my best.

I'm not large myself, I'm about 6.5 inches and some of my friends exceed 8 inches according to their wives/gf's. I'll tell you straight up, no bs. Some girls do like it large, there's nothing you can do about that so don't worry about something you can't fix.

Your penis is a tool, regardless of what anyone says, that's what it is. However it isn't the only tool. Just because you have the best single tool out there doesn't make you the best at using it. Just because I have the same knife as the chef on TV doesn't automatically make me a chef with the same level of skills. How you use that tool is more important than the tool itself.

Your body has many tools to use. Your hands and fingers for example, learn how to use them, in fact those might be the better tools to use overall than simply having a large penis. My girlfriend and I have a relationship where I finally got her to tell me what she likes without feeling ashamed. I asked her what she enjoyed most and I focused a lot of time learning to do those things better and it shows.

she ain't gonna laugh, 4.5 is average, but if you use it right, it will definitely be enough to get a girl off! and keep in mind that as men, our bodies aren't done growing until we are 21, so you never know. and something I have figured out to make yourself larger is to exercise, keep your cholesterol down, keep your blood pressure down, and eat healthier. and eat some fruits and vegetables, girls like the sweet taste that it gives our cum! lol! and if you got some sweet cum, she will want it over and over!

your penis will stop growing at age 18 but the average size penis turned on is 5.0 in every nation. So if you can't have the size then work on some tricks and build up your stamina. If you can last longer then her the that's a good plus

so exponentially...when your 18, your penis will be a modest 20 inches long and have the girth of 8 inches. So I think you may have an impaler...

Ha NO it is not. Secondary sex characteristics grow well after beginning puberty.

I am 19 (a few weeks from being 20) and my penis is definitely growing right now lol. I'm half-Asian and I used to be self conscious because when I was your age I had a 5 inch erect penis so I used to think I fell into the curse of a little Asian guy my whole life. Now I'm 6.5 long and 5.5 around and still growing. I'm pretty sure I'm going to grow more too because I'm not finished getting my facial hair in and I'm still growing muscle (late bloomer). Supposedly that's above average and bigger than most guys so I'm happy there but I definitely wouldn't mind more size of course.

I also am friends with an older girl at my college who is 23 and absolutely gorgeous. When I saw her Facebook pictures that were a few years old, her breasts were much smaller than I remembered them. Even into her 20s she became a lot curvier and feminine. She was very pretty before but now she seriously looks like an underwear model (I think my brain split in half when I walked in on her in a bra).

I mean obviously if you've got a full beard and you're 6'1" already you may be outta luck. But chances are you've still got more heat to be packing for later.

There are girls who especially in high school would ridicule you for that and be more than happy to spread rumors about it in school afterwards. But just as well there are nice, kind girls who would never dream of making you feel bad, but understandably those girls are also worried about their own reputation and won't be easy to lure into the bedchamber, because they're afraid you might then brag about sleeping with them.

So, try to find a nice girl and together build a mutual trust. Do not do this if you're just looking to have sex with someone. Don't break any innocent hearts.

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