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Why does my boyfriend not pay much attation to my panties and bra when we do stuff?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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I put effort in trying to get them to match and stuff and want him to look at them. What do you guys think?


Update: I work at Victoria secret so I only wear stuff from there.    4 months ago

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MrWizard
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MrWizard      When: 4 months ago
Why not ask him to pick something out for you that he would like to get him involved?
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here4you
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here4you      When: 4 months ago
hes more focused on what's under the bra and panties then the actual lingerie
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Cartiphilus I must agree with him. - 4 months ago

ThisGuy13
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ThisGuy13      When: 4 months ago
Panties and bras were made to come off. Not stay on the whole time
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Cartiphilus Here here! - 4 months ago

Cartiphilus
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Cartiphilus      When: 4 months ago
Are you wearing cotton panties and bra or nylon? Never wear cotton. Try wearing only bikini panties or thongs. As for the bra wear something shear or very thin such that your nipples can be noticed if not seen. That should attract his attention. Remember, you're not wearing the panties and bra for other girls or so much for modesty but as a pre-cursor to foreplay.
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Question Asker No no cotton just victoria secret that should get his attention but it does not. - 4 months ago
Answerer Hmmmm...... - 4 months ago

iwbym
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iwbym      When: 4 months ago
its not really what were concerned about...yeah they may look good...but to us its just preventing us from getting some ya know?...and about him not taking them off...well why don't you just show him you want him to take them off...like just sit there and pretend like you won't do anything unless he takes them off...its the only way he'll get that you want him to do it
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Question Asker Good idea thanks :)
- 4 months ago
Answerer Btw with ur status update...i may have an idea of who you are...but I won't say it...just to be sure - 4 months ago
Question Asker Ya you don't but don't say it please! - 4 months ago
Answerer Ok...nvm..then...i just know another user on here who works at a VS...so anyway...yeah good luck...and let us know how it works out - 4 months ago
Question Asker No you do know me I meant to say but please don't say who I am. you never talk to me anymore? - 4 months ago
Answerer U never want to talk to me anyway - 4 months ago
Question Asker Yes I do I love talking to you. - 4 months ago
Answerer Y? - 4 months ago
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VIVA-Vigilante
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VIVA-Vigilante      When: 4 months ago
Once I read this question all I could think about was my one male friends asking me "Why do girls put so much effort into picking out linegrie, I'm just going to rip it off any way?"

He looked so confused, it made me laugh!

They would rather see what's underneath the lingerie, they want to see you!
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Cartiphilus Yes, having see-through bra and panties would only delay the inevitable that they're coming off as quickly as possible when that moment arrives. :-) - 4 months ago

poulette12
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poulette12      When: 4 months ago
Well, I think most guys are more interested in what's beneath your bra and panties.
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Cartiphilus I have to agree with her. I would be more interested in what's beneath the bra and panties to be concerned about how they look on her. - 4 months ago

 
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Anonymous User      When: 4 months ago
he is a heterosexual guy, not a girl or a homosexual guy. thus he is going to be more concerned with your naked body and getting the lingerie off of you instead of "ooh girl that looks so fierce on you! I love that leopard print bra with that thong girl! work it!" lmao
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Question Asker Haha very nice that is funny!! - 4 months ago
here4you Lmao nice answer
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SmarmyMarsh
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SmarmyMarsh      When: 4 months ago
He's probably too busy looking at the rest of you-- after all, that's what he's there for.
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ivarei
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ivarei      When: 4 months ago
he's focused on getting the lingerie off. when it comes to guys, don't count of them to care about matching colors and patterns, it's just not what's on their mind.
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Question Asker No I don't think so because he does not take them off I always have to. - 4 months ago
Answerer It doesn't matter. stop trying so hard at impressing him with your lingerie and you'd be less disappointed. girls think too hard about what they're wearing, when guys aren't going to pay much attention to it. - 4 months ago
Question Asker Ya I guess this is the truth lol - 4 months ago
Answerer I think it's funny that you work at VS, I used to work there but I never bought anything from there. I would always laugh when a woman came in and asked me what her boyfriend would like most. the answer is NOTHING. but have you ever noticed that guys talk about the Victoria's Secret Angels and say they're hot, but they never mention what they're wearing on the runway or I the catalogs. I don't even know if they notice the lingerie lol. it's all about their bodies. - 4 months ago
Question Asker Well that really does not make me feel any better :( I don't have a great body. - 4 months ago
Answerer No one looks like the VS models, not even the VS models look like the VS models lol. it's photoshop, professional lighting, and makeup.
point is, don't expect your boyfriend to compliment you on the matching Very Sexy set you're wearing. and don't blow your paycheck on VS stuff, because the majority of what they make at VS is crap. - 4 months ago
Question Asker Wow you really don't like that store they must have treated you badly its a hard place to work you have to be a hard ass!! - 4 months ago
Answerer It's no harder than Pier 1 imports, where I work now.
i don't like VS because the products they make are over-priced and aren't very effective. Victoria's Secret is about form, not function and they're very good at marketing. what they make is pretty though. - 4 months ago
Question Asker Oh I've always loved the stuff and everything so its part of the reason I work there. - 4 months ago
Answerer Lol. each to their own. they never carry my size so I don't bother going there. I prefer La Senza. - 4 months ago
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