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Still a virgin?

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lil_luv21 (Age:Under 18)     When: 17 days ago
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So a couple years ago I vowed to stay a virgin till marriage...
1. I gave a guy head and we done other things as well, but there was no sex...but some say sex is sex...does that still make me a virgin?
2. For guys to find out that a girl is still a virgin is that a turn on or a turn off...
3. Do you think it's wrong for a girl to "tease" a guy that she is with? I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and I tease him...like I'll act like we are going to have sex and then do other stuff...Is that wrong?


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jusabarasida
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jusabarasida      When: 8 days ago
Your still a virgin..

It's not a matter of turn-on or turn-off.. its not a sexual thing.. its more like respect.. I respect you for being a virgin because that means you have strong morals and haven't given into pressures from school or friends or the t.v.. in which you see stupid people prance around on reality shows acting obnoxious..

Teasing can be dangerous like others have said.. if its the wrong guy, he'll have sex with you regardless of your consent.. and I think you what that means.. rape..

Good job on deciding to stay a virgin.. its a valuable thing to have.. even though virgins are seen as innocent or uncool, let the nay-sayers say what they want.. the important thing is .. be who you are.. you got your priorities and they have theirs.. In the end, it doesn't matter what others think, they can all rot in pieces. just sayin.
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CountDove
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CountDove      When: 20 hours ago
1. I'm sorry dear, but technically you aren't a virgin anymore because you've engaged in blatant sexual activity with another person's genitals.

2. It depends on what their motives are with you. For men looking for a serious relationship and actually care about a woman, this would mean a lot to them. Not necessarily a turn on, but certainly a critical point to serious men. Those just looking for sex probably wouldn't care much, because they just want to copulate you, and the end is the same in either scenario.

3. Yes, in my opinion. Regardless of your morals, you shouldn't give men the idea that you're going to have sex and then play the take away with them. He will get frustrated with you and eventually ditch you. If the man has morals, then you are causing him grief. If the man doesn't have morals, you're just being a persnickety wench. I would suggest you make a decision on the matter one way or the other.



-Count D.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: Yesterday
1. You suck a guys d-i-c-k and then say you have not had sex? I don't know exactly how the bible defines "virgin" but you have definitely had sex.

2. I don't care much but I would prefer a girl who has some experience and knows what she is doing.

3. Do what ever you like to do but I personally would find it annoying and dump you immediately if you we didn't have any sex.
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bayjell654
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bayjell654      When: 4 days ago
first of all, you are a virgin still...

second, the pervert guys out there or the majority of guys that just want one thing, to find out you're a virgin, they'll most likely want to be your first because of a few reasons id rather not get into detail about, and the few of us guys that are good guys and not sex obsessed will NOT push you at all, and I just wanna say GOOD JOB staying a virgin til marriage, I'm 18 and I picked that, and ima guy, and its difficult and never easy TRUST ME...

thirdly, no its not wrong, but it can be over done very easily, and a little and some teasing is fun and all for guys, but after we get hard and our minds start running about what we COULD do, its no fun anymore, and not to mention the amount of time we spend hard and don't and not gona do anything is proportional to the length of time we have blue balls, or at least it is for me, and that's no fun AT ALL
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Sexy-Senior-09
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Sexy-Senior-09      When: 6 days ago
1.No that is not se
2.turn on
3.yes its wrong I would be p*ssed if you kept doing that
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man4fem6
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man4fem6      When: 6 days ago
I like virgin girl
Sure virgin turn me on
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Feelinfrisky
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Feelinfrisky      When: 6 days ago
If you suck a guys cock, or he fingers your pu**y, you have entered the world of sex. Biologically your still a virgin. If you like to think of yourself as pure, your definitely not. lol. Any guy who doesn't want to f***k a virgin, needs his cock head examined. ha ha. You ARE a nasty little tease, baby, but that is very sexy though.
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Littletad
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Littletad      When: 8 days ago
You are still a virgin, and it should not matter what other guys think about your status as a virgin. And yes it's wrong to tease.
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kspytz
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kspytz      When: 12 days ago
1 if you still have ur cherry ur a virgin
2 I think its a turn on if she is willing to do other stuff
3 if ya tease the wrong guy you could get into trouble. if ya only tease, then its wrong. first is to be honest, say we can't go all the way cause I want to stay a virgin, but id like to give ya head
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jacquesvol
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jacquesvol      When: 13 days ago
1.
Bill Clinton says you're a virgin: on, "I did not have sexual relations with that woman... link I wouldn't dare to contradict him (a) Would you?
You probably don't remember the history. Here: link
2. I don't care.
3. I wouldn't like that. Next time you'd be asking in vain.
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insanity
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insanity      When: 13 days ago
FOR QUESTION 1 - your still a virgin
2 - personally its a good thing but dangerous but still a good think . he will take your first scream;-) cheer up
3 - that ain't good sister teasing a man with desert without giving it to him?
he may jump on you like a monkey going for some banana hmmmmmmmmmmm think about that
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justin2800
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justin2800      When: 14 days ago
yes, teasin, not cool.
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Jolyo91
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Jolyo91      When: 14 days ago
1- physically yes but literally no.

