Are you wearing cotton panties and bra or nylon? Never wear cotton. Try wearing only bikini panties or thongs. As for the bra wear something shear or very thin such that your nipples can be noticed if not seen. That should attract his attention. Remember, you're not wearing the panties and bra for other girls or so much for modesty but as a pre-cursor to foreplay.
its not really what were concerned about...yeah they may look good...but to us its just preventing us from getting some ya know?...and about him not taking them off...well why don't you just show him you want him to take them off...like just sit there and pretend like you won't do anything unless he takes them off...its the only way he'll get that you want him to do it
Once I read this question all I could think about was my one male friends asking me "Why do girls put so much effort into picking out linegrie, I'm just going to rip it off any way?"
He looked so confused, it made me laugh!
They would rather see what's underneath the lingerie, they want to see you!
Yes, having see-through bra and panties would only delay the inevitable that they're coming off as quickly as possible when that moment arrives. :-) - 4 months ago
I have to agree with her. I would be more interested in what's beneath the bra and panties to be concerned about how they look on her. - 4 months ago
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he is a heterosexual guy, not a girl or a homosexual guy. thus he is going to be more concerned with your naked body and getting the lingerie off of you instead of "ooh girl that looks so fierce on you! I love that leopard print bra with that thong girl! work it!" lmao
he's focused on getting the lingerie off. when it comes to guys, don't count of them to care about matching colors and patterns, it's just not what's on their mind.
No I don't think so because he does not take them off I always have to. - 4 months ago
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It doesn't matter. stop trying so hard at impressing him with your lingerie and you'd be less disappointed. girls think too hard about what they're wearing, when guys aren't going to pay much attention to it. - 4 months ago
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Ya I guess this is the truth lol - 4 months ago
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I think it's funny that you work at VS, I used to work there but I never bought anything from there. I would always laugh when a woman came in and asked me what her boyfriend would like most. the answer is NOTHING. but have you ever noticed that guys talk about the Victoria's Secret Angels and say they're hot, but they never mention what they're wearing on the runway or I the catalogs. I don't even know if they notice the lingerie lol. it's all about their bodies. - 4 months ago
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Well that really does not make me feel any better :( I don't have a great body. - 4 months ago
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No one looks like the VS models, not even the VS models look like the VS models lol. it's photoshop, professional lighting, and makeup. point is, don't expect your boyfriend to compliment you on the matching Very Sexy set you're wearing. and don't blow your paycheck on VS stuff, because the majority of what they make at VS is crap. - 4 months ago
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Wow you really don't like that store they must have treated you badly its a hard place to work you have to be a hard ass!! - 4 months ago
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It's no harder than Pier 1 imports, where I work now. i don't like VS because the products they make are over-priced and aren't very effective. Victoria's Secret is about form, not function and they're very good at marketing. what they make is pretty though. - 4 months ago
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Oh I've always loved the stuff and everything so its part of the reason I work there. - 4 months ago
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Lol. each to their own. they never carry my size so I don't bother going there. I prefer La Senza. - 4 months ago
You are at a dinner with her, have just walked into an interview or are at a first date with the best looking guy and there, your top two shirt buttons have snapped, or the pants you were wearing...
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