Blow Jobs... I need help.

Ask him to guide you, ask how he likes it. He won't be offended, quite the opposite. Nothing more satisfying for a guy to know he's turning a sweet innocent thing into a dirty little minx.

Make sure he's about to get fully stiff. Plenty of dry humping and touching his crotch before you get to business. If there's alcohol in his system, he might not get it up fully (been there enough times, so embarrassing)

Start with using your hands. Just one hand on the shaft. Then maybe use two. Just touch his head. Nothing too rough on it though.

Then use your mouth. Use your tongue to touch his head. Learn to deep throat - practise with something by yourself to make sure you have control of your gag-reflex.

hahahaah I think its so funny how all the guys are saying SUCK HIS COCK! and all the girls are like wtf? your good friend?
Im gonna have to say if you do don't use any teeth.

there is not a correct way. most guys wouldn't care how you do it really. the point is that you are doing it. :]

go gets yourself some nice banana hmmmmmmmmmm and practice :-)
HA YES! DONT FORGET HIS BALLS, PLAY with them but don't queeze them hard :-D

The best way to help is to simply look at porn. I know it might seem gross and vile or not, but it's certainly better than explained instructions. It doesn't have to be consistent, just give it five minutes and you'll realize how to give a blowjob in no time.

To start, suck it, then after a few minutes make yourself gag on it and say 'I'm sorry honey, your **** is just too big for me' that always makes a guy feel good.

Google 'Good Blow Job Howto'. Ther's a whole lot of information there.

Ted

Put the **** in your f***ing mouth blow and hold your breath at the same time there!

OK YOU TAKE YOUR MOUTH AND YOU PUT IT ON THE PENIS! done...

Something girls wildly underestimate: looking a guy in his eyes and asking him what he wants sexually--for example, "So, how do you like your blowjobs?"--is really damn sexy.

It's also better than mind reading, or asking strangers (whose tastes will differ wildly from your boyfriend).

Great answers so far!

As always, open communication between partners about what works for them is the best way to get the most out of the experience. For most guys, any attention down there should be well received! Above all, do it like you love it and it turns you on! It is a spoiler when she is not into it.

Here are some good write ups:
about.com link
sexinfo101 link and link

Also useful:
handjobadvice.com link

I'd try dating someone a little more meaningful if I were you, before you do this. It's just my opinion. But that way you'll feel more comfortable about the situation. As for how to do a blowjob, simply look up a video on google. It's a digital age, no reason to ask on a forum.

The main thing is to keep your teeth to your self. Use your lips and whole mouth. If you can go all the way down, it's perfect. Use your tongue too.

You don't necessarily HAVE to get down on your knees to give a blow job. It's just one position from which to do it. Just massage his d*** until it's fully hard and then engulf his d*** in your mouth being careful not to allow your teeth to contact his d***. Start a sucking action on his d*** with lots of tongue action. With your lips concentrate as much friction as possible on the ridge area of the glans of his d***. As you begin to taste pre-com increase the frequency of your in/out actions with your lips on that same ridge area of the glans. Keep going and going a little quicker as you taste more pre-cum and soon you will have a mouth full of sperm. A good touch after that is to swallow it as opposed to spitting it out.

Do not listen to what people say about not doing it to a guy friend. If you trust him and you want to then by all means do it :)

Make sure you are both relaxed and in the mood for it . Some girls hate the thought of putting a guys d*** inside the mouth along with his balls but others love it . I myself do not mind giving blowjobs to my boyfriend :) It makes him happy ! Anywho It shouldn't be awkward you guys are best friends right ? So just relax , you can do it anywhere (in private I'm hoping though)
Try kissing him and rubbing your hands down his stomach , slowly get down on your knee's and rub his things , brush your boobs against his d*** , undo his belt/pants and take it slow. You may choose to use a condom or go without and there is also the issue of the guy coming in your mouth and whether to swallow or spit. But that's all up to you . You can caress it gently and kiss it /lick it/suck it etc , you can ask what or how he likes it, let him guide you so you can blow his mind :) remember guys love their d***s in wet warm places so that's an instant advantage their, some men love to touch your hair or push down on your head so you can deepthroat it. I don't recommend you do this on your first time. It would result in your gagging. Don't forget the 2 fellas just below , you can massage them or gently take them into your mouth and swirl your tongue around them.

