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Am I bi?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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I know this is like stupid of me 2 ask because I should know but I really don't. Ok here's the thing my boyfriend thinks I'm Bisexual because I judge girls.

It started when I saw the girls on his myspace you know 2 see if their pretty or not and I would ask him what he thought of them then he would ask me and he started saying I was bi because I would say the truth if the girl had big boobs or a big butt or if she was pretty or ugly.

I've always heard that girls can judge girls but guys can't judge guys so I don't consider me bisexual. But he got me thinking and I do judge girls more than other girls who just look at them once and say what they think and he got even more convinced that I was bi when I told him I only like girl on girl porn.

Then he asked me if I would ever have a 3some with him and another girl and I would always joke around saying if you give me a 3some with a guy I give you 1,I started thinkin again that it wouldn't bother me 2 have a 3some but I just don't want 2 until I completely trust him. So right now I don't know what I am I mean I know I'm straight but I don't know if I'm bi or not. I know its complicated but I hope you can understand it enough 2 help me lol.

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
Girls judge girls, it's no big deal. I really doubt that you are bi. Nothing to worry about. ;-)
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Anonymous User (Age:Over 45)      When: 4 months ago
Since the time of clothing, make-up, styles and weight situations, women have always judged other women. It's a girl thing designed to rate yourself against them (usually meant to 'dis' &/or say that your better or wishing you had her __)!
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Jarett
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Lol you're not bi hun. It is natural for girls to find other girls attractive. Girls naturally have nice bodies, and are very sexy. Girls get a lot closer to their friends then guys do. Girls change in front of each other, sleep in the same, bed, and sometimes even shower together. It is completely natural to be curious about and find other girls attractive. It doesn't make you gay or bi, just makes you normal :o)
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Girls judge girls, and even though guys don't say it, they do judge guys. Just ask yourself if you would have sex with a girl, or be in a relationship with her. Because there is also being curious about sex and everything, but I'm talking in the way that you would seriously consider being in a relationship with a girl. If you find you do, and since you are still interested in guys, then you probably are bi. Though, it's up to you in the end on what you want your sexuality to be. Hope this helped.
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cuteME (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
I think every girl judges girls. I think that doesn't make you bi. But if you judge a girl and you say damn she so fine or some things like that. Uhmm that's kinda a signal. Also if you think you would eating a girl out,fingering her,being in a relationship with her. I think you are. If you only think kissing her I don't think you are. You might just be bi-curious. So what do you think? Would you do that stuff with girls?
im bi that's how I knew I was.
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annwyl-cariad
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annwyl-cariad (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Just because you judge girls' appearance doesn't make you bi. All girls do that, and just because you do so to the point of saying WHY another girl is hot doesn't mean anything. Loads of girls will do that as well. I would say, as a general rule, you're not bi if you wouldn't consider having a relationship exclusively with another girl. But that's just my general rule, and general rules don't always work. To be completely honest, you're not "bi" unless you consider yourself bi. As to the threesome, yes, definitely don't do it either way (2 guys or 2 girls) unless you trust your boyfriend completely and are ready to expand your relationship that way.

The thing about sexuality these days is that you don't have to define yourself a certain way just because of your behavior. I mean, I consider myself bi, and I'm a virgin to both sexes. But I've been really sexually attracted to both guys and girls, and would have an exclusive relationship with either if I found the right person. I have a friend who considers himself gay and not bi even though he will occasionally make out with girls. The way you define your sexuality is completely up to you, and no one else.
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deefacex3 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Nahh I don't think you're bi. I went through that phase. I think girls are hot, & some are not, you know? & I honestly like girl porn better than guy. Ahah. But you're not bi unless you'd actually like a girl, or would actually do something with them, either that or you're bi curious. Which is like, you would say girls are hot, but then. Yeah. I hope that helped.
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Belleza (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
No your not bi I do the same thing - I judge girls, I look to see if they are prettier than me or whether they got nicer breasts than I do - it's all natural and I don't like girls I'm straight as can be so I don't think you are your boyfriend is saying your bi cause you should know that its every guys dream to have a threesome meaning girl on girl and guy action so trust me your not bi!
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TheSexyOne
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TheSexyOne (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Maybe you're bi-curious. I don't think your bi. You might just be a little interested. If you are interested. Try it out. If you can even go through with it. You might be a little. But all girls judge girls. Its just what we do. We try not to do it so much because we don't want people to think of us any other way.

But anyways, You're just a little curious. Guys can joke around like that too to try to get what they want. I'm sure he would love a threesome.
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