Update: I think it's interesting that the answers are so different! I was wondering about this since I've read many times (as answers to other questions) that "guys will not turn down a good looking woman". I couldn't even imagine that. 18 days ago
False, If she's a perfect package all around, why not? It's a hole we're willing to fall trough, but we don't want to hit bumps on the way down, STDs. "Gotta catch em all" isn't what we are aiming for.
False, there are a huge number of things that would prevent me from doing that. Like, having a girlfriend, if I'm dating a girl, she is married, she has a boyfriend, a friend is dating her, stds, no condom, her personality, if she is drunk (I don't drink), if she's my mates mum, something tragic has happened, if she is emotional vulnerable etc etc..
thats where the unfortunate sterotype of "all guys want one thing" comes into play...and unfortunatly, the numbers say about 90% of guys are like that :( that makes it hard for me and other guys I know that are nice, and not perverts or rapists
False. When I'm in love with someone, no-one else gets a look-in and a lot of guys are the same. The problem is, love doesn't last forever so all she has to do is get her timing right...so TRUE ;)
I don't understand some of the answers of these guys. do you jerk off ever? then why wouldn't you f*ck a hot girl? strap on a condom and nail her, it is just sex. I am not some kind of player asshole horndog, and I would still f*ck almost any decent looking girl if I wasn't dating and felt like getting off. all I need is a hard d*** and a little energy. why are you all trying to bring in all these other factors? it isn't much different than jerking off...
Dude, sex is sacred, supposed to be shared between two people that love each other, not just f*** for fun dude! im sorry to say this, but its true, you are type of guy that makes it a horrible world for guys like me - 14 days ago
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No you are the kind of person that causes people to have a lot less sex. what do you even mean by sacred? we aren't all religious dude. sure I love certain aspects of sex with a close partner but that doesn't mean there isn't something great about f@ucking some random girl with a hot body. there is intimate sex and then there is f@cking. maybe intimate is better but that doesn't make f@cking unappealing. - 14 days ago
it kinda depends on context, like if I am dating or if I already have some kind of history with them and don't like them because of that. If it is a stranger to me and she is hot and I have no girlfriend, then yes, of course of I would have sex with her, why not? she doesn't even have to be that hot, just decent.
any of these guys saying they wouldn't are big fat liars.
false.. I want emotions in my sex.. I want feelings and I wanna care for the person and use sex to express that.. from time to time I want a hook up but I never go get one because I really would rather have a real relationship. and yes I have turned sex down before.
False. Most of the time, it's easy to get me in bed if I'm attracted to a girl - but there are exceptions. I've turned down sex because:
- She has a boyfriend and/or I have a girlfriend at the time (If she's in an "open relationship" and I'm single, then "no" becomes "maybe.") - She's needlessly cruel or manipulative or abusive to people - I think she's shallow and boring - She's just using me to create drama or start fights among friends - I am sick or hungover or something (this isn't a "no," it's a "how about later?") - I think she might have an STD and lie about it - The guys she's slept with are really disgusting (see previous reason) - I'm just not that into her :P
(No, I don't have a religious prohibition against premarital sex.)
Both because for the most part, women do not actively pursue sex, like one girl told me that "girls are takers", girls take what they can get but they don't actually pursue or go look for it. So girls get tons of offers, but that does not mean they always get approached by the type of men they want.
FALSE! unless I was forced to, like held down and everything i won't have sex with any woman til I'm married, and believe THEYVE tried! and I wont, I've even been called gay for not havin sex with a perfectly willing girl/woman... and I'm not gay, don't take this as I'm not interested in girls or women, just that I have made up my mind about my life and I'm not letting anyone ruin what I want to save for my future wife...
Totally false,she can be as beautiful as Sade but if the attitude/personality is stank then she ain't getting none. Besides,a night full of passion with the wrong woman can bring a lifetime of pain. And definitely NO if the man is really in love with another woman.
true...if she plays her cards right...and also false... cause some men have a certain morale when it comes towards women so they might not get it on a first try..
False. Because there's more to a woman than just looks. She might be pretty (on the outside), but if she's got the personality of broken glass, no thank you. To be intimate with someone, I'd have to bond with her on at least a few things (trust, caring, etc.), bare minimum, that are not physical related.
False ! By making the statement that a pretty woman can get any man she wants ( That's how I take that statement) your assuming all men are dumb sex machines who don't care about anything but their penis. And yet women get SOOOOO upset at dumb blond jokes. Same is applied here towards men.
False. A pretty woman can get any shallow man into bed. I repeat the word "shallow" here. Because shallow men think only of the physical attributes of a pretty girl all the time.
If it was for only sex? nothing else and she's willing to offer him that with no attachment? He won't mind as long as she's ok..and to define "HE" check my comment ;D - 23 days ago
I entirely agree with the last three statements which is why I would say yes a pretty woman can get any straight guy in bed but only if they have certain qualities, as the other guys stated, qualities like kindness, open mindedness, and the ability to understand people and their widely varying motives you left the question kind of open ended.
but in America no one has religious morals or anything along that line anymore... (well a lot don't)
but you can't get a really religious morally grounded man in bed.. no matter how pretty you r.
he might be thinking "you look good. but your a filthy whore and you probably have an STD. I would never marry you. have kids with you. ans as much as I want to... id never have sex with you either"
I am going to be the turncoat and say... yes. Any woman can have just about any man she wants if she is willing to sacrifice her dignity. That is not to say that all men think with the little head rather than the big one... BUT women really are great manipulators, when they want to be. And if they can flip all the right switches, say all the right things and lie when necessary... even good men can be had for the night.
Respect? Love? A relationship? Absolutely cannot be had by any woman from any man. But one night that one or both of them may regret involving latex and alcohol... Surely.
> Respect? Love? A relationship? Absolutely cannot be had by any woman from any man. But one night that one or both of them may regret involving latex and alcohol... Surely.
No offense, but I think you should stop exclusively dating assholes and "players." It sounds like you don't much like it. - 17 days ago
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Wow. Jump to conclusions much? I have never dated an asshole, I don't like players and I don't believe in one night stands. You completely misinterpreted my statement ... which IS factual.
A woman cannot MAKE ANY man love, respect or have a relationship with her. Those things are based on personalities and needs and wants... individuals. Sex on the other hand, is much simpler... MUCH less rewarding, but far easier to get.
My statement gets to the definition of "having" the man... - 14 days ago
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true. and why ?...why not ! but not ANY guy for there is straight guys out there who are already taken ...
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