Is a 21 year old virgin a turn off?

NO WAY!, I'm a 21 year old guy, almost 22 and I'm still a virgin, I would love to share it with the woman I will be with for the rest of my life.

Not a turn off here. In fact, you will find there are plenty of guys in a similar situation too.

only if she is hell bent on hanging on to it.

I actually would rather date a virgin because it shows she as self control and that she does not just sleep with any guy she meets. I think that would say that she is a person who has some values.

If I date a virgin, I would have sex with her only if my intentions are good. So some think like I'm taking relationship serious. So I think its is an advantage if you wanna have true long term relationship

NO! Absolutely not! It's a huge turn-on for me!

I'm a virgin as well and I'm gonna stay that way until marriage. But I bet any guy virgin or not is gonna find it a turn-on. I mean for me, its good knowing that another guy hasn't been "in there" lol! It'd make me feel special knowing that a girl had saved herself for me.

I'm not saying a girl HAS to be a virgin, but I'd prefer it definitely!

It isn't remotely strange, you lose you virginity when the time feels right. It isn't a race and when you do meet the special guy you will be glad you waited until you felt comfortable. I certainly wouldn't find it a turn off and I don't think many other guys would.

I think you've got a great attitude about it. Sex can be a whole lot of fun, but it can also be terrible if you aren't ready or its not with the right person. Trust your instincts, if a guy is bothered by your virginity do you really care about his opinion?

No it isn't! I'd want a sex partner who hasn't slept with to many girls...

nope I am and so is my boyfriend its a good thing at least your not a slut!

I applaud you for maintaining your virginity this long. I think you should just wait until you know its what you want, but be advised your virginity is a gift you can only give once!

Good Luck