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I wanna be the one girl every guy wants.... now how do I do it?

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only2panic (Age:18 to 24)     When: A month ago
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(without being a slut)

I'm a 5'10", toned, slim, white young lady
I have long pretty red hair. (naturally curly but I also straighten it often)
I definitely am a good looking redhead... 36c bra size...and I do have a very nice butt
I'm also captain cheerleader

idk why but some reason... guys don't ask me out or anything. I have a lot of guy friends tho...

I'm pretty and hot as some say.. (I don't kn bout that lol) but yet... I wanna be that one girl all the guys want. can you tell me how?

(oh and I'm the nicest person you'll meet and very outgoing and fun! ha ha little personality in there)


Update: beside my hair, my face is the next prettiest thing about me. haha not trying to sound conceited, just letting you know lol. I've got a very pretty face. I love my eye s, they are green, and I've got cute plump lips. normal nose. my face is nice    A month ago

Update: ha wow. the only reason I put down so much about my looks is to explain hot I look so you guys can help me. I normally don't worry bout my looks to much. I mean not like that! lol but I do take care of myself.    A month ago

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WeaponZero
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WeaponZero      When: A month ago
If you really want to be that girl you've already got the look down. The problem is your personality. Guys will admire you from afar but never approach you. Maybe cause they're intimidated, maybe cause you come off as being high maintenance, whatever. But if you really want to be THAT girl, you need to combine your look with the personality of a girl who is "one of the guys."
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here4you
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here4you      When: A month ago
well the guys could be intimidated cause you are the capt of cheerleading and there are so many stereo types behind being the captain of cheerleading and that's a stereo type that most guys can't shake off esp in high school
but to tell you the truth not EVERY guy will like you. every guy likes something different about girls.
all you really have to do is be yourself cause everyone wants the real 'only2panic'
and could it possible be lack of personality too?
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MrWizard
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MrWizard      When: A month ago
Sounds like you might already be there, but your typical guy would probably be intimidated by someone as outgoing and good looking. Humans tend to be risk adverse when we could be hurt. Since you have lots of male friends, you probably already have a list of them who like you but just haven't been able to scrape up the courage to ask you.
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Littletad
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Littletad      When: A month ago
Looks only get you so far. If you were amazingly pretty, as you say you are, and you also had an equally amazing personality, then you'd be irresistible. But that doesn't mean that every guy would want you. There's no such thing. But for the most part, you do seem happy about your looks.

But what about your personality? Take for instance, me. I'm pretty much a nerd, so looks means very little to me. That doesn't mean I don't like a pretty set of eyes or figure, but personality is what entices me more. So you see, it's impossible to be the girl "every" guy wants.
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l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste      When: A month ago
You need to play up that outgoing, fun personality. Otherwise, most guys are going to say, "Cute, but probably stuck-up. I'll look elsewhere."

Totally unfair, totally common, and you have to deal with it.
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brettb
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brettb      When: A month ago
Well actually if ur really hot, guys might not ask you since they probably think a girl like you would already have boyfriend and not even waste there time
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hunglowman4you
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hunglowman4you      When: A month ago
post sum pics!
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iwbym
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iwbym      When: A month ago
"little personality"

thats what would scare me if I were to meet you...

from the sound of it...you sound like you're too much into looks and that sounds like you're gonna be more into yourself than your guy...

try dressing appropriate for every occasion
knowing how to correctly flirt helps as well too
toning it down might help too as many of the guys may be intimidated by you
showing that you're smart I know is a turn on for me not sure about other guys but id rather have a smart girl over a pretty girl any day

these are just some things

hope I helped
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Answerer Dont get me wrong...you sound hot...believe me I favor cheerleaders and red heads but...i just want to see the "real you" ya know....how you act how smart you are that sort of thing...not just how you look - A month ago

s3tupMayne
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s3tupMayne      When: A month ago
(Eyeliner is the hottest makeup imo, just so you know haha since there is a bit of discussion about makeup)

As far as building relationships, as long as you meet the standard of "attractiveness" that we're looking for, you don't need to be any hotter than that.

