I slept with this guy that I REALLY liked and he told me I was great. But then when we got to school he was telling everyone that I was loose and fat and that I was terrible in bed. When I asked him if he lied to me he told me he did and I was the worst lay he'd ever had. Why did he tell me I was great if I wasn't?
Have you every lied to someone you slept with about how good they were?
Update: yeah but that doesn't explain why he lied to me in the first place. Why tell me I was good if I sucked at it?
16 days ago
If he said it in the moment it must be true, I don't care how many times after he told you you were bad, because what he said in the moment is the truth, just don't group all guys in the group as him, and try not to have sex out of relationships cause you'll be marked as a dirty word if you know what I mean
welcome to high school sadly guys are assholes and they just ruin it for the rest of us i think it doesn't really matter if you were good in bed or not its just that he wanted to raise his social status in high school
Cause he's an asshole and just wanted you to feel better right after you had sex so then you go again? - 16 days ago
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No but he kept saying it like all weekend. We did it on Friday and every time we talked that weekend he reminded me how great it was for him. Then yesterday I found out that he had been telling everyone else the complete opposite. How does making me feel terrible for not being good in bed raise his "social status"? I don't understand. - 16 days ago
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He told everyone that you weren't good in bed because it makes for a better story. like do guys in high school want to listen to his friend having sex with a girl who was good at it? what story will go around faster? when ur not good at sex or when you are? and even if he said you were good at sex, that would be bad as well; cause others would start calling you a slut or hoe or whore - 16 days ago
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So basic sex in high school is a no win situation? how wonderful for me. happy f**king birthday to me. - 16 days ago
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Its ur birthday? - 16 days ago
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Yeah.... and it's sucked so far and it's just getting worse every second that passes - 16 days ago
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=/ im sorry well happy birthday! if you wanna talk or vent to me I'm all ears =) no girl deserves this - 16 days ago
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What is there to vent about? I'm fat and bad in bed. I'll just accept it. - 16 days ago
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Trust me once you at least talk to me you'll feel ALOT better and who said ur fat? - 16 days ago
Why does that matter now? u know he's a douche bag and an asshole and isn't worth ur time at all! so why would you waste ur time on someone who doesn't care about you at all? - 16 days ago
Wow...he's a jerk! ("Lying" to you is not the issue; his cruelty and complete lack of compassion, morals, and manners is.) Live and learn and be more selective in the future before you make yourself so vulnerable with someone.
What a complete and utter loser! I'm so sorry that this happened!
Yes, I probably lied when I was younger but just TO the person! Not to a large GROUP of people!
Honey, you should tell a school counselor or someone at your school. You don't have to suffer through this individual making a mockery out of you. Stand up for yourself, tell a teacher that you trust... tell a social worker even.
If you were my child I would find that young man's parents and give them a piece of my mind.
it is easy really he just told you what you wanted to hear...maybe he was too shy to tell you the truth. its the same principle as girls faking an orgasm...he didn't want to make you feel weird and awkward but after he thought about it he probably decided it would be better to tell you the truth...so yea...btw guys are not supposed to kiss and tell so your guy is...well...you know.
well the first thing to remember is this is ONE guy out of many you will sleep with. (not saying your a slut or anything but I'm guessing you will sleep with a lot more than one) and he is incredibly nasty to say such things about you. Even if he did think you were bad you don't go around telling everybody. The immature thing to do would be retaliate, tell everybody he has a small penis and be done with it. But you want to go for the mature approach, rise above it, keep your chin up and act like his nasty comments haven't affected you. Show him what he's missed out on and make it clear you want nothing to do with him anymore. it must of been very upsetting because you liked him a lot but you have to remember you are beautiful! and that somebody will absolutley love you for who you are and appriciate your sex! forget about him, it will make you feel a whole lot better.
Shes totally right cause if you fight back then it will never end and it puts you just as low as him just forget about him and move on even if it is ur bday; everything happens for the best=) - 16 days ago
He's looking 4 attention innit,why would he go filling people in at school about what ever happened between you guys? This guy is an ass..Best you can do is learn not to go there again! I like to think its the guy who makes sex as good as its meant to be when it happens,guys put in most the work and sweat so yeah if he isn't satisfied ..His fault not yours!
No, I try very hard to be honest with people. If it's something like this subject, I probably won't say anything or avoid it altogether.
The boy who did this was incredibly cruel and heartless. I guess it still dumbfounds me how downright mean people can be. I am sure you're very hurt and let down, especially since you liked him a lot. I would avoid him at all costs.
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