My boyfriend's Best Friend...

You can hardly blame a guy for looking. We can see it right through you shirt most of the time.

Just because I guy is looking doesn't mean he wants to sleep with you, as many of our fine ladies who visit this site seem to think.

I would say, having boobs that you can see through you shirt is like a guy walking around with a hard on but you can see it through your pants. Its hard not to look at something that is not on your body.

Example. link - watch the full video.

Its very hard not too look... but he should have the will power not to stare. Make him aware that he is staring, because he probably not aware of it himself.

haha, wear stuff that covers them up more?

Tell your boyfriend you are not comfortable with it and let him mention it.
i dunno, there really isn't much you can do, guys like to stare at girls boobs and I am guessing you have an irresistible rack. too bad this guy is so obvious, but many guys look at them and as long as they don't say anything you really can't do much.

It depends on how much you care about your relationship to your boyfriends friend. Its a sign of a lack of self control on his part, one I have certainly done from time to time. Does he find you sexually attractive yeah. Does he want to pursue that probably not. To guys looking is not necessarily followed by action. Even though you have a boyfriend I'm sure you glance at good looking guys from time to time with no intention of having a relationship. I always have the sneaking suspicion that girls that complain about being looked at like the attention. In general my message to all womankind is chill out about it. All I can say is if you don't like that habit of his you probably won't want to go out with him which is good because ur going out with your boyfriend not him. Lets face it a lot of good guys out there have kinda loser friends but were not going to abandon them for that just becuz we have a girlfriend that jsut wouldn't be right

A girl in high school called me out on this once, but did it without confronting me. She said something to the effect of "why are guys always looking at my chest instead of my eyes?" I hadn't really thought about the fact that I might have been looking lower than I should have, but I made a more conscious effort to look girls in the eyes after that.

Perhaps say something to your boyfriend when his roommate will overhear. "This guy at the grocery store was a total jerk. Spent the entire conversation while I was paying looking at my chest. I hate it when people don't look me in the eyes..."

I don't think you can read into if he is interested in you from just this. Guys tend to check lots of good looking gals out. Doesn't necessarily mean more than you are attractive :)

if you want to get the point across to him really quickly, tell him in a very confident demanding way to stop looking at your breasts, if you do it in front of somebody then it will be slightly embarrassing for him but he won't do it again because of that, he may even try to avoid you after that.
or you ask your boyfriend to talk to him, tell him how it makes you feel.

But do not sleep with him, you could say just this once but he would come back for more and maybe try to blackmail you into it again so he doesn't tell your boyfriend, plus if you slept with him and your boyfriend did find out, think about what it would do to him, that is horrible advice to sleep with him.

just tell ur boyfriend and hopefully he would do something...

If it were me I'd pick his chin up and tell him "My eyes are up here hun" Then continue on with my conversation ignoring him. It will get the point across and maybe a laugh from your S/O too =)

This has worked for me:

When he is doing it, slowly look down at where his eyes are as if you are wondering what you have on your chest. Then look at him, then look back at your chest with a puzzled look. There will be an awkward silence as everyone realizes what he is looking at. Eventually he will become aware that he has been caught out.

you could just sleep with him and get it over with. that's what he is fantizising about and sometimes us girls need to just give out a few favors to guys. Just sleep with him and tell him that you did it just the one time and that he needs to move on now. its win win really

Some guys can't help it, seemingly. Just try to avoid him, or keep the conversations with him short and I'm sure he'll get the message soon enough that something he's doing is making you uncomfortable xxxx