My Boyfriend Thinks I Should Get Breast Implants and Areola Surgery?

I think it is totally your choice as to whether to get them or not. Don't let him pressure you and don't let other people tell you not to. You know best as to whether you want them or not. I much prefer larger firmer breasts that are nice and round so I would definitely prefer the look you will get with implants and maybe your boyfriend is the same. Some of us just really like that look. Do you like it? It sounds like maybe you but you are scared to get the surgery, and that is okay. If you don't want to go through with it then don't, it is your body. But if you do truly think that they aren't right, then it isn't a big deal to change them, just a simple little procedure like getting dental work done, no biggy. I think every girl if she has the money should change her breasts to be how she wants them. It is like wearing makeup or certain clothing. Why not choose the breasts you want. And I mean who wouldn't want them a little bigger? Everyone knows most guys like large breasts whether they admit it or not and if you are going to get them done you might as well go bigger now so you don't have to go back again. That is if you want them.
I just think it would make you a lot more secure and happy and beautiful. I think they would be good for you, not just your boyfriend.
And the other thing is, you would fix your leg if it was broken or if there was something else wrong with you wouldn't you? If your breasts aren't the right size and your areolas aren't right then you should fix them I think.
All the girls I have known said it was in and out, no big deal, and they are so happy and they love them more than they thought they would. They were worried but they said they like them way better than their normal breasts and it doesn't feel un-natural or anything. It just looks really good. They all said they wished they'd gone bigger as well. Might as well get it right the first time.
I think you should do it, but again, the choice should be yours. I was just trying to give good honest reasons why it makes sense.

No way. Not unless or until you're sure you really want to, and that you would want to even if he wasn't around.

Don't Listen to your Boyfriend I bet you are an amazing looking girl. He does not know what a woman should look like. Besides you probably still have a few years to grow...who knows you may hit a growth spurt and have a DD by the time you are done. I would not worry about what he says.

Skip it. He should love you for who you are, not his idealized photoshopped image from some magazine.

Say no, and if he persists.. dump him.

He is not your barbie doll.

Based on your description, you sound perfect.

Please remember this is YOUR body, it is not your boyfriend's car that he wants to customize for himself. What I am trying to say is that this is all about you; and you should give this a lot more thought.

Frankly, I'm pretty outraged that he would even suggest such a thing. Would you suggest he augment his "schlong"? No? I didn't think so, most people are sensitive and polite.

If he wants be Biff from BTTF 2, then let him pay for it.

Big silver dollar areolas are HOT. I don't know what his problem is. If you elect to have any plastic surgery, make him pay for every penny.

If he doesn't like you for the way you are, you can find someone else that does! He sounds like a real jerk if he can't appreciate you for who you are and you're appearance. It what makes us different and unique from everyone else!

If you feel you would be happier anyways getting the procedure done, then by all means, do what you feel is best and what you think will make you happy.

YOU are the person here that matters. Don't let someone else's opinion of you be the deciding factor in whether you want to change yourself or not. Do it for you, not for your BF. Part of being in love is loving someone for who they are, not who you want them to be. But again, if plastic surgery is something YOU want and you'd be happier with, go for it! :)

tell him he needs a d*** implant, to make him bigger.


Do what you want, tell him to pay for half.

Have the surgery.
If you see a future with him,then you definitely need to have the surgery,cause it's obviously a problem for him and why not fix it
You're gonna have a bunch of "perfect" guys on here who will give you bs,and say cliche things about if he truly loves you he'll accept you and your body.Problem is,physical attraction is a major part of a relationship,guys are very visual and it's a turn on when a girl takes care of her body,surgery would imply she takes care of her body.
In my opinion,big areolas are ugly and a huge turn off,and I like big boobs,small are a waste to me(not trying to be mean)
And to the people who are going to call him an a**,no he just has a preference,things she can obviously fix,and break up with him,why break up with him and throw your relationship away when you can just fix some things
Love doesn't fix not being physically attracted to a girl

no you shouldn't get implants cause your boyfriend should love you for you and not only for your physical appearance. he's just making you feel less by saying you need implants. a good boyfriend wouldn't do that. besides when you get implants, you could tell that its fake cause I sure can. your body is petite so a b cup is good for you. being a b cup isn't even small too.

Your boyfriend is not the only man on earth and why should you have to undergo a risky surgery just to please him? He is being incredibly selfish. If I were you I would mention him getting penis enlargement treatments since he is making comments on how you need to "improve" yourself. Is your man perfect? Maybe there are some things he could change to be perfect but you haven't mentioned them, probably because you love and accept him as is. That's something he should try doing.

