Only if he doesn't pressure you, then you can do it if you want to do it. Just be sure to use protection, and don't worry about how it will be the first time; just relax and have fun.
ONLY if he loves you, and make him say this in your eyes.
Otherwise, offer him massages, hand-jobs, even BJs -- but not the inner sanctum unless he is willing to give YOU his heart. Trust me when I tell you this. Remember, this boy must satisfy YOU, before you give him what he wants. Always look out for yourself.
Considering I'm a normal guy, I know what it feels like to want sex. Its a burning desire. Just tell him your not ready and you need time (or you don't wanna do it at all) but its not his fault that he wants sex, its a male thing. God damn hormones. Never leave us the hell alone.
thorfin7
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
If you want to then do it. If it feels right then it is right. Don't let him pressure you. Only sleezy guys pressure girls into having sex with them. As long as you feel comfortable then it's ok.
If you don't feel comfortable or ready don't do it. If he pressurizes you, he's not worth it.
If you decide to have sex with him, remember to use protection (it's best if you use more than one method of contraception), so the pill (which you can get from your gp), a condom, the coil, a hormone injection. Whatever!
Take care and don't let him bully you into it if you don't feel comfortable with it :)
Okay since your asking the question then you are definitely not ready. Tell him how you feel and if he could wait. If he refuses then forget him. There will be others. And even better. Remember a relationship isn't only about sex. It's more than just sex. If he really loves you or likes you then he will be willing to wait till your ready. If not then there goes the proof that all he wanted was to hit it. Just don't feel pressure to do it because he likes you, who cares if he does this a very important thing that your giving up. And specially don't do it if you've only been together for a couple if months. So good luck. Remember that you are special and so is your body.
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