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Can you guys please tell me if a tubular boob is a big turn-off?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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One of my boobs has a tubular shape. And no, it isn't just me. My doctor has seen it, and she too says it's abnormal. The problem is that this is a big inhibitor and is keeping me from showing guys my top half. I refuse to get physical in any sense other than kissing. Can you guys please tell me if a tubular boob is a big turn-off? I have thought about getting implants to even them out, but for now its out of the question. It's costly, and to be honest, the whole 'going under the knife' thing scares me. To all the guys out there, give me an honest opinion about what you think. And if you are unsure about what a tubular boob looks like, search it carefully. Thanks.

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alpinestars-2002795
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alpinestars-2002795 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Have no idea what you mean by tubular?. Even tried googling an image of another girl with a similar thing going on and no images.? Lost. Sorry wish knew what you meant. I can tell you though there are guys out there that are just into your vagina/butt so to some they don't even really matter at all. All depends on the guy I can tell you that much. Although keeping in mind E size boobs are nasty. And Even DD's are too much Or D's C's and A nice full b-cup girl is where its at. Not too much not too little just right. But even then to a guy such as myself, it's a plus. Not a need. I'm a vagina/butt guy. Long as both of those are in check I could care less.

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Maxfield
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Maxfield (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
Yes tubular breasts are a turn-off, but nothing is more of a turn-on than breasts jiggling and swinging because you're pounding with reckless abandon. So in sum, shallow guys won't like you, real guys will work with it for a while until it's not a problem anymore.
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ninjinsamax3
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ninjinsamax3 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Nothing is wrong with it.
We may worry (one side of my chest is higher than the other side), but there's nothing we can do about it, since that is how we are born, we should live it the way we are and not do anything to change the fact that we are like this.
If you have someone who loves you, they will love you for who you are, not for your appearance.
Sounds cheesy, and everyone is saying that, but it is true; you just have to find the right person.
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Suave-Man
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Suave-Man (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Hey, whether they're tubular, lopsided, one's there, one isn't be lucky that you have boobs. Many girls don't. But yes I can see how this will affect your confidence and in the future if you feel that bad about it, get surgery. And the the knife won't scare you that much if you want change that bad. It's not like I would be looking at a girlfriend's boobs anyway so I don't care. Just tell the guy, you're not comfortable taking your top off, he doesn't have to know. Boobs shouldn't hold you back, having no legs and no arms could hold you back but boobs? It's not even that serious. I'll tell you what, work on other areas for now. Do you have the perfect legs? The perfect stomach? Work on getting those (in the gym) and your confidence should flourish.
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Scrimz21
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Scrimz21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 6 months ago
Stop being so worried. You seem so self conscious. Just don't make other guys feel uncomfortable. If you go around talkin all about big penis' and stuff then clearly he will be uncomfortable. Honestly I don't care, what you have, I will accept you for who you are as long as you accept me for who I am and not based on a private part.
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budphillips
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budphillips (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
I'd suggest you just be confident about who you are. I seriously dated a girl with double A breasts. She was unbelievably self-conscious about them. I loved her so much and it was sort of a turn off when she was very self conscious. The bottom line is that if you are with a guy that likes you for who you are, he won't mind if you have a breast that looks irregular. I know I didn't. I was just so happy to be spending time intimately with my girlfriend that it didn't really matter to me.

Now if you're going out on the weekends all the time and hooking up with random guys and the like, then this might be different. But if you really like a guy, and he really likes you, it shouldn't be a big deal. No one is perfect. I'm sure you'll end up being with guys that have small testicles, a bent penis or a hairy back. We are what we are. And as soon as everyone accepts that, we can all have healthy relationships. :)
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Jarett
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
To be completely honest, it is tough, without having an idea of how abnormal it is. Abnormal isn't always bad. But if a guy really cares for you, he will accept you all the way you look.
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natejohnson
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natejohnson (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
I'd say a couple of things to this.

1) it seems like this physical abnormality is inadvertently keeping you from getting yourself hurt. Wait to get physical with a guy until you know he cares for you because of who you are, not what shape your boobs are in. If he likes you for the right reasons, it won't be an obstacle at all (just like all of the things that might be a turnoff).

2) I wouldn't get implants - I don't have any real experience here, but I would say that it's better to save your cash, be natural, and not risk having an elective surgery. Be happy with who you are and who God made you, and don't sweat the superficial stuff. Your body will be constantly changing - it'll never stay the same. Acknowledge that, and realize that physical beauty is way overemphasized in our society.

3) don't buy into the crap that Hollywood tells you - nobody is perfect. Everyone has something that makes them unique - be it a personality quirk, a physical abnormality, or some kind of genetic 'defect'. Like I said, be happy with who you are and wait for the guy who will truly love you no matter what. Because if you start changing your appearance now, it'll only be a slippery slope later on when you see other things that you aren't totally happy with.
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gorgeous-girl
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gorgeous-girl (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I just googled it and honestly. I don't think it looks too bad. Just seems normal to me.
i am sure guys will love it. A lot of guys just love boobs whatever they look like ;)
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tammymac
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tammymac (Age:36 to 45)      When: 6 months ago
If you want to have sex and feel comfortable while doing it wear a very sexy bra or a sexy nighty, and leave it on during sex. Sometimes a little scrap of clothing can give you just the confidence you need. Only you can decide if it's worth going under the knife for. Sometimes girls fill out differently and it might even out somewhat in time, but if it really bothers you, you will have to deal with it eventually.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
I realize that this is probably something you are really sensitive about, but the truth is that none of us are totally even on both sides. One of my nipples is really large & sometimes sort of inverts itself partially and one of my labia is longer than the other (it actually sticks out like a little tongue). I used to be completely paranoid about these imbalances, so on some level I can understand how you feel. But really, my bf is still crazy about me and I think both of us knowing these things about me have made us a lot closer. Seriously, a guy who loves you for you isn't going to stop because you have a tubular boob. He might be surprised or curious the first time he sees it or when you first tell him (if its not obvious when you are fully dressed) - I didn't even know such a thing existed before today, but if he really cares about you it won't change what he feels for you. I know its hard, and you maybe have more reason to be shy about relationships, but anyone who would reject you based on your tubular boob is not worth grief. Good luck ;)
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frgspad
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frgspad (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
As a female in a long term relationship I can tell you I rarely take my top off during the deed.
A nice, frilly bra could mask the abnormality and still turn your man on.
I also agree with the guy who said that your insecurity is keeping you from getting hurt. You should be with someone who cares about you and loves you and would never make you feel bad about yourself due to your imperfect chest.
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