i love receiving blow jobs from my girl, but the problem is I don't come fast enough and she get tired so I don't ever get to finish. ~how long does it take for a guy to cum?
note: she once went ten straight mins sucking me up but no load? 'o' is there something wrong with me? has any one received a longer bj?
My guy often takes 10+ minutes and I love it. It lets me try all kinds of moves and helps me find out exactly what he likes. The get him off ASAP, I combine a really strong suck with a gentle flicking of the tip of his shaft. Definitely speeds things up. If you don't feel like telling your girl how to give a job, try holding her head and getting into to the in/out action. Make sure you are sitting up and watching her suck on you, my hubby says that watching me do the deed is almost as hot as the act itself. If all else fails, just enjoy!
Guys can really differ on the amount of time need to get off. Probably not anything wrong with you, just your a guy that takes longer. Maybe she could start off with a hand a job and when your close she could finish you with a blow job. But please don't expect her to do a forever long blow job. I have been there and it really sucks. But as encouragement, you will have no problem with this in sex... its better to be a guy that takes longer to get off when having sex lol
Yea. but its become a problem. she always feel bad because she can't make me come even during sex. - 18 days ago
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Well if your having that much of a problem coming, it wouldn't hurt to talk to a doctor and see if there is anything that can be done about it. I totally get the feeling of not being about to get some one to cum... it happens some times especially if you don't wait long enough to go again. But maybe try talking to her and reassuring her that its not its not her fault. - 18 days ago
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For me; when getting a blowjob it takes me (oh, maybe) about 30-45 min. The more she's into it, the quicker I'll get there. With a handjob, it's takes me about 30-45 min also. unless I'm just jacking myself, then I can do myself in about 10 min or so. Now, full intercourse is another animal: if you subtract the fore-play (which it's so much better with the fore-play) then we can go for straight out humping for a good 20 to 30 min (that's pure, full fledged penis into vagina/ in-out in-out intercourse). But we usually go for about 45min or 1hr of fore-play first!
I read 3/4 of the guys don't have an orgasm from a blow job. Nothing wrong with you thus. She could start with a blowjob and finish with vaginal or with a handjob.
That's a good strategy. I'm a post a question like " Damn what's up my girlfriend is like angry at me because I have too big of a penis, I'm too sexy, I last all night, I got too much loot and everyone thinks I'm cool. What's the deal?"
it isn't based on time but on sensation of a particular sort. you could be about to come and then she changes the pace a little and then it is lost. the same applies to women. we aren't machines that take a predestined amount of time. my girl has given me head for over half an hour. typically I don't come from that, I pull out at one point and have her suck my balls while I jerk off until I come and let her pick if she wants it on her face, chest, or in her mouth. I have probably never came purely from the blowjob itself, the stimulation is never quite right, just brings you close. one girl here said finish with the BJ but that is wrong, you need to start with BJ and finish with sex or your hand.
Everyone is different in the time it takes to come. When she is giving you a BJ try just concentrating on how good it feels. If your worried that your not gonna come then you probably won't.
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