You may be so focused on your own genetic traits that you are expecting guys to just approach you. In some ways, you have to make the effort to meet us halfway. We don't approach just any girl, but you will get a lot of guys talking to you if you do something to spark their interest. Any sign of personal interest or acceptance - a nice smile, something interesting that you say, or a genuine effort to get to know just a tiny bit about us when we talk to you - will do much more for you than having your breasts be a cup size bigger or your hair be naturally straight.

Maybe we're intimidated to approach you. Not in the sense that every guy is actually afraid of you, but in the sense that your demeanor / appearance creates a bit of ice that just needs to be broken. Sometimes it could be because a person looks cold or sometimes beauty alone creates that ice. Sometimes as the hot girl, you have to be the one that breaks that ice. If you're as good looking as you say you are, well no guy will turn down your attention but few will give theirs outright.

So I guess just have a laugh with everybody you talk to and express a little bit of interest! I decided one day that I would let everybody I was interested in for any reason know why I like them (in an appropriate and open way of course). Since I started being more honest, well I've been a lot more successful with women! I'm sure the same tricks will work on us...
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cjwright79
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cjwright79      When: A month ago
Well if that's your ambition, to induce insane lust in men, I'd say you're well on your way to becoming a gorgeous Aphrodite. I wouldn't worry about the details, to be totally honest.
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heyitsdan
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heyitsdan      When: A month ago
ugly face could be a reason... or ur just so hot there to scared to talk to you.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
Pretty only gets you so far. There's a certain level of prettiness that is necessary with most guys (just enough to initially attract) but after that, guys are often attracted to other things. My boyfriend thinks I'm pretty, but the thing that actually motivated him to be with me was that he thinks I'm smart and cultured. If I were prettier but less smart/successful, etc, he would not have been motivated the same way. And some guys might like the cheerleader type, but other guys are going to be more turned on by girls in the math club. It really depends on the guy. There is nothing you can do to be the girl EVERY GUY wants. Even on the issue of attractiveness, guys vary too much in what they like.
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Cool-Relax
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Cool-Relax      When: A month ago
There is no such thing as a girl that every guy wants, but I think personality will get you further than looks. Obviously, looks matter, but a guy can like your appearance and have no interest in you otherwise. If you have a personality that stands out to them, you're more likely to win them over.

You probably do catch the attention of plenty of guys though, they just don't approach you because they're intimidated.
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twilightfan123
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twilightfan123      When: A month ago
You're intimidating. You might wanna tone it down a bit and if you're looking to get asked out by one guy, don't focus on flirting with all of them because then they'll get confused and not know whether you like him specifically, or some other guy. Because you seem extremely interested in getting a boyfriend I had a feeling you were going for anyone at this point. Am I right?
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hugsandkissesxoxo
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hugsandkissesxoxo      When: A month ago
I can deff. relate just a few weeks ago I was asking myself the same question. I did nothing much, I changed up my style in clothing a bit more, brighter, more noticeable. Another thing I did is every morning before school I put on some mascara & a little bit of eyeliner. Guys noticed the makeup & complimented. It wasn't a lot of makeup, just a bit to make my eyes stand out. Never change yourself, just upgrade :) good luck !
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TheStrangeOne
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TheStrangeOne      When: A month ago
look..there is definitely no problem with your appearance...its seems pretty nice actually...i think that the problem is in the way you act...you said that you have many guy friends...thats maybe because every guy you meet you act towards him like he is a friend and not a flirt...i think its gr8 that you keep up acting in this way and my advise is not to change your behaviour...also maybe its your appearance that it is pretty maybe pushes them away because of the fear of the rejection...but I really don't understand: why do you actually want every guys attention even you don't like them?thats a bit insecure...i mean, continue behaving yourself and don't worry a guy who ll like you and you ll like him too, will appear in your life...
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ILoveElijah
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ILoveElijah      When: A month ago
Maybe you should try dressing more sexually appealing.
And try carrying yourself with a bit more confidence.
Guys will notice you more.
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