2- Total turn on

3- Not a good idea, he might feel like you are not satisfying is urges, but you are doing it to stay in the safe side which is good.

Keep up and stick to the vow
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Anonymous User      When: 15 days ago
I believe it is losing your virginity, but it's not a turn off and if you regret it, don't let it get to you just try not to do it again, and it's not a turn off or turn on, everyone has different tweeks
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here4you
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here4you      When: 17 days ago
technically ur a virgin until a penis enters ur vagina
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jacquesvol Thus "penetrated in all ways , vagina excepted?" - 13 days ago

d8880
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d8880      When: 17 days ago
you are physically a virgin but no spiritually
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whatlove2212 In my opinion, you are spitiually a virgin until you Share your virginity with somebody, which is a spiritual choice. - 17 days ago

MrWizard
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MrWizard      When: 17 days ago
1. By definition you are still a virgin link

2. A turn on or turn off will depend on the guy. Some guys want an experienced girl. Others are more than willing to show her the ropes. Any guy who also wants to wait will be happy to find a girl who shares his desire to stay a virgin until marriage.

3. I think it is important to have clear boundaries set and communicated. If you are clearly giving the impression that you want to cross the line and then don't, I think most guys will get frustrated with that quick.
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stercor
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stercor      When: 17 days ago
I commend you on your decision to remain a virgin until marriage.
But purity is more than an unbroken hymen.

Is what you're doing rong? Yes. Don't be a prick-tease.
You're playing with him.
That's dishonest and would be good enough reason for him to dump you.
Dishonesty is a show-stopper.

Ted
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Jonny_
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Jonny_      When: 17 days ago
1. Yes you're still a virgin
2. Its usually a turn on as guys like girls who have no other partners to compare them to, on the other hand some guys prefer experienced girls, its hit and miss sometimes.
3. No, I don't think its wrong to tease its all part of the fun. I only don't like getting teased by a girl who is more than flirting, but has no intention of ever dating me, that can be irritating.
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dave216
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dave216      When: 17 days ago
1. Your a virgin until a penis penetrates your pussy.
2. It varies. I would say it is turn off unless you are both naked in bed when you tell him. If you tell him any other time, it is an indicator that sex with you is not an option.
3. Yes, its wrong and it can be dangerous. Tease the wrong guy and you may stop being a virgin, whether you want to or not.
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Telly2Kul
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Telly2Kul      When: Yesterday
Um giving head is sex. Technically its sex but not really. It depends on what the guy prefers. Some guys like experienced girls and some like virgins because they are new to the game. The newer you are to the game the more pleasurable it will be. Teasing is not wrong. It keeps him coming back.
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AKA_Kiwi
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AKA_Kiwi      When: 12 days ago
Yes you are still a virgin if you did not go all the way OK and yes it is a big turn on to all men so don't give it up for a while even if you start dating and no its not safe to tease because if you get them to worked up they might just take it any way and you don't want to have that happen so don't tease unless you can please ok if he loves you he will wait there is a so called bath room he can go into OK that just shows you if he really wants to be with you for the rest of his life so don't worry if he don't run off you still got him but be careful he might be out there playing around !
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whatlove2212
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whatlove2212      When: 17 days ago
You are still a virgin until you actually have sex. Giving bj's and etc. is not sex and doesn't count.

If you tease it just means that you're insecure in saying that you still think you want to be a virgin and it's probably not healthy for the relationship. If he's immature though, he may break up with you because he's really going out with you because he wants p**** and knows you're hard to get. Which might be the case, but probably not. A real man will wait until you are ready, and you have the right to change your mind at any time.
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afriendlycow OMG a girl that know what the hell what is a relationship. gj. xD I haven't met one that knows, until now. - 12 days ago
Answerer :-D Thanks! - 8 days ago

lace_and_leather
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lace_and_leather      When: 17 days ago
1. Yes, you are still a virgin.
2. I don't think it really matters to the guy, however, it could be a turn off if he associates virgins with being overly emotional the first time. It may or may not hurt for you so you might bleed or cry, which can make him feel a little uneasy. Also, losing your virginity can sometimes be a big ordeal where you are forced to deal with all these feelings- before, after, and during sex. Although, if you are waiting till marriage then I assume you would be in love with the guy and not have any second thoughts if it's the right thing to do. It could still be a turn on though in the sense that you are untouched by any other man than him, he gets to teach you and somewhat develop you (in a way that benefits and pleases him), and well, you are tight! lol
3. It's not necessarily wrong to tease, in fact, it can be what keeps the excitement and passion going. I do agree with dave216 though, tease the wrong guy and bad things can happen.
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