I understand what sex is and what happens during sex and that's usually how people would define "loosing their virginity" But some people and some cultures define it differently.
is that person still considers a virgin if she's been fingered? or had oral sex?
how do you see virginity and how do you define "virgin" ?
Update: I read this question on here the other day or somewhere and some people would still consider themselves a virgin even after they had sexual intercourse. So how would you define that?
4 months ago
I consider any intentful, highly intimate and romantic behavior to give an orgasm to another person, and or most kinds of physical genital stimulation, with some exceptions like dirty dancing, result in the loss of virginity. For both of your examples I would say probably not virgins anymore, though you have to be careful because an obgyn does engage in insertions but it is hardly romantic.
Another definition for virgin would be someone who has not engaged in any sexual activity lol. Someone who has had sexual intercourse and believes they are not a virgin is lying.
I think if the person has done anything sexual they're not really mentally a virgin anymore. Technically I think that any insertion of the penis into the girl whether it be her mouth/ butt/ vagina makes no difference.
'Virginity', for a girl, means not having sexual intercourse, this a guy's penis has never entered her vagina, in almost all cases such would rupture her Hyman. Since, for you, no penis has entered your vagina and so your Hyman is likely still intact, you're still a virgin.
Not most women have a hymen I have a really small one so even after I have had sex many times it is still there so am I still a virgin? clearly I am not - 4 months ago
A girl is no longer a virgin after she has SEX with a guy. Oral and fingering doesn't change your virginity,it's once you have sex that makes you no longer a virgin.
I have to say fingering means you are no longer a virgin. I know a chick who claims to be a 'virgin' and frowns upon anyone who isn't. She also talks about how her boyfriend fingered her so hard she bled for an entire day...Not all girls have an Hyman so that isn't a good judge. Any type of genital arousal means you are not a virgin. And those people? they are just kidding themselves.
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