No sex until marriage?

I would, my friend its her personal choice and I understand that. Sex isn't everything but you will need to fill in those gaps with something else because men are sacrificing their time and erges to be with you, its only even if you can make it up to us before the big day comes ^.^ that's my opinion

If she is a virgin and I marry her I am the happiest men on earth. All the guys that say the opposite are just showing off and is completely bush*t, virginity is some serious value in girls.

I am 18years old, and ima guy, and I am old fashioned, and I'm waiting for marriage, that's TOTALLY fine with me, I've been dumped too many times because the GIRL wanted sex, so I know where you are coming from unfortunately, and it is NOT a turn off, its a turn on to me, not physically, I mean as far as my interest in pursuing her goes...

No, it doesn't make much difference to me.

Yes. There's nothing at all wrong with wanting to abstain from sex until marriage, it's just not what I personally want. I believe the courts would call that an "irreconcilable difference."

Definitely there are. Just not me, obviously.

Can you make this question into a poll? I'd like to see the answers!

Like myself that I am Gentlemen.

i would like her more that shows me she has respect for her body and everything else that's the type of girl I am trying to find because that shows she won't cheat she will be faithful perfect girl really

like her more, total turn on, and no guys want to have sex as soon as possible with the right girl, it is an urge we all want to fulfil.

It is a good thing keep it up!

I would eventually date a girl that wants to wait until marriage but I would NOT marry her as long as she insisted on that. (An aunt of my wife was very happy to marry a man who respected her ' no sex before marriage'. After her marriage she told everybody how poor sex was with him)

IMHO a number of guys insist on virgin girls to be 100% sure she can't compare their ability/equipment with other men's' ability or equipment.

Guess why.

personally I will always respect a girl who wishes to "save herself". although I have no negative outlook on girls that lose their virginity early, its not wrong to want to maintain your virginity. it is special, but a matter of personal values and perspective. do what you feel is right, not what other say. hope this helps!

it would make me like her more and see her as different and special. the fact that it is a personal choice and not religion is, I think, better than if it were for religion. your young so you may not totally get this yet but when you get older you'll have no "skeletons in your closet" type stories thing where boys use you for sex and what not. bottom line the right guy for you will love you support your decision, but if for whatever reason in the future you change your mind, that's perfectly fine too.

I like her more, a million billion times more. I will ONLY wait until marriage, and I see it as slowly building up that passion and lust, until you can finally release it and enjoy it throughout marriage. And I would only do a totally innocent relationship. But I have high expectations and morals and am a bit conservative but fun and so on.

The answers are going to totally depend on the guy.

Some guys will say they want a more experienced girl right out. Others are more than happy to help a girl "learn the ropes" so to speak. Still others, particularly those who share the desire to wait until marriage will be happy to wait together.

Yes, there are plenty of men still committed to waiting until marriage, though I think it is rarer to find them without the tie to some religious belief driving that decision. My wife and I both waited.

I understand this point of view a lot and shared it in may ways for a while. To answer your questions in order:

1. Does a virgin turn a guy off:
A. By definition no, what turns a guy off is a girl that can't relax, can't figure out what physical "gear" she is in, and is constantly hot & cold. If you want to wait, then wait. If you don't, fine. The worst thing is being unclear in this or any part of a relationship. Don't think that just applies to sex, define sex? What is sex? What sex is ok, what isn't? You will always have this problem when comunication breaks down.

2. What if she wants to wait until marriage is that a turn off?
A. Honestly depending how it is said that can be a turn on for most guys cause we like a challenge and think we are different then every other guy. Stupidity aside. For me and I am a big defender of waiting until marriage I would not date you since I can not marry a girl I have not had sex with.

Let me clarify cause that might not make sense, sex is like talking & dancing & financial decision making all rolled up into one act. I would no more marry a woman I couldn't calmly and easily talk to, someone who didn't share my goals. someone who wasn't responsible or free with money like myself. It would be dumb and only cause problems later on.

Sex is just like that I have learned. To make my point I knew a girl that wouldn't masterbate anywhere but in a tub and never in front of me. It's not sex literally but was a game ender for me.

I knew a girl who's idea of fun sex was laying on her back with her eyes closed and going to a private dreamlike world. Again game ender. No helping, prodding or talking changed her and I would not have known until I married her if I waited till then.

Would I like to wait till marriage, yes, would I have loved for my lifelong wife to have been my first and only? I have no problem saying that was a great dream and I wish the world worked that way.

All in all for me sex is like every other part of dating, you need to separate the crazy, remove the boring and sift through the incompatible to find someone right for you.

Can you wait until marriage to do that with sex? Yes
Can you play Russian roulette and live? Yes
Is it smart? That's up to you.

1. Her being a virgin has no affect on my feelings towards her.

2. If she wanted to wait till marriage I wouldn't consider it a turn off but its definitely a draw back. I would need to be with a girl for 3-5 years before I propose and another 6-12 months before the marriage. That's a long time to go without sex. She had better be worth the wait.

3. Sex before marriage is completely acceptable in my eyes. I would be with a person who wanted to remain solvent until after marriage if the reason was her own and not religious.

MY opinion, not yours.
Cheers.

for me ... findin out a girl is a virgin is a huge turn on because I wana feel like the girl I'm with is all mine and if she's been around I could never feel like she's all mine... now if this girl was everything I wanted and could see marrying ... then sex till marriage wouldn't be terrible... and I would definitly push that sex is ok when were engaged and then get a ring on that finger asap lol

Well, if someone loves you enough, he'll marry you. If he doesn't...

WHY WOULD YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T LOVE YOU?!

to me nothing under the belly button is acceptable. AFTER MARRIAGE !
A guy would love to have his wife untouched maybe not totally but I think he'd prefer 3-5 men only got into her.
but as a Girlfriend of course he wants sex! DAH!
to me NOPE after marriage couldn't care less of what he thinks and if you are hot believe me he'd totally admire that because he'd know it's your choice not that you couldn't get any!

if someone is truly waiting for marriage then they would have no sex at all. including oral or any other form. sex is sex and if you were serious about your beliefs and values as to why you're waiting for marriage then you wouldn't do it.