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One thing that has bugged me in bed, is when Guys don't realize that I am not turned on anymore by their actions. I appreciate the effort, but you gotta realize when something isn't working.
A lot of guys don't realize that when I am not wet anymore, it is because I am not aroused. So they keep rubbing and fingering me, but that just hurts more than anything because I am not aroused to begin with. I had to fake orgasm just to get a poor guy to stop touching me, because it hurt so bad. Another aspect is positions, pay attention to the woman to see if the position is working for her and if not change it up. Too many guys stick with some crappy position rather than move into something better. When guys don't pay attention to my responses during sex, it makes me very grumpy and unappreciated, like the guy is just there for himself, and not for me.

First, there has to be an emotional connection (not necessarily love), not some casual, booty call or friends with benefits deal. A woman has to feel secure enough that you really will listen to her and her particular needs and that you won't judge her or ignore her. Women have the best sex with a guy they feel is in to her, really there for her and not just going to bang and run.

Guys can usually achieve orgasm so much easier than girls and they think girls work the same way. So, for guys, you get in to all the nuances of techniques and visual effects, etc. For girls, we need to feel safe with you and then we need you to be ready to take the time it will take to give us an orgasm. Oh, and girls can love having sex with you without having an orgasm too. We can simply enjoy the process of getting you off and knowing that you find us sexually desirable.

One quick word of advice (obviously every girl is different, but keep this in mind): some girls can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation; HOWEVER, some girls have very sensitive clits, so too much stimulation can eventually hurt or cause it to go numb- and that's no fun... so one way to help is to rub through their underwear- it gives just enough of a barrier to feel amazing! Just a word of advice, because a lotta of guys go straight for rubbing too hard or too much, or go straight to fingering which doesn't necessarily feel great for everyone. Another is put a pillow under her bum when in missionary, hits the g-spot better and have the girl arch her back in doggy, feels much better. Some like it harder in that position too ;)

Another thing that gets a lot of girls going is: kiss behind the ear, nape of the neck, or collar bone OR pinching the nipples. Not hard, just a little, with a little twist. Just my opinion, everyone is different, but this might help :)

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Foreplay is key! I love kisses and my man bites my bottom lip (not too hard). I love being kissed on the neck and bitten. I love it when my mum sucks my boobs and plays with my nipples... it feels soo good. I love to be teased until I can feel my vagina throbbing and I'm just begging for it. You're forgetting about the clitoris or "love button" hehe, the orgasms you can achieve from that are AMAZING. STOP changing position when we're enjoying it :) Personally I love going on top of a man and leaning forward and doing it really slow.. it feels good cos that's where the most nerve endings are (2 inches into the vagina/top of the penis) I LOVE it rough! Don't go too rough though cos sometimes it makes people bleed.. ouch! Doggy has got to be the best position ever. Anddd sex in the shower... wow :)! If you have a bath as well as a shower sit down in the bath and have the girl facing away from you and bouncing on you. In your other hand have the shower head and if it's a massage shower put it on the hardest one and put it on her clit! It drives me WILD! Don't forget about "postplay"! Give your girl a light massage and cuddle up with her :)! x

Hope this helps :)! x

I think it's important for a guy to pay attention to girls, make them feel wanted, compliment them.
I love it when a guy takes control, and has a lot of stamina.

I think it's great when a guy teases you with his penis, like dry humping and then when your both undressed and he just presses the tip into your p***y and rubs around that area. Same with hands during foreplay if he strokes your inner thigh, or licks around that area as well as before oral over the nickers - also as even more of a tease ( sorry if this is to descriptive ) pull the nickers up slightly - not to much you don't want to give us a wedgie - so it sort of goes down the middle covering the clit, and just lick around the clit rather than gunning straight for it. Take you time. Make us really excited and really want it! the build up and suspense is the best part for me. And its more of a tease if you start slowly and then build up the pace - some girls like it hard and some like it a little softer, that one you'll have to discover on your own.

And thrust wise - I think its a lot to do with personal preference, and positions also make it feel difference. I think I can speak for most girls when I say deep penetration feels f***ing amazing! best positions for the are the well known doggy style .. .. and also lifting a girls leg above your shoulders and raising her hips slightly, - you could suggest to her sliding a pillow under her bum cause that again will raise her hips. and with her laying on the bottom you laying on top - course ususing your hands for balance - and thrust inside her - between the legs - that will create more friction and feel amazing for you as well.

I also love it when a guy is giving me oral and fingering me at the same time! it feels increible! I think the deeper you go the better it feels. and I like it hard rather than soft.

