I don't want to ruin a relationship by having sex too early... what are your experiences with that? Have you had any relationships that ended because you had sex too soon?
I'm ready and OK with having sex with my boyfriend, I'm just a little scared it could ruin things (I've heard that sex too soon is a common cause of relationships being unsuccessful...)
There's no such thing as a "timeline" to follow in these things. You don't have to wait until the third day to call, the first official date to kiss, the fifth date to get really physical, etc. etc. If it feels right, you should just go for it. It's just a feeling of emotional connection and trust and openness. If you feel ready then chances are it's not too soon to have sex.
i had sex with my girlfriend when we were both ready and when we both new we were strong enough and now we are extremely happy and in love you just have a feeling when you know it is the right time I hope it helped
Sex only works in a relationship when it is something to enhance a relationship, not the basis of it itself. Having sex too soon runs the risk of turning your relationship into something just based on sex, which will almost always turn into an unsuccessful relationship.
Taking things slow proves to the other person that there are other things in mind besides sex, and that will strengthen you both to prepare you for a sexually mature relationship.
There is never a set time when it is 'ok' to have sex, you will have to look at your relationship, and be the judge of how close you are with him. However, in almost all cases, taking things slower is better. Hope this helps! Good luck!
i've never been one to believe all the hype about sex ruining relationships. I feel that those relationships would have ended anyways, and the people involved didn't want to except the true cause of the break-up (she was too clingy, he was too controlling) so they blame it on having sex too early. But having sex doesn't make or break the relationship. my boyfriend and I are celebrating our 4th anniversary on wednesday, we had sex the second time we hung out.
Ditto. me and my fiance' had sex the second time we went out too. does that mean that the second time is a charm? I don't think so. like you said, it's a post-fact theory. something major happens and we just can't deal that it's beyond our control, we want to feel like we can explain it. I don't think having sex too early can hurt chances of something long-term happening. if things don't work out, it had nothing to do with when sex happened, but with the people not wanting things to work out. - A month ago
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