Am I the only one that thinks FWB is wrong?

Yes, it's 100% wrong. It's basically girls with no respect for themselves and guys that are just to into sex for a relationship.

If you're too weak to handle a friends with benefits relationship then obviously you shouldn't do it. The people who complain about it and have it turn out bad are because they don't know what they're getting into and don't know themselves well. If you control the situation well both people can be happy, but again a lot of people don't have that chops.

I don't like the idea, either, so you're not alone. It gets dangerous, especially if one starts to fall for the other, and the feeling's not mutual, or one of them falls for someone else, and still keeps their FWB. That happened to one of my friends. She dated a guy who had a FWB on the side, and she ended up getting really hurt. Another one of my friends wanted a relationship with a guy, but she didn't understand that the guy just wanted to f**k her.

It sounds kind of like an empty relationship. Gratification without any connection. It's like eating ice cream and french fries every day. As good as it may be, it's devoid of anything that's actually healthy.

I've never liked the whole FWB thing. I have been in that position many times though. Not because I didn't want a relationship but because the guy didn't want a relationship. Now I won't even sleep with a guy unless we have established some sort of exclusive relationship.

What I don't understand, is how do people find a relationship after they've been with so many friends with benefits. Guys say they are picky about who their in a relationship with but how are they not picky with who their messing around with?! I don't see the logic one bit.

People seriously lack morals these days, there isn't anything we can do about it because it is their individual choice no matter what I or anyone else thinks of it. It's a shame that people think so little of sex. Some people that sleep around judge those that wish to stay a virgin until marriage/will only have sex in a relationship and vice versa, its all about morals and the moraless. Are you aware that some guy in the British government wants to change the sex consent age down to 13? I think that's pretty horrifying. Imagine all of those no longer underage pregnancies and children thinking they're women.

Umm I personally think FWB is f***ed up and can ruin future relationships.

I think it's fine, it just depends on what sort of person you are and what works for you. I don't think it's stupid and irresponsible at all, I have a 'friend with benefits' because I think its more responsible than just going out and having a one night stand! Some people need sex more than others, and with a friend I trust I know its not going to come back and embarrass me or whatever, I know where he's been! But I don't love him, he doesn't love me, beyond being friends anyway, it just works for a bit of fun if we're not in relationships.

Alrite, I'm 21 so I'm gonna give you some serious advice. There are two ways in which a guys see's you

1) A Keeper- long term, committed, for marriage etc

2) A Fun time- short term, very short term, more self indulgence involved

What this means is, depending on what you want to be, friends with benefits isn't going to get a ful-filling relationship. Some would say "oh I'm young, is there such a thing as a ful-filling relationship?" Yes there is, you can learn a lot by being with someone, and I mean a whole a lot about yourself even. The real answer is, how do want to be preceived to the others around you? Is this giving you negaitive attention or positive attention? I don't think your overreacting at all, its good to have strong self -respect, you deserve someone whos going to work for what you give them!

I have a FWB and the reason I CHOOSE not to be in a relationship beyond that with him is he's not a faithful guy in his relationships. And he treats his girlfriend (when he had one)like crap. He treats me lots better than he treats his girlfriend when he had one.
Yeah, I found that out when he was living with his girlfriend in the same apartment community as I am and he chased me for 2 months until I finally gave in and he and I have been carrying on for a year and a half. I know, I was wrong to give in to him when he had a gf. But they have split up yet again and he has still been coming to me. I wasn't the reason they split up either.
I also truly enjoy being single but honestly, a woman as well as a man have wants as far as sex goes.
I don't think it's being irresponsible to be in a FWB type relationship. I mean if BOTH people know the ground rules of what to expect then everything is cool.
I also don't think it's wrong except in the cases of course where either person is cheating on someone. (Yeah, I'm guilty of being the other woman and I'm not proud of it either.)
I don't think you're overreacting either because to each their own.

Hi Ironpanther,

I don't think you were too strong. I just think that sometimes situations are more complicated than that, and that fear has a big influence on people. I am with you though...I don't want to give myself away to someone without having some kind of commitment from them.

oh my god, I totally agree. its wrong big time. I think it is anyways. I believe that sex should be about respect...not just an orgasm!

I think that if you think that friends with benefits is wrong, that you shouldn't participate in such a relationship. As to why other people become friends with benefits, I think that varies person to person, but that they do have reasons, however frivolous those may appear to you.

