Why won't my boyfriend return the favor (oral sex)?

If he doesn't like it and you want it, then you know what the answer is. If it's important to you. There are about 10,000,000 guys you could have. But you gotta drop this one before you find another.

He's dumb. And maybe its he isn't that good at it. all the guys that I know that don't do it don't do it because they are bad at. And from the looks of your pic I can't imagine that its you!

He either has a low sex drive, or he's cheating on you.

well if your boyfriend refuses to return the favor then tell him that bugs you. a reason he might not want to give you oral is that maybe you smell bad down there.

If it was just a lack of oral, you could solve this problem by telling him how much you like it. You tried that (good for you!) and he acted like a baby. I think he should be disqualified from your sex life.

If my girlfriend f***s me all the time and gives me oral, anal, and vaginal sex - then asks for nothing but oral once every few months - I do exactly what she says and ask her what else she wants from me.

Actually, I think I just described a couple of my all-time best relationships.

You're giving him anal and he doesn't even go down on you? What an ungrateful jerk! I would worship a woman like you! I personally love oral and will give more than I receive

Not all guys enjoy cunilingus. He simply is probably not one who enjoys it.

Its sad he's not f**king your regularly now. Try and re-capture the excitement you had when you meet.

want me to be honest , I think the guys not just that into you soz to say , oral should work both ways but for guys it is a big deal only if he really wants to please you before pleasing himself . what would we b without woman , the best creation there is lol apart from the fights but I'm in awe of the female body and what better way to appreciate it than kissing its very center

Just how do you know it 'tastes good'? All I can tell you it took me many years to finally seriously try doing cunnilingus.

It may be hard for some people to believe, but not everyone enjoys the taste/odor.

That includes girls who are perfectly clean and healthy.

Nothing personal...it may seem selfish, and I guess it probably is, but it's just something I do not enjoy doing. More than that, I DISLIKE doing it. If someone dislikes giving me head, I wouldn't blame them for not doing it. But like you, I'd WISH they did it, and wonder what's wrong with me...

Everything in life is a compromise. You have to work one out with your partner. It shouldn't be about revenge, either (like "he won't do it so neither will I").

Good luck.

You are gorgeous. I would not be able to keep my face away from your sweet spot. You would be asking the question "how do I keep him from giving me so much oral."

because you are a slave to him, not the other way around. make him happy and stop complaining.

We all go through sexual phases and our ups and downs. You can't expect to be having sex like rabbits consistently. So there's nothing really wrong there. But what is wrong, is his selfishness. He's allowed himself to get his way, and so have you allowed him, and now he feels that's enough. He's not taking in your consideration and your needs. You need to talk to him about it. Complaining with subtle reference isn't going to get through to him.

Maybe he thinks you taste/ look/ smell horrible.

If what you are saying is true, then I believe he is having some sort of internal hang-up. I must admit, I do like p**** but if I were left alone and not asked to give her head, then it would be just a matter of time until I would hunger to rip those panties off and go straight for it, just like last night. So all I can say is to just quit pressing the issue for now and wait and see.

Let's just say, it's biochemical. If there was something really good about your stuff that he liked, he'd be all over it. It's nothing to do with your attitude or disposition, so don't get angry about it. Either move on from your guy, or try to make do with the status quo, which does not sound like the best option from what you have said.

We could start worrying about silly stuff like what you're eating and how much exercise you get, but I mean that's going to take years to change the chemistry of your vajayjay. What can ya do.

"Let's talk about what to do after you eat me out" or "I've decided; I don't sleep with men who don't eat me out." or "You don't have to eat me out, but *someone* is going to eat me out. A lot. And them I'm going to f*ck them. A lot."

There's a million ways to do this.

Some guys just don't like to give oral. I have actually never done it myself.

It's not your genitalia. He simply doesn't like to perform cunnilingus. Nothing against you at all.

What is a problem is that the newness of the relationship has worn off for him, but not for you. It's easy to see that you both view this relationship as a sexual issue, not in the light of a loving, caring relationship. Sex is meant to be cooperative, not competitive.

Ted

I feel bad for you girl, am so happy that my boyfriend love to go down on me, because I do anything to please him and he does the same thing, You are so pretty (no homo) I don't understand why the hell he won't go down on you. His a loser, like the say Real guys are the guys who eats p**** :D hahhah

Not sure why he won't give you oral maybe he has had a bad experience but if he did it only once he wants you to stop pressuring him he will come around and do it you stop giving him oral and he will catch on.

Your boy is selfish that's all I gotta to say.

hes just being selfish! I love oral sex so he's being really mean here!not having oral sex would be a total dealbreaker for me. its basic-its not weird or out there at all. Girls will usually orgasm with oral sex but not necessarily sex itself so it is essential for girls.

Just give him an ultimatum like you won't give him blowjobs unless he gives you oral sex too lol. Or just not have sex til he does! Some guys just don't like it but if he's getting a bj, then you should get some too! I don't like giving blow jobs at all but I would if I was getting oral sex.

People are saying about bringing in sex toys but I say no. You want oral sex, not other stuff. Like if nothing else works then bring in sex toys but only as last resort to keep him interested. It does sound like he's gone off you because he's "not in the mood". What guy is not in the mood?! It could be that he has something worrying him, you need to talk to him and ask him straight out cos something is definitely wrong here.

Dump him. If you actually ask him and he says no then you need to break free. Anyone who doesn't want to eat p**** is full of problems. There can be no compromise on this issue. Open, free and satisfying sex is the core of any good relationship. First things first though: communicate. Ask him straight up what is going on and why he won't satisfy you the way you wish. You deserve a man who will enjoy anything with you and enjoy pleasing you and being pleased by you.

Best of luck.

If he doesn't give you oral don't give it to him. Ask him why though, that's kinda weird that he refuses to do it. Maybe you should remind him what 1 man won't do someone else will

It sounds like he is no longer into you. If he isn't returning the favor, then you may want to do the same.

I like L-hedoniste's reply ;o)
either ask him right out why he won't and tell him its not on,or stop giving it and wait till he asks why you aren't doing it

well he is so use to having sex wit you that there is nothing new and that's probably not his style sadly for you I suggest you start bringing the sex toys or finding a new boyfriend that will satisfy you in every way..Hope I helped..:p