Am I doing something wrong or am I doing it right when the men I've been with only last 5 minutes?

I think that is relatively common for guys who aren't regularly having sex or are doing something new. If it is a consistent problem and you want a longer session, get the guy off first (bj or hj), then spend as long as you would like on foreplay while he rests up for round two, which typically takes longer to ejaculate.

Probably coincidence. Nice work, though.

Just take it slow. Why rush it?

Obviously you're "too" right for the guys you've hooked up with because you must be too big a turn-on for them so the result is that they don't last long. Maybe you're overly anxious and energetic and "too" good a lay for the guys you've chosen so far. Try slowing down some and leave some of the action up to the guy and see what happens. This should make a difference. But yeah, I think you've too good plus the guys you've had haven't been good enough.

Stop picking the two pump chumps! Are you making them wear condoms? Because I am imagining you are incredibly tight.. Might make them go faster. Also, limit the blowjob time beforehand because if you do that for awhile prior, and then they put it in.. you'll get 5 minutes.

Slow down! Either slow them down or slow yourself down.

It happens. It could be a bunch of factors from, someone who is sexually inexperienced to someone who has had lots of sex but never cared about their partner so they just get off to being overly sensitive in his penis to simply being excited at having sex with you for the first time.

That's why sex is always better in a relationship. Not lecturing just saying. Because usually the guy begins to develop a since of what you want and gets used to the experience and calms down.

Even though everyone acts like "just hooking up sex" is the best thing ever, this is the actual reality off it. It just isn't always that great and can be more of a frustration then anything else.

I learned that men that come quick are the men that didn't get any in a loooooooooong time or are the men that are overly excited in their pants! I've had that happen to me before.