I REALLY like older men. I'm not saying like 65+ but I like guys that are like 20-35. I'm 17 and I've liked them ever since I was 14. My friends say that it makes me really slutty. I don't know why I like them so much but I do. Is it wrong? Am I really a slut because of that fact?
definatly not a slut, every person has their preference in terms of age. That old cliche of "age is nothing but a number" is sooo true. Although society tends to frown upon those who take advantage of that. I tend to get along better with girls my age (around 22 or so) only because I feel like I can relate to them more in terms of responsibilities. So for you, wanting older men is really normal and probably suits you best.
Nope. Welcome to 21st century america, where you are free--free to be judged and reviled by your neighbors for the most personal of decisions, such as who you date. I like younger (but legal) girls, so we have the same problem. Kind of.
Girls tend to mature faster than boys, so it is very likely that as a 17 year old girl you find it easier to relate to more mature guys than the boys your age at school.
No this fact doesn't make you a slut. Chasing after them and sleeping with them without a long term relationship would.
Oh for crying out loud, stop judging girls for something guys do every day. - 15 days ago
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Hey now, I'm all about equality and generalizing guys that way is just untrue. I know plenty of men who remained abstinent until marriage, myself included. - 15 days ago
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Ha ha! The top definition on urban dictionary of slut is "a woman with the morals of a man" and the third has "one who engages in sexual activity outside of a long-term relationship within the duration of said relationship. "
Lol. Sorry but I don't give out my number on the first date ;) . No but I date these guys at school and I keep losing interest and wanting to be with the teachers and stuff. It makes me feel weird because all my friends are dating people in our classes and I'm sitting there having fantasies about the teachers. - 15 days ago
no its normal for young women to like older men , like I'm 25 and a lot of the girls I have keep trying to date or meeting at bars have been like 19 and 20 , so yeah they do go for guys a bit older than them , that is fairly normal I think
no you're not a slut you might not find the guys your age to be mature or something I mean I'm like having the same issue I like older guys I enjoy it,its refreshing for me actually to datea guy with maturity,or some anyway
No not at all, am turning 18 in 5 days and am going out with a 23 year old guy. that doesn't make you slutty. what makes you slutty is if your out thier f***ing every guy you see. Your VERY normal.
I liked older guys when I was your age too. That doesn't make you slutty, you can't be a slut for just liking someone. Some of your friends are probably f***ing boys in their class, now that's slutty. Just don't act on it and don't try to flirt with older guys. Look and admire, but leave them alone you don't want to get in a bad situation.
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