What do men really think about and want in bed?

of course we think bout the girl we are with unless we have been with you for years and have an interest in sum other girl. we think about how good it feels how naughty you are and what you are thinking sometimes about us and our performance. we ultimately wanna know we satisfied your sexual needs and hopefully made you orgasm a million times...well once is OK too.hahah. we also want you to be naughty, slutty, and dirty and talk dirty to us. only in bed though. guys want a girl who's a girly girl outside the bedroom, but inside a total naughty dirty girl who wants to please her guy. TRUST me on this one. GOTTA b slutty in the bedroom if you are a prude a guy will lose interest to some degree

usually were talking dirty so that's what I think about

If you want specifics about what makes a guy hot then learn about the SEXUAL ARC OF ATTRACTION that happens between couples, which is explained by David Deida in just about all of his books: link

From my experience, the more free my mind is during sex, and the more feminine and receptive she is, the hotter the sex.

~ Robby

I don't want the lights turned off because I want to see her in all of her naked glory. I think of only her while in bed with her. I want to please her before I'm pleased. It's very pleasing to me to see and know that I drove her to an orgasm.