I agree, I do believe its wrong.
cause one of the two will end up having feelings for the other person and he/she wouldn't be able to do anything about it cause it started as just sex and they re also friends so the other person wouldn't see himself with that person on long term otherwise they would have been normal boyfriend/girlfriend and that's it!

Also FWB seems so taboo to me cause why else would you do that, I mean either you re cheating on the person you re originally with or you re just as long as a moon would be!

Any relationship whatever it is that starts for a reason other than love is a failure to me, like for example( sex, money, use,abuse ...etc) it will always be a failure no matter how hard you try .

i also hate FWB because one of the two will end up hurt .

am also one of those people who believe that sex is either the beginning or the end of any relationship...

I am COMPLETELY with you!

It's terrifying that there is a whole generation of people who think that sex is so casual. Sex is life changing! That isn't some pie in the sky thinking. Studies prove over and over again, how detrimental that can be to people. Cause even if you don't feel the emotional toll at the time, it doesn't mean it doesn't take it's toll.

Sex is complicated in a relationship! I can't imagine how traumatizing it would be to have it outside of one with someone who is "a friend". Friends are supposed to look out for you and always do what's best for you.

All I can think is how your whole life is "What if they aren't my friend anymore?" "What if they are just using me?" "What if they never were my friend but only wanted to get to sex?" "We've been friends for so many years, why don't just have the whole relationship instead of sex?"

I just think it would be a lot of heartbreak down the road.

But I'm so glad to see you are under 18 and think that. It's good that you see how valuable sex is. ;)

I wish more guys thought like you.

I agree with you, FWB... why can't people just be friends and if they want to have a relationship then have one, the FWB is totally a cop out. Means you just want to use that person to get your sexual tension out without any "strings" or emotional attachement , hey isn't that what hookers are for LOL. So you are nothing more than a prostitute, but without getting paid, just getting laid LOL !

I don't think its wrong per se-i havnt had a boyf for a while nd its hard to meet someone you really like so I would do it but would be afraid that I would fall for the guy. its hard for women to separate sex from love whereas men can. so I think the woman usually has a greater chance of fallin for the guy in fwbs than the guy for the girl. but it can be the other way around if the girl is a real alpha female and the guy is the beta. its not ideal and I would only want to do it til something better came along cos sex is better when ur into the person. you don't have that horrible awkwardness the morning after!

i used to think like u. its hard going without sex for ages but especially if ur past relationships have been a mess, you don't want to get into another one so fwbs are like a compromise for women. relationships are so messy and you have to wait a certain time to have sex or else it won't be serious but sometimes ur just really horny or else incredibly attracted to someone so don't want to wait that time. But FWBs are messy too-they only seem to work if you can distance yourself frm the person emotionally or at least think theyre ok but not relationship material. the min you think they would be a potential boyf then the FWB model is wrecked.

its definitely not as bad as teen pregnancy but I do feel sorry for teen mothers cos its not planned so people should support them not knock them when their life is going to be so hard.

I don't think you should apologize for giving your opinion. I myself can see both sides of this argument, but I guess I don't really have an opinion on the subject. Still, I don't think you should have to apologize for giving yours.

The way I look at it is that I can not ever imagine myself being in that sort of relationship with another person, but think about it. It may seem dumb but if a person really likes someone else they may want to be with that person anyway that they can and if the person just wants a FWB relationship then they might take what they can get. Not all FWB situations are the same.

Ha! don't apologize. There are such things as moral absolutes. You don't have to apologize for not being all-inclusive, and tolerant of everything. And I agree with you. I think FWB is the result of people who are too dumb to realize sex is more than a physical act.

Don't apologize. You have a right to your opinion and you weren't the only one to voice your opinion. From what I see here a lot of other people got to voice theirs too. Only thing you could have changed would be to eliminate the word "wrong" in your question since most people just don't like to hear anyone calling someone else wrong.

But then again, if you did not use that word, this topic might not have received so many responses...

I think it is a trainwreck, and not from a moral standpoint.

It is simply the repackaging of an idea that is as old as dirt. It is simply a new way for people to circumvent all other details to go directly to sex and try and make it sound palatable. I think it is funny that it is called "Friends" with benefits. I have to say that my friends and most friends in general have a better connection to you and are more careful about how they treat you than most peoople in an FWB deal.

