Anal sex

DON'T DO IT!

Ok so the best tip I can give to you is to go take a dump beforehand and clean it out really well and if you want to be extra safe then have an enema but it may not be be necessary. Another good point is to always take it slow especially if it is your first time and make sure that your partner knows that he could have to pull out if you have to take a crap. And finally if an accident does happen you need to stay calm and just clean it up and forget about it after all it is an accident and your boyfriend shouldn't get made at you over that he may be a little angry but not mad and if he does dump you over that then you should count yourself lucky that he is ton because he couldn't take a little incident.
Hope it is a success!

If you have already gone to the bathroom and if you cleaned yourself well it won't be messy. The bigger issue is first time anal sex. It takes a lot of partner caring and communication. You should read a little about the method BEFORE you do it.

I read here that some girls like it & some do not.

I can tell you I tried it once & well lets just say I never asked or even suggested it again.

If it's something that YOU want to try I hope you get some good responses from girls that know how but I will add ALWAYS use a condom.

If it's your first time the first thing I'd point out is to use tons of lube, really go crazy with it, otherwise it will hurt... lube up, relax, go slow, then you can get faster if you want when you're used to it.

Secondly in my experience, I don't know if anyone else gets this, but I find that a real penis hurts less than fingers!

But apart from that. As everyone else said - make sure you're 'empty' and all that. If you want you could use an enema... also you can buy little anal douches from Ann Summers and such. But it shouldn't be too messy.

Anal hygiene ranges from simple beginner steps to advanced stuff. Depending on how worried you are about a little mess you may wish to look into all the different and popular methods.

Some very helpful info:
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Tristan Taormino is a doctor and a woman who has not only made porn but written many books on sex for couples as well as made instructional videos and hosts seminars. She is a very cool lady who has a lot of good advice on sex and especially anal sex. Here is a link to a highly recommended movie:

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While this is called "Expert guide..." it is also great for beginners. I own a copy of this DVD and think it is very informative and well made.

Take it slow. Relax. Start small and very slowly work up to bigger things. You might want to try just having him rub or lick and kiss the outside the first several times. Obviously after cleaning up. Enjoy. Anal sex (penetration or not) is amazing and feels so good. It's very worth it to be patient and gradually get more and more advanced with it. Communicate!

Just a note sex can hurt on the first couple times...anal sex hurts like hell...10 times worse...its adventurouse...not too messy ...maybe tht depends though...and it can be a fun new way to spice things up...but it does hurt...expect it!

The last time you do #2 before getting in bed, take a gob of toilet paper and twirl it around in there. Keep repeating until the paper comes out clean. If you do that, you won't get messy. And if you tell him its your first time, there's nothing to be embarrassed about.

Btw, I love anal.