Girls: do you ever get tired of...

yeah I'm getting damn tired of it, I'm very open about what I like or dislike when it comes to sex but when you actually get down to it, I haven't slept with a guy I really like yet because I keep thinking what if he thinks I'm a whore for doing it and then doesn't want a relationship anymore,

I do remember doing that pretending to not care for sex and never doing anything kinky but that was a long time ago. I am surprised that women in your age range would be acting like that. As you get older you realize sex is part of a relationship and you stop caring what people think.

That's an interesting question.

I think as people get older, there is less of an emphasis on sex, so women stop hiding their sexuality as much as they do when they're young. What I mean by that is, as people get older everyone is aware of sex, they are aware that other people are having sex, and it is less of a "taboo" subject to talk about. There is less of an "Oh my god, SEX!" mindset.

I'm a senior in high school, so whenever someone has sex and other people find out about it, it becomes a big gossip topic. And what's worse is that it's not just the guys calling girls sluts, girls call each other sluts, too. Actually, I think girls can be even more cruel.

As for getting tired of it... Well, yeah, any girl that guards her sexuality must get tired of it, I'm sure. As for me personally, I wish I could give you a more in depth answer, but I'm fairly certain I'm asexual. But believe me, it gets tiring to explain that too, since people tend to think I'm simply pretending to not get labeled a whore. Go figure.

You are right...it does get tiring for us to always have to act like we don't like sex as much or that we don't like anything kinky just because of an ingrained fear of people's reactions towards our sex lifes. It is the same double standard...men get to be called studs and seem manly and powerful for having lots of sex and being adventurous, while women get to be called sluts or whores for doing the same thing.
While society standards have certainly changed a lot over the years, some things don't change that much. I guess women are just supposed to be different from men all the time. We can't have some common ground when it comes to sex. We are supposed to be dainty, innocent, and pure, while guys get to be everything else. It is unfair and downright constricting to feel like we have to follow all of these extra rules just because we are women.