Whenever I masturbate, I go in and then I notice that I feel like peeing, I keep masturbating and then I do, every time! I'm afraid that when I have sex, I will pee on him. It's not like I let it go, it's just it leaks. I first thought that I was squirting, but I smell it(yes) and it smells like urine! I don't know what to do! am I squirting? is this normal? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!
I know it seems like urine but you really do seem to be squirting.
Male and female anatomy is very similar. Most people believe that just like a man urinates out of the same hole he ejaculates out of, a woman urinates and ejaculates from the same hole as well. That means the fluid is coming out of your urethra, just like urine would. But some people think it comes from a gland right next to your urethra. Neither of these are in your vagina. Either way, probably what is happening is because you are inserting your fingers into your vagina, you might be stimulating your g-spot (the female version of the prostrate). The g-spot is sort of sandwiched between your vagina and your urethra. So you can see how if you stimulate your vagina, it stimulates the g-spot, that stimulates the urethra. And when stimulated enough, ejaculatory fluid is leaked or forced out. However, you can ejaculate without rubbing your g-spot.
It smells like urine cause it really has no smell of its own. So it is picking up the smell from the urethra. And like you said, it is not slimy like a woman's lubrication. This stuff is so similar to urine in that it possibly comes from the urethra, is warm like urine, and can sometimes have small amounts of urea in it, that some doctors say a woman doesn't even ejaculate. She is just peeing. As a woman that ejaculates, I know that statement to be completely false.
The first few times I did it I thought I had peed as well. It even smelled a little like pee. But after a few times of doing it I realized I really wasn't peeing. The best way to tell is next time you want to masturbate, pee before you do. Then do it. If it still happens it is for sure squirting cause your bladder shouldn't be filling back up that quickly. Also, if you had problems with incontinence, you would be peeing throughout the day like in your underwear. This is only happening when you stimulate yourself so it is most likely an ejaculation.
Another thing to realize is that one of the reasons some women don't orgasm (and never ejaculate) is cause when an urge to orgasm comes on, the urge to urinate does too. So they don't let go completely and allow the orgasm to take place cause they are too afraid of peeing. So that might also be some of the confusion. You are feeling the urge to urinate and then this stuff is leaking out.
Don't stress about it. A lot of guys find female ejaculation very sexy and wish their women could. Plus, there is so much body fluid swapped during sex, even if you still think it's urine, he probably won't even notice it. :)
I was very embarrassing at first for me too. But once I realized what it was, I'm totally OK with it now. I'm even proud of the skill. :) - 17 days ago
Umm how much is the actual content of the ejaculation?? I know it varies but more or less is it just a little bit of dripping or a lot of fluid? - 17 days ago
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I'm not sure if you are asking the asker how much she ejaculates or how much is normal to ejaculate?
But if it is the later, all I can say is my experince and it is about a tablespoon.But more can come with each orgasm. But I know one woman that said she ejaculated about a cup of it and she would drench her boyfriend and the bed. I don't know if that is true or not but I guess just cause it isn't my experience it doesn't mean I should doubt her. - 17 days ago
A quick google search turns up other similar questions. I also saw this amateur video a guy took of his girlfriend playing with a vibrator. She was really into it and by the end she lost total bladder control. It wasn't squirting, it was a steady river of urine going everywhere. They both were totally into it! For a guy, it is just another way to see that his girl is relaxed and enjoying the pleasure!
Some of the other responses indicating trying to empty your bladder before sex/masturbation to at least limit the quantity of urine. Others talk abut doing pelvic floor exercises/kegels. I would definitely recommend talking to your doctor or gynecologist.
Its only your muscles contracting and releasing as you feel pleasure, after cumming I find I need to go to the toilet pretty soon after, so its a normal thing.
I know, its still common, I struggle not to go during sometimes as well. Sometimes its best to try and pee as much as you can beforehand, it usually delays the feeling for me despite the fact I usually do need to go after anyway - 17 days ago
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its not urine! its just female ejaculate! and urine comes from a different hole than the hole in which the penis enters so just let go! and enjoy ur orgasm
I know that that is not the hole where your urine comes from, but it smells like urine, PURE URINE. I know when I'm wet, and that's not it. - 17 days ago
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Well being wet is different from female ejaculate why don't you just let go even once so then you can truly find out? - 17 days ago
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Because it smells like pure urine, and is not slimy at all. - 17 days ago
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Well how will you totally know for sure? why don't you let go in the toilet or shower or something? so then you can finally know and not be afraid to let go and actually pleasure yourself - 17 days ago
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I do, in the shower - 17 days ago
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Alright then let go in the shower and see what it actually is and from there you can use ur own judgement - 17 days ago
But I have had a history of a bladder infection, and I have bladder problems. - 17 days ago
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I'm not to sure cause ime not a doter but I think that as long as your still able to do it just use a lot of lube an he may not even notice it - 17 days ago
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