Virgin or not ?

Update: It was in me about an inch ( my finger goes deeper that it was)! I didn't feel it in my vagina, for that reason I can consider I'm still a virgin?
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As long as he did not go deeper than your clit, he touched only the labia (pussy lips), not the vagina, thus not the hymen. Labia size is quite different from girlto girl, from next to nothing ('buttonhole'), to puffy(outer labia) Inner laba can extend an inch or more out of the outer labia (and some girls are quite unhappy then, without real reason)
IN your vagina=> no longer a virgin.

I felt my boyfriend was in me, but I didn't bleed, and it didn't hurt either. "
"Am I still a virgin? "
NO. You may still have a hymen (if you had one, if you didn't rupture it at 4 years, or at 10, jumping in the swimming pool, riding a horse or so) but you're not a virgin any more. You had sex.
"Does it always hurt and bleed when loosing virginity?" Not always. You can bleed on the second time youhave sex.
Also do we loose virginity when being fingered ? " No, a penis is needed for that. (it all depends on YOUR definition of 'virginity' 'virginity' is just a word)

BUT Hymen is not virginity, a hymen is NOT a guarantee seal like on your original Windows CD: it's a fine rim of mucous skin, sometimes very fragile, with some girls, nearly nonexistent with others, elastic with others, very solid with other girls.
Look at some drawings: link

Not having much pleasure the first time is caused by stress and by the unusual things happening. Next time will be better.


BTW, this question comes up nearly once a week. You could have found the answer easily here on the site.

Not all women bleed their first time and I'm sure not all girls feel discomfort. You've had "sex" with a guy so I would consider you no longer to be a virgin. Foreplay does not meet my standards when considering virginity.

MY opinion, not yours.
Cheers.

Virginity for heterosexual couples is penis in vagina intercourse. That's it. Fingers, sex toys, tampons, etc., cannot take your virginity. They can stretch or break your hymen, but hymen does not necessarily equal virginity.

Losing your virginity doesn't always hurt. It didn't hurt for me, and I didn't bleed. It's generally the stretching or ripping of the hymen that makes it hurt when you have sex for the first time. Often times though, a girl's hymen might not naturally cover that much area to begin with [see the link Jacquesvol posted], or it was stretched long before sex through using tampons, fingering, or just generally being an active person. Bleeding can be caused by a few different things: The hymen ripping, the penis slamming repeatedly against the cervix, too much friction and not enough lubrication causing small tears in the vaginal walls, etc. All of those things can cause bleeding at ANY time during your sex life, not just when you lose your virginity.

Regardless of if he was in an inch or all the way, ripped/stretched your hymen or not, you still had sex. Even if it sucked, haha. Sex isn't the most pleasurable experience for most girls the first time. It gets a lot better, I promise.

No, a girl will not always bleed or feel pain the first time they have sex. It didn't hurt me my first time and I never bled. And the first time usually isn't that pleasurable. In my opinion, oral sex and other forms of foreplay aren't really considered "sex." I believe a girl loses her virginity through the actual intercourse. So.. That would mean you are no longer a virgin.

You had sex knowing nothing about it. If he went inside you regardless if it hurt or not you are NOT a virgin.

I consider virginity the fact that you've never had a man inside of you. Once one is, you are not.