Real friends actually do call you just to chat. They do return your texts promptly. They don't just contact you when they want something from you. You go out with them, do a variety of activities with them and at some level can rely on them to be there for you if you are going through a tough time.

Some FWB may combine that, but most are simply just an extended one-night stand with one or the other person ending up wanting more and getting hurt when they find out the other person is not down for it.

Hey, I get it, lust is powerful and sex is alluring, but it is very ironic when people get all funny and righteous about jumping into a relationship but they have no problem jumping into the sack. I do think that is putting the cart before the horse.

i don't think its WRONG. its just not for me. (thats why I chose other). I think that sex should happen when there are feelings. but I know that sometimes hormones get the best of us, I'm guilty of it too. FWB is okay for some people and other people its not okay. it really varies from person to person, in my opinion.

i agree with you! the onle reason why people hve frends with benefits is because they're afraid to be in an actual relationship.

well I can only say the reason why I had a fwb, It was simply because I have not met someone that I would take home and introduce to my son or want to take that relationship level, and I feel by doing so would be waste of there's and my time, but we do have needs time to time so rather than sleeping about I chose one guy to which be both agreed no emotional attachments, however I did up ending this due to the fact that he was starting to want more. So I think now that friends with benefits does not really work because someone will usually end up wanting more then someone get's hurt which is it not nice, So my feelings now is that if someone was thinking of having a friends with benefits relationship then just be careful get out at any first sign of a feeling because it's not fair on the other hope this helps any one.

I would think that some people do it because they want sex without the commitment. Even though I'm not into things like that. I don't see anything wrong with it. As long as both parties are aware that is only about sex, and aren't conceiving children or spreading diseases. That's just my opinion/theory though.

Eh. It's definitely not for me, but it's a better alternative to people forcing themselves into relationships they aren't ready for. Nothing good ever comes of that, and in the end someone inevitably finds out "Wow, you never wanted to be with me at all, did you?" which hurts worse than feelings changing. It's pretty much a lie.

If it works for you, go have fun with it, but remember what it is.

@Your Update - Who "exploded at you"? I may have disagreed with you, but I, in no way, exploded at you or attacked you in any way. I stated my opinion, that happened to contradict with yours. Toughen up buddy =P

i think it depends on the person,
i don't think it's wrong but I have had a f buddy so I could be on the wrong side of things.

I have to agree with the people who are saying, don\\\'t do it if you don\\\'t want, but leave others aloneif they want to.

I don't think you are over reacting, I just think you are reacting emotionally and not thinking it threw properly.

Some people don't want to be in relationships, some people want to see, and sleep with difrerent people.

Should they just stop having sex?

If people are being irresponsible about sex then yes, it's stupid, but I don't see the problem with people choosing to have reponsible concentual sex without the troubles of relationships. Why do you think it's wrong?

I must say that, mentally and emotionally most people can't have the FWB relationship with people. Engaging in sex with the same person on a regular basis usually causes weird chemical reactions the the brain, people can't help becoming attatched to sexual parnters, and jealous and hurt occurs often, but some people don't go threw that and you shouldn't judge these people for living their lives as they wish when they are not doing anything wrong.

I also wouldn't want to shame a person into having a relationship and pretending to settle down when they are not happy and want to have sex with other people all the time.

Also, a lot of people just haven't found the right person. They might really like their FWB, but not love that person, when they find the right person perhaps they'll be willing to settle down.

What works for one person may not work for another. The problem with FWB is you can't know how it will affect you until you've actually experienced it.
I've had it both ways. I wanted a relationship and chose to have a FWB to mimic the intimacy I craved from the individual. I've also had a strictly physical relationship with a man to sooth my hormonal urges. With one I got my heart broken and with the other a friendship with added benefits that faded over time like other relationships.
Despite the heartache, it was worth it to me, the faux relationship I had. Looking back, the time I spent with him was worth it because I loved him. We only get so many "love's of our lives" before we settle down, and as sad as it was, it was also thrilling, exciting, and full of love (I was a great pretender). I cried my share of tears over him, but I also got the satisfaction of knowing him the way I wanted to. I'm not too bitter because all my experiences have led me to be the woman I am today with a life that may not be grand but very satisfying.
I have no opinion if another chooses to be in a relationship without emotional commitment - but it wasn't the wrong choice for me. With my life, there were times I had to accept my lot in life. Just be happy with what I had.

