If you have a friend who you just want for sex do you think that person could catch feelings although the rule is just to be physical with each other?
Update: The one who signed with love and peace. Great eye opener. That is exactly what I want and have to stop worrying about the feelings. I actually don't want feelings just to have sex and the physical part that comes with it. This is gonna help thank you.
A month ago
You catch feelings for others in any situation where you let yourself be vulnerable to another person. All it could take is a bad day and the other person draws out your true personality and makes you feel better in a genuine way. Of course, sex requires vulnerability.
So, it's extremely possible and inevitably things will get unpredictable, but if you both are mature and you know what the relationship is based off of, you can remain just friends and keep the physical aspect as well.
I was and am in a vulnerable time in my life and chose to make a decision based on it . All I want is attention and sex but I guess that is asking for the best of both worlds. I thought I would be able to keep my feelings apart but I tend to over react to situations so he is saying that I am catching feelings. Deep down I know I don't want a relationship just someone to go to when I want sex that is it. I am tryin to distance myself from him so that these feelings will disappear. - A month ago
With something as loaded as sex, there is every possibility that (your?) friend could develop feelings for his partner. However, these feelings could be transitory. Or they can be real.
If that's all both of you want it to be... I'd keep it to porn style sex... and no cuddling... maybe even no kissing... to keep from strings being attached.
How can I get him to admit he has feelings. He knows I have feelings even though I don't want a relationship just to have sex. I feel it wouldn't be "normal" if we didn't have feelings for each other because how would you be sexually attracted to each other. - A month ago
Answerer
I will tell you one thing: guys around the ages of 16 to 30 often have some issues admitting or expressing emotions. If you appeal to his softer side he may scorn you and become even harder. So a playful attitude would be helpful. Use sarcasm and irony to get your point across. Like, tell him how boring he is when you're clearly ready to pounce on him. :) - A month ago
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I tried that this weekend. I told him he was wack after we had sex just to see what he would do and he laughed it off. Usually I am the one that asks for a kiss and this time he did. I don't want to think to much about it but I don't want him to just have sex with me if he doesn't have feelings - A month ago
Answerer
He sounds emotionally unavailable. Both to you and to himself. There's not much you can do for him. No need to completely drop him -- just play coy. Make him wonder if you even like him. Get him to open up a bit at a time. If he's worth the effort of course. - A month ago
Feelings don't follow rules. So, yes, often what happens in this situation is one person ends up with feelings that the other person does not, and then things get messy.
Honestly, if you have sex with someone there will always be an emotional attraction. Sex isn't like a kiss where you can just do it and move on, because that person might already like you and it will just make them want you even more. So choosing your sex partner can b tricky, make sure that person totally understand 100% that its for fun and not anything serious.
If its for a long period of time yes feelings may pop up. Sometimes they don't want to admit because in the beginning it wasn't set out to be that way. For example I was just having sex with my guy friend no commitment but we both caved and fell for each other. It took awhile for us to start talking about our feeling for one another.We did...
Oh yes it is very easy for something like this to become much more for one or both. So many think they are hard and independent and end up melting with a good loving sexual experience. Happens to both guy and girls.
How can I get the person to admit it. He keeps denying it and I know he does just by the way he acts. - A month ago
Answerer
Okay lady! Take a deep breath and ask yourself the question again and see if you make any sense. I think you are totally confused about it all and honestly, you don't make sense at all. You don't have to have feelings for somebody to have sex with them, not at all, where do you get this stuff from? If he treats you good and be nice to you then he is doing just what he should, doesn't mean he feels anything for you. Stop pressing the issue, it doesn't matter it's just sex remember!!! Love & Peace! - A month ago
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