I know its not much but best of luck :) make sure you are both in the mood as well :) happy blowing ! :P

watch porn lol

There are soooo many ways to give a good BJ.
First of all, if he's uncircumcised (spelling?) you have to pull the skin down to the base of the penis. When you put it in your mouth be wary about your teeth! Do NOT let your teeth scrape his penis. That won't feel good! Make sure to have a tight grip with your mouth and slide all the way down and up a few times (by "all the way" I mean as far as you can comfortably go). Then, if you're me (lol! This is so much fun! haha!), you can hold the shaft with one hand (obviously, keeping the foreskin down with that hand) and just kind of suck on the top area. Remember suction! Also, the most sensitive part of the **** is that rim between the shaft and the mushroom-top area (not a biological term! Lol!), so if you're starting to feel pain in your jaw just kind of remember that area the most and use your tongue to play with it while you have the suction going. Something I like to do is move my hand up and down the shaft while I have the mushroom-top (LOL!) in my mouth and move my mouth sort of "in sync" with my hand.

Wow.
Okay, I hope that that helped!

red light if he's your best best friend guy you don't want to go sexual because there is a high chance
you could taint your relationship with him you ever see a movie where two friends let sex get involved then it makes things awkward if you want to take it to another level date him but don't give away the best the you have if you have sex with him when you want to dated him what would you have to offer him and if you never wanted to date him don't have sex with him and don't do sexual things with him just keep him on a friend basis level if you have sex with your friends play it safe strap it up

Um, guy FRIEND? Not a good idea. Such an intimate act should be saved for a committed relationship! But it's your choice. Don't rush into this. Make sure the both of you are free of any std's, and use protection. Even if you're not technically having sex, better to be safe than sorry. And I found being in bed is an easier, more neutral setting. being on your knees is so impersonal, and you don't get the connection that you should have with the guy. But since you're not even dating, I guess that really won't be an option. I still don't suggest it...

Think of it as a lollipop of sorts. Never use your teeth, vary speeds of suction, and be careful not to go too deep ( you may begin gagging, depending on your reflexes). Breathe through your nose! It WILL be awkward the first few times... and that's normal. Start slow, and build from there. Switch things up depending on what he's doing and saying. It may take time to actually get him to finish (you don't have to the first time). You may get worn out. And when it's done, you have the important decision of whether to spit it out, or swallow. Sorry, but I don't like the taste of warm detergent, so I spit (If you choose not to use a condom). But it's up to you.

But this is very important- if a man ever forces your head down during the event, stop. It's disrespectful and can make you gag.

It sounds silly, but if you're really worried, practice on a hot dog or a peeled banana first. That way you're at least used to the need to possibly gag.

Anyone else feel really gross for actually posting advice on this? I feel so nasty!

best guy friend/ are you sure you don't want to save it for boyfriend? I can't help you, I've never done it

Google it! seriously almost any problem you'll ever have, some one else will already have had and posted it on some site - and people will have already answered.

YOUR BEST GUY FRIEND! WTF. lmfaoo

anyways its not a big deal, just don't use your teeth.

Why would you do this for a best guy friend?

Why are you going to do that for a best, best guy friend? Wait and do it for a boyfriend.

Be enthusiastic, like you love his penis and want to make love to it with your mouth...

Don't just suck...change up the speed a bit, take it out of your mouth and lick and kiss other areas, including the balls...just be gentle, yet firm.

It should not feel awkward.

Say what you feel...examples...Do you like when I lick it...I like it...It tastes good...you are really hard...its so big! I can't wait for your cum...I want to taste it----all good examples.

When he is going to finish, ask him if he wants to come in your mouth or on your face or your breasts or butt. All of these can be very sexy and stimulating for him, as long as you are eager and willing.

If you want to delve deeper and do some research, try a guide. A friend of mine told me about this site that offers a step by step guide to giving the best oral sex to your guy. You can check it out here: link It is well worth it. I had no idea there were so many things you could do to give your guy the best oral of his life!

Most importantly, have fun and don't take it too seriously or worry about anything, it will be fun for him to have his penis in your mouth...pretty hard to mess that up. And make sure he returns the favor!

