So,I'm 16,and I have a few Questions about the labia majora and minora and overall down there. I've googles and searched and I've noticed I look really different from the girls in videos "down there" Like my Labia Majora(outside "lips") are bigger and they hide the labia minora,which from what I've seen isn't normal I guess. And well,I'm not thrying to get all technical,but I googled,and my mons pubis(front area) is bigger and bulging out a little,and I look really weird wearing certain clothing.I mean,i know there are girls who have a bulge,but mine really sticks out,or maybe I'm the only one noticing... Am I normal? I've looked into surgery for down there that I can get when I'm of legal age,and I'm definitely considering it,but I have no female adult I can talk to this about,and I certainly won't tell my friends. Am I normal?Or should I get the plastic surgery(it's not a big deal)? (Please no mean comments)
you shouldnt get surgery you'll waste ur money and time the guy will appreciate your body the way that it is and you should as well and I heard that after you get surgery you don't really feel anything during sex idk about that tho! but good luck =)
There's a pretty good chance you'll grow into your bones. I'm a guy and my hips looked pretty awkward for the longest time until I packed on some muscle around my abs to even out the curve. I was really really skinny (135 lbs at 5'11"!) so you can imagine haha. I'm guessing you are pretty slim as a girl too?
The reason why most people don't look like that is because most people grow out of it. It's not super uncommon, but it is somewhat rare to see a super skinny adult male or female with every single rib in the ribcage showing because guys and girls tend to grow out of that look. And of course you aren't as aware of your situation as much because people don't walk around with pants that show off their mons pubis that much, but typically people just pack on a bit of muscle and the curve evens out.
Either way, even if you DON'T grow into it, I think it looks fine on girls. I just googled "mons pubis" with the safe-search off and if (not in a perverted way I swear) your mons pubis looks anything like those girls, well I'm a little bit aroused right now haha.
As for your lips, well they come out a little bit when you're aroused. Either way, I find vaginas with long and short labia equally attractive. Biologically, as men, we're wired to go off pretty much at the sight of any vagina. It's not like some things like breast size where most guys prefer one thing and there are some exceptions because some guys prefer other things. If I'm correct at guessing what males like, I think that practically every guy will get horny as soon as they see your vagina, regardless of what exactly your labia looks like.
oh my oh my... fi have commented on questions like this a lot and I always say. I think these type of vajayjays look the sexiest! I can ask you questions but I am just a guy, message me if you want to hear?
Sounds unattractive to me,but to each their own. I don't think there is a "normal" cause vaginas,like penis's come in every size,shape and color you can imagine. If it sticks out too much,then I would suggest you have surgery for that.It's ugly and you're either a boy or a girl,lol,having too much of a bulge is ugly and can make a girl look like a boy.There's a reason it isn't in porn and why having no bulge is always in porn
You are so shallow it's not even funny. You will never find a women who lives up to your ridiculous expectations. - A month ago
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Whatever,i'm not shallow.It's called stating an opinion.And I don't have high expectations.I didn't know looking like a girl was a high expectation - A month ago
I have seen a lot of your answers on this site, and you are a sad excuse for a man. Have you ever wondered why you get down voted so much? - A month ago
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I get voted down cause I don't act cliche and act as though everything is attractive or a turn on and because I state my opinion - A month ago
You spew pure BS outta your mouth.You must be a very lonely and close minded person,seeing as how you're the first to preach there is no normal and they come in every size,shape and color.I can betcha your penis isn't anywhere near a masterpiece - A month ago
Yes, I know, but it's frustrating nonetheless =/ - A month ago
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Whatever.Cliche,everyone around here goes around telling every insecure girl on here that nothing is wrong with them and they don't need surgery,which I can almost guarantee isn't good advice - A month ago
If they are mentioning it,they are mentioning it for a reason.That is something personal.It's one things if a chick thinks she's "fat" or has a "big butt" but when they are pointing out something so personal,it isn't just for the hell of it - A month ago
You sound perfectly fine to me, like normal actually haha and every one is made perfectly beautiful just the way they are, so your perfect just how you are, every little thing about you is what makes you, you! As s3tupMayne said guys really are wired in their brain to like any p*ssy so your fine, I doubt anyone but you will even notice honestly, because we generally are much more critical when judging ourselves than we are others. I would strongly encourage you to not have surgery because like I said your fine how you are already, it could make it so you don't enjoy sex as much (idk if that's true, you'd have to look it up, but why risk it), its bound to cost loads of money, honestly it sounds painful :(, and I would hope when you do decide to have sex if you haven't already that it would be with a man you love and who loves you back, if not your husband, and he will love you for you, so it would be a waste! I'm also sorry for the mean comments you are getting especially from that insensitive, immature, superficial jerk, WhoaHaHa, just don't listen to them you are perfectly fine, and all we can do is feel sorry for the few guys out there that might actually care, because they are going to have a hard time finding the non existent woman that fulfills their messed up vision of the perfect woman. So just be confident in yourself , live life, and love yourself!
I have that problem too!I hate how I look down there and I sort of envy the girls in the videos.But I hang around a lot of guys,and by what you described,that's what they like.I've sort of grown to be ok with myself,although there are times I'm insecure about it. There is no normal,but there is healthy and natural and that's what you are.Labia's,Vulva's,mon pubis's come in all colors,shapes,sizes and etc.(: I don't think you should get the surgery.How about save up your money and do something useful,like...go on a spending spree,or necessities for college or a car(if you don't already have one)
But what about the bulge.I've seen girls with it,but mine seems bigger than usual,or more bulging? - A month ago
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It's just fat. Some people have more fat in different places of their body. I really don't think it's that big of a deal though. - A month ago
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Ok.Thank you - A month ago
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No problem, and please don't listen to WhoaHaha, he has no idea what he is talking about. The women in porn are not natural, and are definitely not the norm. They have plastic surgery and liposuction down there to look the way they do. - A month ago
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