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Underage and Sexually Active.

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joey1989 (Age:18 to 24)     When: A month ago
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help!
do you think its ok to have sex with an underage girl who ask to lose her virginity?
would I be wrong to want to say yes.

NOW. before you place judgment on me think on how old you was when you first experienced sex

how old were you when you first had sex? {what age?}

POLL QUESTION: at what age did you first have sex?


Update: the girl is 15 going on 16.    A month ago

Update: ok. you guys are forgetting the fact girl change thier apperael to look older.

I TOLD HER NO.
    A month ago

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I was 13years or younger

I was 14-16 years old

I was 17years or older

Im still a virgin.

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l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste      When: A month ago
Do I think it's okay? Sure. It's how I lost mine.

BUT, I could have gotten her into a lot of trouble then, and even more trouble now.

Also, a prosecutor will treat a grown woman who sleeps with a willing underage guy MUCH differently then he'll treat a grown man who sleeps with a willing underage girl (and if it's a girl/girl - guy/guy scenario, then you are well and truly f*cked.)

Sexist, sh*tty, and homophobic? Sure. Good luck telling the judge that, though.
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cheerangelcharity How so will the prosecutor treat the "grown woman?" just curious, cause I have at least made out [never gone that far though] with those even under 16 [but trust me I won't do it again!] - 29 days ago
Answerer It the words of one DA I know: "A waste of my time and the court's time. That woman endangers neither the boy, nor society."

The (thoroughly sexist) thinking, is that underage females need protection from overage males, but not the other way round. If a parent raises a fuss, or if she's has some authority over him, the rules change, but if little Billy and his MILFy neighbor--you bad girl, you--are hot for each other, then he's usually in luck, and she's usually safe. - 29 days ago
cheerangelcharity Oh I gotcha. even with "victimizing" those guys [though never having actual sex so it technically wasn't illegal] and those guys coming on to me I still think it's still wrong that there's a double standard in that. though don't think that all females who have done that are let off the loose, such as in the case of Mary Kay Letourneau who did at least go to jail. - 29 days ago
Answerer You should know that the law in some places prohibit sexual "contact", so it wouldn't much matter whether you had sex or not.

And Mary Jay falls into the authority figure category--a teacher screwing students is usually bound for the lockup.

But you're right, the double standard sucks. - 26 days ago
cheerangelcharity Don't get me wrong I know about the law and didn't give those guys sexual "contact" either. - 26 days ago

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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
Im almost 21 and still a virgin I prefer not to be a major slut like most of my friends!
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cheerangelcharity Yay me too! [though I'm almost 22, but I decided to be "forever 21" hehe] - 29 days ago
Answerer Ya I get made fun of a lot because people say that they can tell that I'm a virgin but hey I want my first time to be meaningful. - 28 days ago

tallenblog
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tallenblog      When: A month ago
I don't think you're wrong for wanting to say yes. That's very natural. I mean, really? There are few men who would say if given the opportunity they wouldn't want to, and telling the truth.

Despite your desires, I wouldn't suggest you do so. Anything can happen. It could be as simple as "sexting" and if you offend her in the slightest way she could run to her mommy or daddy and say you raped her. All she would need to do is show a few of the texts that measure in her favor.

Believe me... girls- especially immature (meaning young), would and will do so. Girls are cruel. I would know.

It doesn't even need to be that you offended her. Maybe she gets caught by her parents. Then she might say the same thing to persuade them of her innocence. You never know.

Is your life's rep and time you might spend in court/jail/prison really worth it?
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ILoveElijah
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ILoveElijah      When: A month ago
By law...I think you already know what the answer is.
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bitesizedonut
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bitesizedonut      When: A month ago
I would recommend not taking her virginity if simply for the fact that there are a lot of legal ramifications for an adult to have sex with a minor. If you are willing to spend some jail time for the sake of taking her virginity, go ahead and take it for her. If not... tell her to wait for you until she is of age :D (it's about self-preservation man)
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sam-a-jama
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sam-a-jama      When: A month ago
I was fourteen, and it was a mistake.
I wouldn't do it if it's her virginity!
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Question Asker Why do you feel it was a mistake?
i lost mine at 17. I regret it cause I was drunk and shall I say... "shameful"?
- A month ago

 
Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
I was 21. It was with my hubby on our wedding night.
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Question Asker Congratulations. I wouldn't of lasted so long.
how ever you lasted so long is amazing to me.
i never meet people that are still virgins. - A month ago
bitesizedonut I lost mine to my husband as well :D - A month ago
cheerangelcharity I'll lose mine to my husband if I ever get married, even if I have to wait for a long time or forever...and I don't give a sh*t of who thinks negatively about that. - 29 days ago

muythai
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muythai      When: A month ago
I wouldn't do it, dude... it's not a moral thing much... but it's against the law... and that should be kept in mind. You could go to jail... it's happened to a couple of my friends. It's not worth to take that chance.
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fishprincess
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fishprincess      When: A month ago
yes, and if you are 15 going on 16, no problem. If not, well, likely it is illegal, and yes, people actaully do get prosecuted for this. How? well, girls that are 15 going on 16 aren't very emotionally mature.
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Question Asker True, true. about the emotionally immature part.
i got another question coming. - A month ago

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DirtyButterKnife
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DirtyButterKnife      When: A month ago
Seeing as it's illegal, of course it'd be wrong. Try watching some Dateline.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
duuuuuude! how in hell can an immature girl turn you on! people please! seriously you can't get a hard on an immature dumb mean girl, that's just stupid, the girl's brain and maturity is what turns me on the most and makes decide if I'm going to enjoy it with her or not...

a 15 through 18 yo girls can't decide and don't know how to decide about these things, they don't know what love is and how to respect a relationship, and girls that start it so early are only going to be sluts when they grow up, once they start it they don't stop! and besides all the illegal stuff that tallenblog told you about and how mean and dumb immature girls can be, I suggest that you forget about it completely.

I know girls of that age that wanted me to take their virginity, they want that only because I'm older than them and because they have self-esteem issues, otherwise they wouldn't go for guys older than them and sleep with them, guess what? all her friends and school will know about what you did the next day, she would be proud of what happened to her with you and you'll end like crazy.

I just said to girls like that NO THANK YOU! go find a sugar daddy to f*ck you instead, I only choose grown up and respectful women to have these intimate precious moments with, and more specifically only one woman that is my wife.
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Evernite
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Evernite      When: A month ago
You not only go to jail, but you're permanently marked as a sex offender..

It will change your life. And not in a good way. It's not a decision you should make lightly.
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