I on the edge of this one. I've had the friends with benefits thing and it was the better decision but it all depends on the people. Right now my friend and I are stuck together for the next three years no matter what probably sitting next to each other through all of it. Sex and fooling around doesn't change how we act around each other. When he told me he wanted to go out with someone we stopped and ya it stung a bit but like I said were stuck together this way it's not the awkward break up stuff.

I just want to know why you think it's irresponsible? People have sex in relationship anything that can happen in them can be exactly the same something goes wrong and they break up so what's the difference with just having someone there with out the drama?

Well, I don't think it is right. I know a lot of people who do have friends with benefits and a lot of the time it turns into one person having feeling for the other, and the other doesn't have them back. It is a tricky situation and no, it's not for me.

are you against Gay marriage as well? if it doesn't effect you, what does it matter? other peoples relationships are their business, if they want to have a sexual relationship w/o the emotional connection, it shouldn't matter to you. I had a FWB that was amazing, great sex, but we weren't compatible other than that, neither of us had any interest in seeing each other outside the bedroom.

well...usually the guys are the ones who DONT want the relationship...they don't wanna put the effort in...and still wanna be able to f*** who they want...WHEN they want. in these friends with benefits situations...usually the girl really likes the guy...and wants a relationship...but they know this is the closest they'll get. its better than nothing...so we go along with it. that's from my experience.

i totally agree. I could never just be friends with benefits with someone. anything physical I do, I would only do with someone I was really emotionally connected to as well

I think its wrong especially if you don't know you're just a friend with benefits. first I was his special person (before sex) then I was just friends with benefits and "we're not in a exclusive relationship"(after sex). my opinion friends with benefits relationship you can get hurt too.

Personally I could care less what others do with their sex lives :) I know several people with FWB and all it ever ends in is disaster so I am very glad I chose a relationship over FWB. I think it shows how scared people really are to be in a committed relationship.

I think some people hunger for intimacy but don't have the conviction to do what's right. that's how a lot of teenage pregnancies happen I would think.

Friends with Benefits tends to be a disaster.
But Acquaintance with Benefits could work.

The key is to keep your "friend" at a distance. There should only be a physical connection, not an emotional one. Once you add the latter in, you're setting yourself up for a whole world of trouble (...and inevitably hurt).

Well like a lot of things in the world, this is also really a matter heavily based on individual opnion. As you have seen from all the answers so far and the poll, there are some people who are for it and the rest, against it (like yourself) For me personally I am for FWB, as I have been in one before, the most important thing about being in such an arrangement is that you really have to know and trust that person, it is not like a random hook-up or a one night stand, it has to be an actual FWB, means a friend who you know and who knows you. I was in such an arrangement with my best friend of 5 years, we have always been open with talks bout sex, our body, etc. We always joked bout how we shall give it ago at least once in our life, although we have never felt "that" way bout each other. So one day we decided to put our talk into action, since we were both saw sex as a fun thing which is totally detached from LOVE. I guess this is the main reason why a lot of people see FWB as a wrong thing, as they associate SEX with LOVE. yes I agree SEX does bring passion into a relationship, but the butterflies in your stomach you get after a "session" that makes you think you are in love, is really the release of hormone. So no its not that some people don't have the guts to be in a relationship, its just a mutual arrangement between 2 people just for some closeness and good time.

Trust is also very important as you need to be able to trust each other that you aren't actually secretly in love with the other person and gonna use FWB to try and get them emotionally attached, because this is when FWB leads in disappointment and heartbreak.

i hope this helps with ur opinion on FWB.

I think it's one of those things that sounds fine in theory, but usually doesn't work in real life.

For people who are feeling bitter about relationships because of past bad experiences, or for people who don't have time/energy to develop a good relationship because of work, or for college-age people who don't want to get tied down right away, FWB might sound like a good solution.

If both people involved really and truly only wanted sex and didn't get attached to each other, then it would work. But in most of the FWB situations I've heard of, someone ends up getting hurt or feeling dissatisfied/ empty.

There is so much pressure--especially in the USA--to be in some kind of relationship. I think FWB developed because people don't feel comfortable about going through a period of no sex or no relationship. Sometimes it takes a long time to find someone great to be in a relationship with. It's a shame that more people don't feel comfortable acknowledging that. I find that going on dates (no sex) to get to know people/decide whether I want to pursue them works.

