Is it selfish of me?

I think you should leave things just like they are because it seems to be going at a pace that's really comfortable for both of you. There's nothing you're being selfish about because you've not refused doing anything for him nor has he made you feel that you should be doing something that you haven't. You know what? He's probably not ready to have you pleasure him yet, because so far he's been completely happy and satisfied pleasuring you like he has. He probably gets far more pleasure doing like he is to you so he must just love that. I'm sure he's been getting a lot of pleasure seeing and knowing that you're naked in bed with him while he's not, and doing stuff to you that you love while he doesn't expect the same. My advice is to never hurry any sexual things until the time comes where it's just the natural mutual thing to proceed further. Obviously, that time hasn't come yet but will, so just enjoy the fun now the way it's been. However, if you really do feel bad to the point that it's starting to spoil the pleasure he's been giving you (and himself!) then just make a small move yourself by touching his body, and then another time more and more until your hands and fingers are busy doing to him the same that he's been doing to you. Good luck! By the way, this is one of the best questions asked on here in awhile. You seem so sincere and sweet.

You know that the scales of pleasure are out of balance--he's doing the giving, you're doing the receiving. It would be at least honest, and probably wise, to acknowledge this, out loud, and begin to deal with this.

By the way, when we care about our partner, we're all nervous. Courage, humor, patience and practice get us all through.

well when you are ready , you should go for it...u are not being selfish..When you thing it is a right then you can for it...if he really needs, he ll tell you I guess..

He's just not rushing into anything...If anything he has more respect for you than many other people would if they were in fact sleeping next to a naked girl like you. I think he wants to get in a comfortable zone, where he can take it slow, until then, he doesn't want to mess up something that is going right. He just cares a lot about you. You should be honored.

I think I'd feel teased with a naked woman next to me. I'd suggest either slowing things down and letting him know why or taking it further. As a big believer in saving sex for marriage, you can guess what me advice would be.

no you are not being selfish I think that he is just taking it slow and easy.
and if you guys are taking it slow it is completely normal
just wait some day the day will come but til then don't worry about it :D

No, I wouldn't say your being selfish. I would advice against doing anything you're uncomfortable with whether or not you think it would please your partner. Obviously he respects you enough to not pressure you into sex so I doubt he is thinking your being selfish ether. Take things slow and communicate to him.

MY opinion, not yours.
Cheers.

Not At All !
Its Just As Much His Responsibility As Yours :)
As You Both Said, You Don't Want To Rush Things, But It Seems Odd That You Have Been Pleasured But He Hasn't.
Next Time, Your In The Mood, Just Go For It, And See What Happens :)

tell him how you feel

yea

I don't think your selfish, your just inexperienced. This is all new to you. Don't feel the need to rush into anything your not comfortable with, but also be willing to communicate your feelings with your boyfriend. Ask him how he's feeling. Guys get scared too. I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend who was also a virgin and I think he was more scared then I was when it came to experimenting but we both got over it.

no your not being selfish. you should talk to him about it though. maybe once things are out in the open it will make things less uncomfortable and easier for you. and then when the time is right I'm sure you will know what to do.