Anal is best?!

I"m sure (and have heard) that some females really like anal. However, I think a good number of women only do it to please their man, even if it hurts.

My husband wants to do anal occasionally and at first I told him no. Then I thought about it and considered it. The first time we actually did it it did not hurt. I was surprised, but maybe it was because we hadn't planned on it, so I was anticipating that it would hurt. I think the mind plays a lot into people thinking it will hurt really bad. That being said, I did it about 4 months ago and we did it the following day. Following this, we tried several times, but it always hurt so he never got to go very far in. A few days ago, we tried again and he actually go to go all the way in. He had to go slow and I was still uncomfortable a bit, but it worked. I think it is more of an uncomfortable feeling than actual pain. It is uncomfortable because it makes you feel like you have to go to the bathroom really bad, but I don't believe it should really hurt if he goes slow like he is supposed to. I think it just takes time for the girl to get used to and enjoy it.

The first girl that my husband ever had sex with (before we ever met) introduced him to several things, including anal. I think that is partly why he likes it. Also, a lot of porn seems to include anal *possibly part of why I was willing to try, and because he wanted to*.

Given that the only person I've had sex with is my husband, I can hardly be worn out and it still hurts at the beginning when we have regular sex, so it's not a tightness issue either. And my husband is not small, he is above average so it's not that either.

haha No, I don't think most women will end up liking anal sex so much they don't want traditional sex. Actually in my experience, most women aren't huge fans of it. To some women, it is actually very painful and don't like it at all.

The anus has a lot of nerve endings around it. And the women who do like anal sex usually have very sensitive nerve endings there that makes it feel good. I've heard them say that even going the bathroom feels very good cause of that.

As far as guys liking anal, I don't think it has anything to do with wanting to feel gay. I think sometimes guys can get focused on what they haven't tried sexually and then they want to. I also know guys that want to do it because the girl isn't a virgin and they want to be in a place that no other guy has been. Or another guy who wasn't even interested until he found out his wife had tried it with her old boyfriend, then he really wanted to try it too. And to some guys it feels more dominant then doggie style. But I think most times it comes more out of curiosity than anything else.

As far as penis size, no I don't think people do it because the guy is too small. But men with larger penises do have a harder time doing it.

And no, it has nothing to do with a woman being worn out.

The culture now is a culture of sexual buffet. We believe that we have to try as many things as possible to have a healthy, happy sex life. So when something new pops up most people want to try it to get that new high.

It's disgusting to me, and I'd never do it.

I hope that was only an exaggeration, about feeling like women will ONLY want sodomy. Personally, if I had to choose between sex with her vagina or her ass, I would choose vagina. However, if for whatever reason she enjoyed anal sex, I wouldn't oppose it. I myself only know one girl that likes anal sex. And her reasons aren't to make anyone happy, she genuinely likes it. Says she gets a "different" type of orgasm with anal sex. Having nothing to do with size or tightness. I'm guessing exploring something that isn't commonly practiced that is rumored to bring pleasure, is always a curiousity and sometimes alluring and exciting.

But as far as I know, majority of women don't prefer it than to those who do. By a lot! Lol