...I think its definitely wrong, superficial, irresponsible etc...I agree totally with you...By having a FWB you just prove yourself how irresponsible you are of having a healthy relationship...Also in many situations it may hurt feelings too because people aren't guided only by their needs...What if a person for example starts developing true feelings for his FWB?what will the other one do? its really a complicated situation and I would never chose being a part of it because I respect myself and I would never do anything that may hurt my self-respect...I really don't see the point in that...But that's just my humble opinion...

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Personally, I wouldn't have a FWB right now. But I do understand why people do it- it satiates their primal urges with a trustworthy partner. It's like a 'i'll-scratch-your-back-if-you'll-scratch-mine' kind of thing.

Here was my friends with benefits situation.

A friend and I had a thing for each other, but didn't really know how to bring it up. One night we hung out at a party and one thing led to another. He and I are not the type to just hook up randomly with someone--which we've discussed openly. He leaves for Africa to join the Peace Corps in November so we knew we couldn't have a relationship. We began our rendezvous in September. Neither of us wants to spend 2-3 years waiting on the other person when we don't even know whether or not we'll be interested after all that time. Fwb was the best decision for us, I feel.

Even my "horny" friends don't believe in FWB. Its ridiculous. If you REALLY need to have a release, then do it yourself. I know it's not as good as the real thing but if you MUST have the real thing, then put the time and effort into building a relationship to the point where you can trust someone with your own physical being. Sorry if anyone disagrees with my view, but sex is meant to be special and will never feel as good with a stranger or FWB.

What's worse, a relationship that's purely sexual but consistent, or a bunch of random hookups? I'm not saying that I condone FWB, but I don't necessarily think they're absolutely horrible either. I have no intention of being in that kind of relationship, that's my choice, I don't expect everyone else to follow suit.

The people that are saying it's wrong pretty much already made all the good points. I don't think it's right, and I would never want a fwb. If someone wants to be with me, then they have to be with me for the right reasons, not just for sex. The number of people that voted "no way it's fine" on the poll kind of makes me sad =/

I do not think FWB is good, but I agree why it is done. For example, I'm in college and one of the things baout college is that you just want to experience life, people, school... and a lot of the time it is hard to balance it all. When in a relationship there is a certain amount of time that needs to be dedicated for that and that can hinder on everything else you want to do in your life. I have done the FWB things many times before... they all ended badly, but those are some of the reasons why I did it. I didn't have time to commit to a person because I had planned to move and dedicate mysself to school and having fun, I didn't want a commitment. However, engaging in FWB... some one always gets hurt. One person always like the other more than the other likes them back. It sucks, but it happens. And truthfully, its a part of growing up. The person who likes the other more is always the one who hopes that the FWB thing turns into something more, but most likely it doesn't, but sometimes it does.

I could never do it but I do think some people could even thought it really is wrong in my book lol

I'm agreeing with you. I could never do it (even if it wasn't sex... even if it was just making out). I don't understand it... I find the name to be very ironic, considering many friends with "benefits" turn out to be quite the opposite... more like... friends with "complications." I personally don't view sex as a benefit in terms of a friendship. It is the benefit of a serious committed relationship, and nothing less. If you have sex with your friends, what is to separate your significant from them? Gah... it just boggles my mind... Also, and I could be wrong, but viewing sex in a casual light (as with FWB) seems to naturally progress towards infidelity (sex being something you do when you have nothing better to do... like instead of poker with the guys, it's sex with Francesca).

Personally, I find the idea that someone doesn't care enough about me to date me but is content to simply use me for sexual gratification is offensive. It doesn't take a genius, either to see from all these questions from girls hoping for more to know that people get hurt in these types of relationships.

i find it ok. like when sexual tension builds up in me I need to get it out. when I have a FWB who I trust then its just so easy to call him up. but I did and still do have feelings for FWB

I have a question for you seriously since you have such a strong opinion in this subject. I would appreciate your opinion. I have a friends with benefits and I have feelings for him well, actually I am in love with him and just today he jokingly asked me to marry him he was like will you marry me ""jennifer'' and I didn't know what to say so I was like sure then his phone rang and that was that. the reason we are friends with benefits is because when I met him we both just ended really BAD relationships and didn't want a relationship so soon.but we have been like bestfriends that have sex for 2 years now.My question is do you think he may want to be more than friends with benefits at this point?

