Okay so there's this guy and he's a lot older than me, and I really like him. I don't know if he feels the same way about me or not, I don't think so. Because he's about 12 years older, but I know that he at least considers me a friend. Anyways, there's this one time, over Christmas, where we were hanging out and he was sitting next to me and we were listening to music and stuff and I had this sudden urge to just kinda throw myself on him. And I know that sounds really bad and of course I didn't because my mom was also close by, but I never felt that strongly before and it kind of scared me. And I mean I do have feelings for this guy, and I've thought about what would happen if I just did it, but I don't know if I can control myself around him, he's just so different from any other guy I know. What should I do?
Well, it's only okay when you turn 18, because right now he's legally too old to do that stuff with you. When you turn 18, you can do that all you want.
This guy is an adult. If he goes for someone under 18 then it shows that he's most likely a pedophile, which is something you don't want to be involved with. If he isn't a pedophile then you will make yourself look stupid for throwing yourself on a grown man.
Thank you, I know he isn't a pedophile, cause we've been friends for 2 years, but your right, I still need to have precautions, thanks again! - 6 months ago
I really disagree. It says you're under 18--even if you WERE 18, that means you'd be having sex with a 30 year old. Something just isn't right about that. Not to mention that if you are UNDER 18, it's illegal to have sex with anyone over 18. I wouldn't do it--it could potentially get you into a lot of trouble later on. What if he only sleeps with you because he thinks that you're young and naive? You don't want a broken heart later on.
I would go for it, but make sure you have protection, and take it slow. If he is showing signs that he is into you, then you won't have an awkward moment.
Okay, thank you, I'm just confused cause I don't know if he likes me or not. If he doesn't I don't want to make myself look like an idiot. - 6 months ago
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