I am new to this site but I have already seen a fascinating trend of people who say things like "So my friend and I were making out" or "So my best friend and I had sex a year ago" or "So I was sending nude pictures of myself to my friend". And every time I am amazed that people have sexual encounters with a friend and still call them a "friend" like nothing has changed.
I always called people friends who I have never had any sexual history with, no matter if it's actual sex or talking dirty to each other or whatever. If I am doing any of those things, I am taking that person out of the friend zone!
No, you're not taking crazy pills. Actually, you're taking making sense pills. Everything you said is right and I agree. It is mixed up how people are doing sex things now with people they call friends. Personally, I think doing sexual things with a true friend is the best way to lose her because sooner or later that'll be looked upon as having done something out of line. I can't really picture myself doing anything sexual with a true female friend. I think the word "friend" is used pretty loosely, and in the situations you referred to, it's used to represent a person they just recently met or someone they've known a long time, or a casual acquaintance they've known for a long time, but not one that they've actually developed a true lasting friendship with where they can actually fully trust each other. A true friend is not someone you have sex with nor do sexual things. As it turns out, probably not that many people have true friends of the opposite sex.
Yes I think sex with your enemies is more exciting!
No, I mean pull the friend out of the "friend zone" if your genitals meet in anyway. That's just my rule. - 24 days ago
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"Yes I think sex with your enemies is more exciting!"
Funny girl.
I play things differently. I de-friend people if they're bad friends, if we lose touch, or if we grow apart--if the relationship becomes impossible to maintain.
Sex, to me, is quite manageable. In fact, I find it pretty friendly. - 24 days ago
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"Funny girl."
I try to please. ;)
"Sex, to me, is quite manageable. In fact, I find it pretty friendly"
Well, that's cause you have sex with your friends! All this enemy sex is getting to me. I never know if they are trying to stroke my back or get a better angle for the knife! :)
No, I hear what you are saying. I guess for me, I want to keep friends my whole life (which isn't always possible but I try). So having sex with one, for me, would just throw that at the window. - 23 days ago
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I'm sure a lot of people try to get a relationship going that way, thinking that if they can just get the other person to have a physical connection, they will want more. And maybe it happens. But I just see a lot of people hurt cause one person doesn't want to go into a relationship. So it's always kind of sad to watch. - 23 days ago
And yeah, I think most people go into it thinking they won't get attached but I think on one side, whether male or female, someone always does get attached. - 23 days ago
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Yes, it is :D Internet comic strip called VGCats
As for the getting attached I suppose it all depends on how they were raised or so that would determine if they can do this without feelings on the whole situation. - 23 days ago
My friends are just that, friends! I don't do anything sexual with them. I save that for my boyfriend! If I were to ever make out with or have sex with my friend, he would immediately be thrown out of the friend zone. I agree with you. So, NO, you aren't the only one who feels this way. =)
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