First time sex

It's not that bad if you don't think about it but if you're thinking about it, it could hurt because you're tightening up. It really doesn't matter if you have sex for the first time with someone who has had sex or hasn't.. It's just better if it's with someone that has..They understand better.

Well for me, my first time wasn't painful at all, I was relaxed and so was my boyfriend. to minimize pain you have to be comfortable in the area you chose to make love, and you have to take any given tension away or that could hurt very much. but for males it won't hurt of course so you have nothing to worry about, but for the female, they have to relax and everything will be ok. my boyfriend is massive but it never hurt because we were well lubercated and there was no stress.

To some girls it isn't painful at all. It depends on how relaxed the girl is and also depends on if she's a virgin or not and how big the guy is. Foreplay is a great way to get a girl to relax and feel more comfortable with you touching her. When you are ready for sex take time with it and don't rush and be sure to use lube! :)

If some girls use tampons they could have already broken their hymen. That's usually why you hurt the first time.

It always hurts the first time. For some it's not much but worse for others. I think a big factor is if you are a petite girl or a big girl.

It will not hurt forever. You body just has to get used to stretching like that. It's the same thing as getting into sports for the first time. You body has never moved like that before.

Your a guy! It doesn't hurt for guys.

You should do it with someone who is special to you, someone who you care about. To minimize the pain, foreplay is a must. It makes you(or her) lubricated and lengthens her vaginal canal (I know there's a technical term for it but I just can't remember it right now). Essentially foreplay does the same thing for a girl as it does for a guy. For a guy it would give him an erection, for a girl it's kind of the same thing, just the erection is in the vaginal shaft into the body. You want to make sure that everything is lubricated enough, and I would definitely recommend lubrication ontop of any lubricated condom. Make sure to take it slow at first.

It's not going to hurt for every girl, but for most it does. Just make sure that the two of you talk it through, be sure that you can trust your partner! And if you're both first-timers, don't worry about it being perfect, you'll both enjoy yourselves.