He just wants some big boobed plastic barbie doll and knows that you're insecure and is taking advantage of that so he can turn you into one. Think long and hard if that's the kind of guy you want. People have died from getting cosmetic surgery, why can't your boyfriend love you as you are? Most guys would discourage their girlfriends from getting unnecessary surgery. Unless your breasts are giving you health problems I would leave it alone.

no you def shouldn't get the surgery. sorry but your boyfriend sounds like a douche.

I think he's taking advantage of and exploiting your insecurities for HIS own benefit. That's f.ucked up. I'm all about making the people I care about happy, but there's a line, and this guy crossed it with his manipulative behavior.

If you decide to go for the surgery, I hope HE is the one paying for it since he's so adamant about your body not being attractive enough for him the way it is. Personally, I'd dump him immediately. You can do way better.

You can decide for yourself what to do with your YOUR body. You can decide who touches your body. Self esteem is all about who your are not the ratio of areola to big toe size or any other numbers he can pull out of his head. If he says "oh your areola are the wrong size I'm leaving or I can't get a hard on or I'm washing my car Sunday sorry" then its him with the body perception problem not you. I think soon you will find a new guy and when you tell him about this he will laugh at the idea. If this guy is the first real boyfriend you have had then its waaaayy too soon to be taking advice about surgery.
My advice - do some arm and shoulder weight training - just a little bit for a few months. Like arm curls and tricep presses. Go to a womens weight class and learn how to do it properly. In 6 weeks you'll be doing weights that at the start you couldn't even try. Any little self consiousness thoughts you have will seem just that - little. Oh yeah you;ll find out all about plateaus but that's another story. meet some nice people there too.
1st bf's ideas about you *needing* surgery ? That sort of thing should be just "a story about some guy you knew once..."

Softy (with small boobies than you ... :(

Oh and Nothing is ok because your boyfriend loves you. something is only ok if you want it you are you; you are not defined by your bf's love.

All I could say is don't do it for him if you wanna do it then that's fine do it for yourself but not because he is making you or wants you to. I also think that when a girl gets implants she's just telling people that she's insecure about her body and had to get plastic surgery to fix so just don't do it and stick with your body and if your unhappy with it then try to fix it by exercising and eating healthy food.

Fucking A, WhoaHaHa.
No, love doesn't fix being physically attracted to a person, but it makes you not care if their stomach is flabby or their aerolas are too big (and what is with people's obsession with that? they can be any size they damn well please.) or their d*** is too small. They are the way they are and you can accept it and move on or you can be an asshole and bring up the things that they already think are wrong with themselves and tell them to fix it in a procedure that can be very, very dangerous.
I'm not going to tell you what to do, because you're going to make whatever decision you make, regardless. What I'm saying is that somewhere there is a man who thinks that 34Bs are the perfect size and loves big aerolas. Somewhere there is someone who might not have loved either to begin with, but does because they're on YOU.
In love, the person should come first and their physical features after.

he seems like a total douche to me. from your description you sound attractive and your nipples aren't even big. I'm assuming he knows you're insecure, in which case he would have to be a total asshole to run down a list of all the things that are "wrong" with your body. don't let this guy manipulate you. unless you have such an open relationship that you would feel comfortable telling him that you find his small d*** unattractive and he needs a nose job and rogaine, it's definitely not ok for him to talk to you like this.

34B isn't small, your weight is healthy, and the average areola size is a little over an inch (i.e. yours are normal). You have no reason to be insecure about those things, and you don't need to change them. Your boyfriend has balls for bringing up that you "need" plastic surgery, but it seems like a douchebag thing to do on his part.

Before I got pregnant I stood at 5'5 125 lbs and a 32A with a perfectly found bubble butt. Ya know and plenty of guys dated me and liked me for me. I am still the same size but my breast are a bit bigger. You need a guy that is perfectly fine with you. If he isn't leave him.

I agree with everyone except for WhoaHaha.

WhoaHaha said that "If you see a future with him,then you definitely need to have the surgery"

That is ridiculous. What happens when in your "future" with this guy he becomes unhappy with other parts of you? What would happen if you two got married, and you started to age, and your boobs started to sag? Will he insist you have surgery to fix every new flaw? If he's not happy with you now, then he never will be. You should find someone else who will be accepting of you, and love you just the way you are (flaws and all).

You should only have plastic surgery if YOU want to and for yourself.Not for anyone else,whether boyfriend/husband,wife/girlfriend.Surgery isn't something to gamble on,it's serious
As for your boyfriend,i understand you love him and you think he loves you,but everyone has "imperfection"(I don't even consider breasts or areolas to be imperfect because breasts and areolas vary from woman to woman,there is no "normal") and if he truly loved you,he would look over his own insecurities and issue
Happiness and confidence can't be bought.And if you don't last with him,you'll regret getting them cause another guy would have loved you for who you are