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- Make sure you keep your teeth covered with your lips! Unless you know for a fact that he likes a bit of pain (which is the minority) it's always best not to go there. Try not to angle yourself off center either, you might hit your back teeth by accident. This is what gives the trademark jaw-ache though, always keeping your lips in an O shape and keeping your teeth covered. Much easier if you've got bigger lips, but you can do it with small lips just as well. If you find your jaw starting to ache, stop for a while and just lick or tease with your fingers. Take a second to talk if you want (though not about what you want for dinner or what you're doing at the weekend! Keep it to the subject at hand!) or just lick around the tip and up and down the shaft.

- NEVER deepthroat, not on your first try. That's something that takes practice. You can teach yourself by gradually increasing your resistance, but it's usually best to try that by yourself with a toy or something. As a general rule, unless you naturally have no gag reflex or have been bulimic and lost it, don't go there. Not fun for you. This is why it helps to keep yourself in a position of control, lest he get carried away and thrust (ie face-f***) a little too hard.

- Use your hands too, especially if you don't want to take him too deep. Keep your hand around the base and move up and down in time with your mouth. Your hand should stay lubed too.

- Remember the tip is the most sensitive part. This can work to your advantage or not - don't be too rough with it and always make sure its most lubed up, but you should do good if you occasionally give it some extra attention.

- Make eye contact if you can - men are strangely visual creatures, much more so than us girls. Most easily done when taking a break from the jaw ache and licking or touching.

- If you do decide to let him come in your mouth (again, not so much recommended for your first try, you might want to sneak in a little lick of it on the sly - if you don't like the taste he doesn't have to know, and if you're okay with it you know for next time) like Cartiphilus said, better to swallow than to spit. Stop moving your mouth and let him relax for a few seconds. You'll probably have him a little dazed by then. No comments or questions needed ;)

If you want to know what exactly to do more of for next time, just ask what his favourite part was. Et voila!

Having said all that, this is your 'best best guy friend'... maybe this is a little different for me seeing as my best guy friend is gay, but remember getting sexually involved with a friend can make things awkward sometimes. Just make sure you know what you're doing.

Right, I may not be a guy so I don't know how it feels on his end, but I can tell you a couple of things that I've been complimented on and the odd tip for how to make it less awkward for you.

First up, you have to pick a position. Here's your main options:

1) he's lying on his back on the bed or whatever and you're on all fours above him. Here it makes it easy to make out for a while and trail kisses down his torso to tease him a bit. Also you get more control about how deep you take him, how fast you go, all that kind of stuff. But you might find your arms get tired from holding yourself up!

2) he's kneeling and you're on all fours in front of him. Great if he's a dominant kind of guy, but slightly less control on your part as he can thrust a little. Also somewhere your ams might get tired, but you can kneel instead which will probably help. And if he's an ass guy and you're leaning forward, he gets a view ;)

3) he's standing and you're kneeling in front of him. Also great if he's the dominant type, but you have the least control here cause he can thrust that little bit more. No tired arms though, and you're free to use both hands. If you've got strong thighs and are good at crouching slowly you can still trail kisses down his chest etc.

Once you've picked your place, you can get to work. Major stuff to consider:

- Tell him if you don't want him to come in your mouth. Semen isn't the nicest taste in the world, and some guys taste worse than others. They say fruit gives it a sweet taste so you can probably get an estimate if you know how much fruit he likes to eat. You can get out of this easily by getting him to tell you when he's about to come so that you can finish with your hands, and when you get used to it you can suck til the last minute and immediately take yourself away when you know he's about to. You can get out of it pretty easily at this point by either leaning in for him to come on your face (though that's kinda 'dirty' and I get that you might not want to do that) or leaning forward a bit for him to come on your chest, which you don't even have to see and is easy enough to clean up.

- Lick your lips first. Look at him while you do it and he might get a kick out of watching you do it. But dry friction is never good - you may well know this from having sex when you're not sufficiently lubed up. Same goes for guys. You can always get flavoured lubes as well if you want to try that. If you find you like the taste, you might enjoy it that little bit more!

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The guy is pretty correct, but start by kissing, kissing down his chest, hips and smoothly undo his belt or whatever, create the mood, and completely take control :)