What's the best way to tell my mom I'm not a virgin?

If it were me in your situation I wouldn't tell her I’m not a virgin unless she asked, in which case I would be honest. Why bring up something you know will upset her if you don’t have to? I’m against lying to someone but simply not saying anything in hopes of avoiding disappointment I see nothing wrong with. Your virginity has nothing to do with her and thus is not important to confront her about.

MY opinion, not yours.
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I don't think its important for your mom to know,she doesn't need to know I think.

However its VERY IMPORTANT for your doctor to know if your sexually active or not.

If it comes up on conversation an it seems like a time to tell her tell her, but don't lie to her just try to avoid it if you don't want to tell her

I would like to pose a question into this question: Why be fearful to tell the truth - really?

You might get scolded, yelled at, sure but you shouldn't care if your mature. She might be angry but she'll also understand.

what your momma don't know won't hurt her. ...-The Water Boy

Be straight up about this, your mother is protective of you and we want to keep you safe as possible and hide you from the world - but you also need to get out on your own a little or you won't be ready. At what age was her first time? When was your first time? You might have been younger than her, or her than you - she should be understanding and support you.

Sex doesn't make you a woman, what does is your ability to stand on your own two feet with maturity. This can be your first step toward woman hood and a great deal of respect from your mother for telling her the truth.

I hope this helps :)

why do you feel that you have to tell her your profile says your under 18 and she probably is thinking that she wants you to be but your not don't tell her but I have to say if your mom was a teen mom then you should no better not to be sleeping around.

I agree with InquisitiveMale, I'm 17 and I think me and my boyfriend will start sleeping together soon. I'm really close to my mom but I'm not going to tell her unless she asks

You should sit down with her and tell her, tell her it's something she might not like but deserves to know ( which will make her less angry cause of you cared to tell her).
Tell her I'm not a virgin I had protected sex, I promise you I won't be fooling around doing sex with everyone unless it's someone I'm committed to and he has to wear a condom !
Tell her you learned from her experience which you won't repeat again :-)

Honestly with her being a teen mom she would understand... I would tell her only if she asks tho.

I agree with the other two answers. I know how you feel though, kind of. My mum had me when she was my age. I never told her when/that I've had sex, or discussed that aspect of my personal life with her at all. I made the conscious decision NOT to tell her. Not so much because I thought she'd be upset, but because we just don't have the kind of bond where we talk about that kind of thing together, and my business is MY business. I know she knows though, and I've neither confirmed nor denied. She's made a few jokes about it, kind of, which shows that she doesn't think it's a big deal.

I'm an adult, so she can't really say anything. But she did once poke fun at me saying that she wishes I'd be a little more discreet when I walk down the driveway at night to go hang out with 'someone' for an hour or two when I haven't gone anywhere ELSE all day, because my grandma was still up and she doesn't want to hear her bitch about it in the morning, hahaha.

You don't have to tell her. This is no one's business but your own. If you are worried that someone else will tell her, then you need to make sure your friends know to keep quiet.

If you are finding that there are a lot of times where your mother brings up the fact that you are a virgin, then you guys are talking about your sex life too much. Try to talk about other things.

Eventually, when you are in a serious relationship--maybe living with a guy, it will probably become apparent to your mother that you have had sex. I doubt that she will freak at this point.

Part of becoming an adult is taking control over your life. In this case, you have made the decision to have sex. You are not hurting anyone. You can choose to keep this part of your life to yourself for now. It is just easier.