I really like a dominating male. He has to respond to me too though. I need a man to pay attention to my reactions to see what works and what doesn't. Dirty talk is also sooo much fun..
I love it when men tell how soft I am. I like it really slow at first. It's good to have a build up. Slow and deliberate is great. I also like a lot of sex so he has to have a lot of energy for me.

well as for me I want to get all hot and bothered beofre we even have sex ... I like my neck sucked and kissed not to much mouth kissing because most of you guys try so hard with the kissing you don't pay any attention to the rest of the body ... I like fingers through my hair my lower back kissed and rubbed ... I like to feel like you will do anything to make me horny ... my clothes riped off and thrown on the bed ... lay on my belly as you kiss my butt to my shoulders ... rub everywhere ... slowly to the insides of my legs ... rub gently on my vagina just making me want it more ... than get a little rougher with rubbing and biting finnally go back to my downstairs and insert a finger .. nice and soft ... when I start to wiggle insert another and get alittle rougher ... and me I'm alittle diffrent than most girls I like at least one finger in my ass ... makes me go nuts :) after that I want to be on top and ride slowly to feel the intenceness of how horny we both are ... I absolutly hate it when a guy goes before I do BIG TURN OFF ... after we are done iwant to relax snuggle smoke a cigarette ... I want kissed and iw ant to hear how good I was in bed even if I absolutly sucked you better still tell me I was good ... never tell someone they are bad in bed! you'll never have sex with her again!

it's hard to explain but I love when a guy is really rough yet romantic at the same time.
firstly, LOTS OF FOREPLAY! we love that
and for once I don't wana be the one doing all the teasing. I want a guy to make me beg for it.
some dirty talk would help too.
&& I love it if he'd pay more attention to my neck.
I love being domaniated and controlled in bed. so if he'd pick me up and throw me on the bed I'd be very turned on.
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We are all different and will like different things.
SORRY, but there is no overall solution, you have to find out from the girl you are with.

But apart from that, licking clit for longer would help. Kissing the back of the neck and hot breathe in the ear helps, but that's just me.

Why don't you guys like to tease instead of going st8 to the point! like most girls said here, I LOVE TEASING that's why we do it to you!
if you tease us that makes sex WAY more interesting & enjoyable.
for the both of us. because I know you guys love seeing us going CRAZY! SUPER WET
and we gonna start begging for more and more and more! ;)

I'm relieved, I thought you meant to this to be - like, an ad. But it's a question!

I like being dominated and the guy being rough. Doggy style is good. And the guy lasting long enough till I scream.

-at LEAST an hour and a half of foreplay.
-give her a full body massage.
-kiss her neck, shoulders, back, legs, arms, any non sexual part of her body.
-don't touch her vagina until she is begging you to.
-tease the hell out of her.
-talk really sweetly to her.
-slowly tell her everything you want to do to her.
-tell her that she looks absolutely beautiful.
-tell her she has a gorgeous body.
-before you touch her give her your hand and whisper in her ear for her to show you exactly how and where she wants you to touch her.
-listen to her if she says something hurts stop, if she says she doesn't like something don't do it.
-when you trying to give her an orgasm, find her favorite spot and rub/lick it with a rhythm and don't stop until she begs you to stop.
-give her an orgasm BEFORE you have sex and then don't wait for her to calm down to enter her. It'll make her vagina more sensitive and it'll feel better for her.

Make it rough and more foreplay, try to give the girl some more pleasure with the cl*t. instead just going for the goodies, be a little more passionate. But I really like guys who are rough, and dirty talk. Hard thrusts are amazing. when you're fingering the her with middle finger and ring finger try to bend them up while they're inside of the girl its where the g spot is,

Depends on what my mood is sometimes going straight for it without foreplay is HOT!

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You have to pre heat the oven before you start to cook. Foreplay and lots of it...Flirting, kissing, stroking, teasing, licking and rubbing etc...Then don't give it to us until we ask for it. If your doing it right we will be begging for it.

Stop rushing things. It seems guys are always going straight for the t*ts and ass. There is a lot more than that that turns a girl on. Don't forget to kiss her or run you hands all over her before you go for the parts you like best.

bah, all the answers are too simple!

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that is a broad question. every girl is different. you just have to find out what that girl prefers and what she hates in bed. :]

Have you ever been with a chick before, you would notice that not all of them like the same thing, some are kinky as hell I like those, and some are not, it just depends on the girl on what they like the most. You really don't even have to ask a woman what she likes, she will either tell you, or moan and say she likes, or if she doesn't like it she will say don't do that, that hurts, I don't like that. Good indicators if she likes what your doing, she's moaning, she says she likes it, and my favorite she is extremely wet, this isn't rocket science.

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