Is it unfair to wear what I want even if I've refused my boyfriend sex that morning?

so basically, your boyfriend seems a little immature. All I see is grown man sulking around like a 4 year old because he didn't get what he wanted. Seriously? and you feel guilty ? c'mon lol guys don't actually get blue balls its just a figure of speech implying that they're horny. It doesn't harm them. If you had worn a pair of shorts, heels, low shirt, tank top (you name it) it probably wouldn't have made a difference, It would be all he thought about no matter what you were wearing. its like a no win situation. Don't feel guilty.

No, you did the right thing wearing the sexy all day, but you should have broken down early in the day, maybe after morning coffee, and unzipped his pants and unleashed the blueball python, and taken it deep in ur mouth, until he hot jizzed down ur sexy throat. But again, that is just my male opinion. Thanks for listening.
kisses.

Your friend said it right to the letter. That was his problem, not yours! A grill should be able to wear whatever she wants anytime she wants, and if that including dressing hot like you did. That was completely fair of you to wear that skirt. Those happen to be my favorite and my girlfriend wears those often whenever she feels like it without checking with me first or being concerned whether we might have had a little row the night before or whenever. Because of the row you did have the night before, for whatever reason you had for not having sex with him that morning, what the heck would that ever have to do with what you'd wear unless you normally wear longggggg skirts? Did he want you to dress all dowdy and lame when no doubt you thought the row was more his fault, or at least for how it ended? Didn't he take the row seriously? I think that's really immature of him, and that he was more than a teasing b**tch for acting so childish. Don't even worry for a second that he might have gotten blue balls because normal guys don't get those that way, and normal guys don't get those hardly at all. Now if he moped around all day with the grudge on his mind he might have aroused himself but that had absolutely nothing to do with what you did. Sounds like he got some fantasy in his head. You should just tell him to grow up and that he's not going to get sex with you every day because there will be some days that you're not in the mood. Same for him. I think what happened might be a little indication of how he'll pout when some little thing doesn't go his way in the future, if he's not already. Next time he brings it up even if just indirectly, ask him if he's cooled down yet. I wouldn't back down if I were you. I'd just let this blow over and try to rectify the problem of the row rather than be worrying about what you might decide to wear to look nice on any given day or when you might decide to not have sex or not.

he's an A*S*S*

Well, he shouldn't call you names, that's not right. But come on, you refuse him sex, which is of course your right, but then flash your legs all day in a denim mini-skirt? The poor guy must have been almost ready to beg for it by the afternoon. I can see why he got annoyed. So I guess I can see it from both sides. You should be able to wear what you want of course, but have a heart. Refusing a horny man, AND THEN wearing a short skirt all day. I hope you've sorted him out now! ;)

Just a little bit since you did wear a mini skirt and for a lot of men that's a weakness. He was left hanging from when you didn't give him in the morning and he felt teased when you wore the skirt flaunting it if you will.

You can wear what you want. Just because he wants to sulk like a baby cause he didn't get his nookie in the morning is no reason for him to get rude to you over it. Hell, if he thinks about it, you could just cut him off all together and then he would have a reason. :D

your boyfriend sounds like a complete d***. you can wear what you want. what about how you feel? he thinks its unfair for you to wear a skirt when you didn't have sex with him, but he sees nothing unfair about calling you out of your name when he can't get what he wants? its your body, you can't always jump and have sex whenever he wants it. and wearing a miniskirt doesn't mean you are showing off sex or trying to advertise. your question just raised my blood pressure a little bit, I'm mad your boyfriend acted like that lol

Maybe you shouldn't play games. I'm pretty sure you were well aware that it would drive him nuts that you first deny him something that he wants, and then tease him all day about it, using the excuse "I should be able to wear what I want"

Common, you know fully well what you were doing miss innocent, I'm not buying it.

Its your right to wear a mini skirt, its your right to not want to have sex, but it is not right to tease and torture someone like that.

Sorry, you may have the upper hand now, but people will only put up with so much. That kind of bullsh*t games is gonna send your man packing and onto a woman who doesn't play them. Sorry to be harsh but that's reality.

What a baby! Wear what you want- doesn't entitle" hey big boy come get me. " No you shouldn't feel bad obvious you are dating sum1 immature. If my boyfriend called me a b**ch! I'd sucker punch him!