i get bad attention from guys. the kind of attention that doesn't have to do with love its more like..lust. every guy will talk about me in a sexual manner when they first meet me. I just don't understand why I get this strange attention from men. I'm not a slut (still a virgin) I don't go around flirting with everyone. I wouldn't really consider myself pretty though. I think I'm average and have no confidence what so ever. is it just me or do other girls feel the same? ha
It's hard to explain without seeing or knowing you. There are all kinds of sexy one of them is girl next door sexy. Maybe you are better looking then you think & fall into that category.
"Personality: Fun and Flirty Girl" <-- from your profile.
If you assume you are a flirty woman, men will misconceive this information and act on it. A woman that flirts back is considered to "be okay" with this type of talk and/or action.
If you want that to change, stand by your values and demand some respect. There is nothing wrong with saying "Hey I'm not your sex object and it's not okay for you to say sh*t like that". People will understand that you mean business, but they could start viewing you in negative ways like "You are a bitch" etc... It is all about the importance of your morals and what you are willing to accept with a grain of salt, and what you will not tolerate.
Best regards, ArtistBBoy
P.s. the Taylor swift picture on your profile is amazing.
tell them off. no one has a right to disrespect you like that regardless of how attractive you are. the more you tell guys off the more they will stop doing it.
Assuming you aren't dressed in a suggestive way and aren't talking about sex, etc, I would suggest 1) you are hanging around with creepy people. (The men I know would never disrespect a woman that way) Find a new crowd and 2) work up your righteous indignation. If a man who doesn't know you is making inappropriate sexual comments, let them know that you take offense. You have the right to be treated with respect. Demand it. Act offended when a man is indeed being offensive. They need to learn that making a sexual comment to a stranger is not an acceptable behavior. Be confident too. Some immature men may mistakenly think they're being charming, but some men do this to bully women who seem timid. (It's a way of embarrassing and demeaning her and making her uncomfortable.) If you act confident, they'll be more likely to stop picking on you. Good luck.
I'm super confident and would consider myself to be attractive. That rarely happens to me besides the drive by catcalls I'm sure any girl that has been walking alone has encountered. The guy I'm seeing now confessed lately that he would have never ever approached me if he wasn't drunk. He said that he was so terrified because he found me very confident and attractive and he was afraid of rejection. You said your not confident so maybe guys give you this bad attention because they don't think you will do anything about it and they will get away with being a jerk. You are obviously some what attractive because guys don't generally hit on ugly girls. So take the fact that they are hitting on you as a confidence booster and maybe that will repel some of these duds. Good Luck :)
I'm guessing that you're attractive. I don't know, some guys treat me like that after they get to know me, but they don't when they first meet me. Probably because I'm more quiet and shy at first, so your personality might have something to do with it too.
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