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It's a good thing. It brings a couple closer, and helps you decide what kind of partner you what to spend the rest of you life with. (Plus its fun)
It is a bad thing. I makes so much emotional baggage, and teaches your brain to connect physically without emotion (which is not natural).
To some extent Its a good thing. But you should only have sex with people that you are fairly sure you want to spend the rest of your life with, never anything casual.
I would recommend it. I've noticed that the further people wait, the more time they have to really connect with the person they are with. Sex can complicate things and sometimes overshadow the real reason of being in a relationship.
So my recommendation of it has little to do with my own religious beliefs.
You may find this hard to understand or agree with but at your age there are things that you can do before going all the way. As you get older one may not wait as long but it still should be with someone you care for & can trust.
Lol no I agree with you. I have been told my views on sex are quite mature for my age. You just need to know me to understand. By no means am I trying to resolve my own morals on what I believe is right and wrong. I think what I believe is quite reasonable and I wouldn't let any one tell me other wise. I would never even fathom having sex with some one I didn't care about or couldn't trust. That is how you get hurt right? Thanks for the words of wisdom, however it was no real shocking news. :) - 22 days ago
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Very Good! It's good to hear that you will not let anyone tell you otherwise, pressure you or try to change what you believe in. Yes it is how girls get hurt by having sex with someone who they don't care about or worse yet someone that they don't trust. Sometimes it's hard to tell if a guy is in the relationship for you or for "it" It does sound like you have good judgment What bothers me is that I read over & over again how these so called boyfriends criticize their girls saying things like... - 22 days ago
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Your fat (and sometimes right after sex) criticize their bodies or say something like that wouldn't look good on you. WHY do these guys say these things & WHY OH WHY do girls put up with this nonsense?? - 22 days ago
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I wish that girls would have enough self confidence to kick a guy to the curb if he ever said something rude or degrading. In the long run it will hurt them less. I also wish people would seriously think to themselves about if they are ready for sex. Because there would be no worse feeling than hating yourself for a decision that you made. - 22 days ago
It would be hard for me to marry a guy to whom I'm sexually incompatible. Sex is an important part of marriage, it'd suck if you didn't along well on the subject.
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