My boyfriend has fingered me a couple times now and I've decided to make him happy in the same way but I've never done it before. he knows that. so how do I do it right?
lmao! I wouldn't go to porn for every sexual advice. theirs a lot of crazy porn out there that send mixed messages to young inexperienced people.
simply wrap your hand around his d*ck and slowly go up and down. repeatedly. ask him how it feels. ask him what you can do to make it feel better.
don't be nervous. you shouldn't worry. think of it this way. the female anatomy is more complex than the male's anatomy. to put it simple: its way easier to satisfy a guy than it is a girl.
its your first time. he can't possibly expect you to be perfect.
Don't be shy. Have fun and communicate. Always communicate. As joey1989 said, men's anatomy IS much simpler. Also, make sure that (IF for example it seems to be going difficultly) HE is relaxing and willing to let it take it's time. He may feel a little anxiety from thinking about YOUR anxiety. Just start slow and talk. Besides, dirty-talk is very sexy and that will help you both get into a natural "zone". Men are also psychologically more visual sexually so DO use your mouth but not necessarily to give him head. You can gently brush your lips and mouth on the head of his d*ck or even just tease him with sexy gestures of your mouth and tongue without any oral contact. Eye contact in most cases is very helpful and arousing. There is no one way to give a good or great hand-job. USE LUBE! Spit or gel lube. If your technique is slow and soft then it is okay to go without lube but the skin MUST be nice and soft and dry.
Cosmo magazine has a great article entitled "50 Ways to Touch Him There". I found some new ways to give my old a thrill. Be sure to use adequate lubrication, or you might hurt him.
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