I agree with you. Most of the time it's the guy using the girl and the girl is going along with it because she thinks he'll want to get in a relationship later. It's just stupid. If you can't be with me 100% why should you get to share the most intimate act with me? People treat sex like handshakes these days.

overreacting...

Youth naivete.

Personally I disagree with it and I'm not going to get a FWB anytime soon...However It's a free Country and I'm not the type to shove bibles down peoples thoughts so I say do what makes you happy...

It is so funny how in this day and age people think sex has anything to do with love. I often wonder how people can be so illogical. Be rational here people, there is no objective correlation that can be made between them. Sure, if I love someone I likely want to have sex with them and greatly enjoy it, but that is a contingent relationship, not a necessary one.
And don't placate me with your unreflective moral rhetoric. There is no plausible argument that can be made to show that sex without love is wrong. I dare you to try. Simply claiming that something is immoral because someone else told you so is very unconvincing. Infact obstaining from sex can much more easily be argued to be unethical. You are depleating the total utility in the world (utilitarianism), operating on false conceptions which shows weakness of character (virtue ethics), showing a lack of care for others' needs (care ethics), and failing to follow your duties based on the categorical imperative, which states that you can only act in such a way that you could will that a principle based on your actions would become a universal maxim (in this case you would be willing that it become a principle that very few people have sex which would result in the destruction of the human race out of lack of procreation) (deontological ethics).

Are you sure you don't have some sanctimonious reason for asking this question?

FWB is wrong. Ultimately, where is the feelings?!

Some relationships aren't black and white. Sometimes it's not a typical relationship and they can be happy that way. Being FWB can sometimes be much better than a "normal" relationship if both people are honest with all partners(or completely quiet about it) and respect each other, without jealousy. With a lot of things in life, this is also very situational. Sometimes it may be completely wrong and hurtful to everyone. Sometimes it's for the best.

I hesitate to use right and wrong about this: for me, relationships are rarely 'right' or 'wrong.' They answer human needs.

But in general! I don't like these relationships, they seem unhealthy.

I don't think it's wrong, but I guess you're not "the only one" that thinks it is. ;P

i really don't understand your rationale. why would I date someone just because I like to have sex with them? it is like you are saying that all it takes to have a good relationship is to have sex or that it is all a relationship is. often people aren;t with anyone and are looking for someone they like and in the meantime they satisfy sexual things with someone they can trust who is a friend or sex partner. how is sex irresponsible?
i'm sorry, but you really just don't make any sense. you must have been raised in such a way as to confuse what it is to have sex and what relationships are.
it isn't a matter of guts, there are plenty of people I would have sex with but would never consider dating. sex and dating are entirely different things. don't confuse them.
like seriously, think about it. you said "Why the hell don't you just get into a relationship?" think about how funny that sounds. as if people who didn't like each other could just force it. why would I "just get into a relationship" with someone I don't like? do you seriously think having sex with someone has anything to do with liking them. if you do you are sorely mistaken sweetie.

I don't have a problem with it.

I'm not the type of guy who will have a f*** buddy.

I believe in relationships. If I like a girl, I don't want her just for sex.

The other reason ties in to the first. I wouldn't want to have regular sex with a girl that I don't like. After the orgasm you're like "I need to GTFO of here."

I don't see a problem with it. If you know the other person isn't going to be the one you want to be with, why waste time and effort being in a relationship. Especially if you only want sex which is what FWBs is.

It sounds to me like your problem is with some people's lack of "exclusivity" and not with the idea of "friends with benefits."

And I'm willing to bet you assume that "short term relationships" lack safety, intimacy and love - or that someone is always being "tricked?"

I will beg to differ, only because I've had plenty of female "friends with benefits," and thanks to our ability to "relate" and our willingness to be open and honest (and safe) nobody walked away hurt, used, or pregnant.

Every person you interact with is in a "relationship" with you, except that some relationships are meant to last, and some are meant to be temporary.

Each day we create these mini-relationships with the people we meet - sales clerk, landlord, teacher, and even the one-sided communication that occurs between a newscaster and you.

As long as we're not trying to "get sex" from women by lying to them, and as long as women aren't "trading sexual favors for attention," I believe friends with benefits is an AWESOME act of love and sharing when between two people who really get it.

Everyone else should tread carefully.

Great post,
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Imo I don't like the idea of FWB.
To me,you should only have sex with the person you love